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We are seeing the same drama but our opinions just are different. For me IH is a coward through and through. SH may have been the love of his life but how can he think that he is finally in the right place when he keeps her as his lover and doesn’t divorce his wife. I don’t think is only because he doesn’t want to loose face but more because he’s selfish. He had the best of 2 worlds, a meek wife at home that takes care of everything, the house, the kids, his mom, his needs (clothes, meals, etc.) and a lover with whom he could have a good time.

In my opinion IH just realized how much Dr. Cha did for him, now that she is no longer a housewife he started to see her value. For me he has always has had feelings for her, you can see it when they got married and also when he help her while they were doing their residency but he has never valued her because he thought she was lucky to marry him and it was her luck to do things for him.

It’s been more than 20 years, at this point it doesn’t matter if they had a night one stand that resulted in marriage. The cheaters are factually cheating since that is the case and also a fact.

IH is a cheater, coward and selfish because he won’t divorce because of the shame not because he cares for his family, he just doesn’t want the “stigma” that comes with divorcing. They may all be happy today if he and SH made better choices. They are no longer younglings that are ruled by hormones, lust and emotions.

Your comment seems like Dr. Cha is at fault and not the IH and SH who are both adults that by all accounts should have matured by this point.

Let’s not forget that SH is not that innocent either, yes they were in love but he dump her and married Dr. Cha, that’s the reality. She choose to be with a married man. She is also a cheater and at this point I don’t even think she’s in love with him, she just wants to win. As per the preview she doesn’t seem ashamed of getting caught by Dr. Cha as she has even ask her to divorce IH, she’s really shameless.

Yes IH mom was not happy about their marriage but respects their marriage partially because she doesn’t want the shame but mostly because Dr. Cha is his wife, she even told SH don’t call me mom and I will only have one daughter in law in this life. She didn’t recognize the lover even when her conditions may have been better.

Anyway that’s my takeaway, I can understand that their marriage came about a one night stand but that can’t justify the affair and make them see in a good light. That’s my opinion.

Yes, their relationship started from a one night stand, but from the get go he was a cheater. He was in a relationship and decided to sleep with Dr. Cha, for what I interpreted SH was doing an internship at the time and it doesn’t seem like Dr. Cha knew they were still together. By the time she is aware, she’s already pregnant and they decide to get married. By the time SH and IH met again, SH knows that he’s married with a child, but still chooses to have unprotected sex with a married man. She also gets pregnant and decides to continue a relationship with IH who is not willing to let his wife know, for me they are both shameless. Yes, SH was IH girlfriend before Dr. Cha but he decided to be with Dr. Cha who has been dedicated to their marriage and doesn’t deserve any of it since he decided to marry her, he should be fateful or divorce but he’s a coward and can’t make a choice since he’s selfish. SH thinks she has more rights than Dr. Cha because she was his gf first but she’s also a selfish coward. Also based on the preview it doesn’t look like SH is sorry for what she has done, she even has the gall to ask Dr. Cha to divorce IH for her to leave the hospital. Isn’t that nice she gets to start at a new hospital get IH and no one will know that she’s such a shameless person. This is just my opinion I don’t feel sorry for either SH or IH, I feel sorry for Dr. Cha and the kids. Both IH and SH are vile humans and awful parents.

I have a question? Do we all agree that Dr. Roy is in love with Dr. Cha? We all are seem to be shipping them, but sometimes I think he cares for her as his patient and colleague but not necessarily is in love with her. Sometimes I think he’s angry about her overall situation but not because he’s in love with her but because of the injustice of it all.

When I saw their backstory I felt bad for So Ra (just for a minute). She’s a horrible person not because she choose to be his mistress but mostly because she’s selfish. She’s knowingly ruining a family ( most fault on him, don’t get me wrong) but she also wants to be the legitimate wife makes her worst. After the preview of ep 11, where she asked Dr. Choi to divorce I can’t feel any sympathy for her. I just hope all things come to light and that everyone learns that they are lovers and even have a daughter together. They are both so shameless, that they deserve to be scorned.

After watching preview for episode 11, I wish she doesn’t divorce quickly and quietly. The gall of the lover asking her to divorce him, just out of spite I wouldn’t.

Yes, I’m between her and WuFei right now.

I really dislike QS, female boss, she’s such a user and a hypocrite, I don’t know why QS still works there. If it wasn’t for QS she would have lost everything because of her reckless ambition and still pays her like that. She’s trash.

Thank you.

I don’t ask with any ill will, just out of curiosity. Are families in Korea usually like this? They are usually similarly portrayed so it makes me wonder. Like MIL are awful, boys are better treated and prefer and usually older siblings have to take care of everyone and it looks like is expected.

I been counting red flags since he first appeared, FL is witty but apparently not in relationships. I don’t think she is so in love with him that she is blind because they have not even kissed yet. I feel that she is trying to be in a relationship with him and ignores the red flags just because she does not want to hurt him like his ex.

This may be an unpopular opinion but FL bff is very annoying. Don’t get me wrong her ex-boyfriend is trash and hopefully karma get him into jail at a minimum.

Per what transpires he beg her to be with him, she believes that she is better than him and treats him like trash. She behaves like a spoiled little girl and always puts him down and always tells him how lucky he is to be with her. She does not do anything and is totally dependent on him and now reality hit her. I hope this makes her stronger and less self-absorb.

In relationships both partners should be equal and you should never put your partner down to fell better, their relationship was very toxic.

I keep reading that the Senior is just plotting and using FL but for some reason I don’t see it. He seem really caring but I have learned you can never tell. But I really wish that Senior and FL start dating for real and ML realizes what he lost and like hopefully is near impossible to get FL attention.

ML ignores her once his “love” comes back, like really ignores her, he uses her when he needs something but would not even answer a text and leaves her hanging. He is a total jerk.

I also have this theory that the girl that Senior dated and left him for a rich guy is actually the 2FL, like you never see her face just the color of her hair and is the same, I may be wrong but she may be getting her karma. She does seem nice and maybe there will be no friction but pretty sure I am wrong, she really is portrayed as a white lotus.

I’m really liking the drama. My wish is for them to move on and find happiness away from each other. The relationship was and is very toxic and not salvageable. They both have suffered so much. Because we are mostly seeing his POV she comes out like a horrible person. I can tell she has been through a lot of pain and is very insecure and that’s why she appears to be cold and is harsh with her words. Sadly, he was immature and couldn’t make her feel safe, so she ended up hurting him. When he told her you always ruin me, is because even though his successful, them breaking up, made him suffer and experience a lot of pain. He’s still depressed, has insomnia and has not been able to move on. Never getting back together is the best that could happen to them.

I really hate how the male lead sister gets away with everything. She’s such an awful person, she’s specially selfish towards the brother that has taken care of her. I get that she’s traumatized over the accident but that’s not really an excuse to be so evil. Also that her husband may actually love her is even worst, I mean how can she actually get to be happy with him in the end, that defies all logic. I hate when they redeem the villain in the end, like there’s no consequences for all the hurt and damage they inflict. How can people forgive and forget so easily, I don’t get it.

I don’t like her either, she’s so desperate. I mean she didn’t like him initially when she thought he was a driver, then she learns he’s the VP and starts obsessing over him. Learns that he’s using her and continues to help him, betrays her BFF and tells him about the trap, causing so much damage to the male lead business and also to the company where her friends work. Her logic was since he help me with the list now I don’t owe anything to you. Girl, you stopped owing anything the minute he used you or the moment he went into your computer and messed up your work. Also how hypocritical of her, she feels guilt over her betrayal so she quits her job and leaves BFF hanging to only return as her competition. I mean she’s not as loathsome as the male leads sister but she’s a close second in my book. Rant over.

After reading the spoilers I’ve been stuck at episode 13, I can’t get through it. So the ex will trick him again and again. He will continue mistreating FL for such a long period. She leaves him on episode 23, so will have to see his bitchy ex for at least 13 episodes. What’s next, years pass and he stays all this while working with the ex, who hopes to get him back while he pines for the FL? Or since he doesn’t know they slept together when she comes back with a kid he starts bullying her again because he thinks is the baby of his BFF. Or another favorite troupe he is almost marrying his ex when she comes back and he pursues her while knowing she has a kid and not caring who’s the father while not breaking up,with the ex. I’m just pissed. I love spoilers just get annoyed with this troupes.

Just my 2 cents,

I feel like the drama focuses so much on QH and SS that is annoying me. I don’t like their relationship and it has nothing to do with the age gap. I just can’t stand that he used her initially and she learned about it, but notwithstanding this fact she betrayed her BFF of many years for a man that was using her and she knew it. The way I see it SS broke their friendship because of guilt, but that guilt was not that bad since she come quickly back to literally compete with her BFF doing a similar business with the man that now is in love with her but used her.

I know right, only on dramas. Like you said I will never willingly meet a person that did that to my brother and more so start chatting like nothing. Also she really has face if I did to an ex I will hide if I by chance meet him, but no she goes to meet him as if nothing ever happen.

From the previous that I saw all the way to chapter 32, the story will be dragging with nonsensical plots. You can really say that crazy attracts crazy. The sister and her bff are both evil scheming biatches and they will be plotting for about 10 chapters that I could see previews of. If I was the FL I would just give up on the relationship, that’s just too exhausting. I’m exhausted of just watching.