At 19, you spent three whole days inside a bear costume for a task related to JMZ. To prevent babies from accidentally falling down the stairs at night when going to the bathroom, you slept at the stairway entrance wearing the costume head for three days straight.
At 23, in a variety show, you interacted normally and sincerely with the female guests, but the show edited you to look like a straight man. In the show, you took care of your partners, patiently guiding them when they struggled, only to face rumors, insults, and cyberbullying from their fans for over three months, even escalating to family attacks.
At 27, you became the 'big brother,' always thinking about the needs of the members in the team. You remember everyone’s preferences and step up when they need help, solving problems perfectly, only to be ignored when you wanted to go sandboarding or watch a ping-pong match. Every time you put the team’s needs before your own, I feel heartbroken for you, for your understanding and sense of responsibility. When I see you try to save team funds by sacrificing your own meals, yet you can’t bear to make others feel uncomfortable, all I want to say is: Hou Minghao, you can be more selfish, even a little spoiled. You can be willful, you can act like a child, and you don’t always have to be so considerate. That way, I’ll feel less heartbroken..."
its just so sad. i too want him to be more selfish for myself, more mindful of his own needs and wants... i think it also speaks a lot of his personality that he still remains like this after all that.
i saw a post on weibo earlier and it said something about his struggles in a variety show (?) when he was 23, which show would that be, does anyone know?
im telling yall something going on between the guard and xingheng's uncle. THERE WAS LITERALLY NO REASON FOR THEM TO SHOW US THAT TORTURE SCENE IN THE DUNGEONS, WHERE GENERAL BAI PASSES BY AND SEES HIM OTHERWISE?
am I the only one who ships the gaurd and ML's uncle😅
NO CAUSE I NOTICED IT TOO? at first i was like, yeah this is me acting up with my shipping syndrome BUT NO, ITS KIND OF IMPLIED? THAT SCENE WITH THE UMBRELLA? hm hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
i don't think it's only jjy fans. he just worded some things wrongly i didn't really see the issue maybe beacause…
im still lost abt the whole thing, he got upset because people called him out over something he said (about her?) and well, going by what some people said in the comments here, he said he's removing the scene (or did he say he wasnt filming it anymore?)
aside from all that, sorry for the many questions 😭😭, why are people afraid this is going to be bad for tjr and jjy?
its so bothering that we know almost nothing abt xiao yao. wang duo is the sml in it right? what's his role or well, relationship and whatnot with hong ye? HOW DO WE NOT KNOW ANYTHING 😭😭 they're really gatekeeping this and i am So so curious
"Hou Minghao, please try to prioritize yourself.
At 19, you spent three whole days inside a bear costume for a task related to JMZ. To prevent babies from accidentally falling down the stairs at night when going to the bathroom, you slept at the stairway entrance wearing the costume head for three days straight.
At 23, in a variety show, you interacted normally and sincerely with the female guests, but the show edited you to look like a straight man. In the show, you took care of your partners, patiently guiding them when they struggled, only to face rumors, insults, and cyberbullying from their fans for over three months, even escalating to family attacks.
At 27, you became the 'big brother,' always thinking about the needs of the members in the team. You remember everyone’s preferences and step up when they need help, solving problems perfectly, only to be ignored when you wanted to go sandboarding or watch a ping-pong match.
Every time you put the team’s needs before your own, I feel heartbroken for you, for your understanding and sense of responsibility. When I see you try to save team funds by sacrificing your own meals, yet you can’t bear to make others feel uncomfortable, all I want to say is:
Hou Minghao, you can be more selfish, even a little spoiled. You can be willful, you can act like a child, and you don’t always have to be so considerate.
That way, I’ll feel less heartbroken..."
its just so sad. i too want him to be more selfish for myself, more mindful of his own needs and wants... i think it also speaks a lot of his personality that he still remains like this after all that.
??? anyone got a translation for this?
aside from all that, sorry for the many questions 😭😭, why are people afraid this is going to be bad for tjr and jjy?
also. 🧍♀️why tf is he Also mad?