I kinda understand why Haein refuses to take Hyunwoo kindness - she someone who going to die soo, so rekindling their love would to her just cause more pain- as she would then would want to live- and she had given up in that area. - plus she doesn't want to make Hyunwoo cry anymore or sad
Anyway they both failed to communicate - we can see they were cold to each other - waiting for one of them to approach
I think Seo Yea Ji acts too standoffish and her yelling doesn't have the same power as Kim Ji won. Kim Ji won acting is amazing - doesn't seem forced or harsh it's seem cold and cute
I think the problem some people here have is that, while we are being shown Hyun Woo on a guilt trip throughout…
Fair Hyunwoo only tried to speak about on the day she found out about the divorce I don't think Hyunwoo needs to tell her where it went wrong - as she is aware - however I think Haein thought that even though their relationship was pretty much dead he would stick around to the end. I believe Haein refusing to save her marriage because she thinks she's 100% going to die- in her head she doesn't want to make Hyunwoo more ' miserable ' as she is someone who is going to leave. Haein knows Hyunwoo feelings - she realised she that the day under the umbrella - she was focused on taking revenge but she told him she will divorce him because she was fully aware that she loves him and he loves her. But when. She started to lose important memories she thought she had no hope. Hence her choice of vocabulary ' how I made your life miserable' she has now refused to do so. They will communicate in now ... hopefully we have to wait and see
Its not about the acting though, its just that some people do not understand Haeins character...And title her…
I'm sure she will apologise, but considering the fact she is dying she probably doesn't want Hyunwoo to burdened and just hate her till the end. Because she loves him that much and it's easier to leave that way
Its not about the acting though, its just that some people do not understand Haeins character...And title her…
Yes fine let's go with her inability to communicate. However how is she going to trust someone who's actions and love started off again on the fact that he could get a peaceful divorce- at the point she was heartbroken, because she probably thought her illness which is a misfortune, did only one good thing brought their broken relationship back from the dead. But to know that all his actions were a lie- and to listen to him explain that it was lie or started off as a lie isn't something anyone wants to hear. If he wanted a divorce he could have just said so, he started to confuse her , awoke feelings. Although we know he genuinely cares for her , but that wasn't his initial intention. Also communication comes from both sides, when they lost their child, she said things she shouldn't have In grief and in hyunwoo also made a choice to move rooms and step away. They both lack communication. They were unhappy with the turn their relationship has taken. Also yes they lacked communication but Haein trust in Hyunwoo was greater than his- she never wavered. He believed grace straight away about the Will without questioning it.
Yes she Audited him- but I believe she knew she wasn't going to find anything; she did it in the moment of anger.
This is my stance about Haein, there a lot more. But honestly both of them were at fault with their relationship.
Apologies in advance for the long post.Yet another great episode! This is such a solid, smart, engaging drama…
Righhht well said!! She said to Yoo Eung sang " she divorced him because she felt sorry, for everything he went through with her" which made me think she doesn't want to burden him with her death and it would be best to live like this. Also those two osts are gold!!!!
Honestly I can't understand why some people are defending one side and hating the other. I was even surprised…
Honestly! Rather than humiliation I thought of it as both doing their jobs and keeping their personal lifes and work lives differently.. They both lacked communication and they never spoke up, about their grief.
Another thing is that the Male lead knew the type of women he was marrying he knew the FL was a little lacking in her communication skills and would not say things directly- things she liked or hate.
She mentioned that love was not people whispering happy words, but about sticking around when things become tough - that's something she learnt from him, and I believe that is why she waited for it him to come around.
I agree that Male lead had lost motive and had become unhappy when his marriage fell apart, and his in-laws treated him disrespectfully. But even though she does not do it Infront of him she does stand for him. I do believe she should have stood up for him a bit more and been more vocal about it and firm especially during that family meeting she did disappoint me there.
But She cares for him and trust him, over her whole family. Although I was a little disappointed how he believed grace about the Will.
Similarly I agree the Male lead still cares for and loves her it was just buried by the long break and lost in the loveless and difficult household, he hated living there as he felt no one there appreciated or loved him.
Both just needed to communicate
P.S can't wait for the people to bash me - instead of arguing why don't we just share our points and sides like a debate- a kind and civil debate
Also how is her husband going to be truthful to her, He can say he grew to hate their relationship and it felt suffocating so he wanted to divorce her But will he say he was happy she was going to die as he thought it was an easy way out of their marriage
I have a theory, regarding Suwan (dead brother) I don't think he was the one who saved Haein, I think It was Yoon eun sang, or someone else because the person didn't look like Suwan. If it was Yoon Eun Sang I think he then killed the older brother in water.
Anyway they both failed to communicate - we can see they were cold to each other - waiting for one of them to approach
I don't think Hyunwoo needs to tell her where it went wrong - as she is aware - however I think Haein thought that even though their relationship was pretty much dead he would stick around to the end.
I believe Haein refusing to save her marriage because she thinks she's 100% going to die- in her head she doesn't want to make Hyunwoo more ' miserable ' as she is someone who is going to leave. Haein knows Hyunwoo feelings - she realised she that the day under the umbrella - she was focused on taking revenge but she told him she will divorce him because she was fully aware that she loves him and he loves her. But when. She started to lose important memories she thought she had no hope. Hence her choice of vocabulary ' how I made your life miserable' she has now refused to do so.
They will communicate in now ... hopefully we have to wait and see
Also I hope this not just centered around the Male lead fixing stuff- I hope its a joint effort.
Also yes they lacked communication but Haein trust in Hyunwoo was greater than his- she never wavered. He believed grace straight away about the Will without questioning it.
Yes she Audited him- but I believe she knew she wasn't going to find anything; she did it in the moment of anger.
This is my stance about Haein, there a lot more. But honestly both of them were at fault with their relationship.
Another thing is that the Male lead knew the type of women he was marrying he knew the FL was a little lacking in her communication skills and would not say things directly- things she liked or hate.
She mentioned that love was not people whispering happy words, but about sticking around when things become tough - that's something she learnt from him, and I believe that is why she waited for it him to come around.
I agree that Male lead had lost motive and had become unhappy when his marriage fell apart, and his in-laws treated him disrespectfully. But even though she does not do it Infront of him she does stand for him. I do believe she should have stood up for him a bit more and been more vocal about it and firm especially during that family meeting she did disappoint me there.
But She cares for him and trust him, over her whole family. Although I was a little disappointed how he believed grace about the Will.
Similarly I agree the Male lead still cares for and loves her it was just buried by the long break and lost in the loveless and difficult household, he hated living there as he felt no one there appreciated or loved him.
Both just needed to communicate
P.S can't wait for the people to bash me - instead of arguing why don't we just share our points and sides like a debate- a kind and civil debate
He can say he grew to hate their relationship and it felt suffocating so he wanted to divorce her
But will he say he was happy she was going to die as he thought it was an easy way out of their marriage