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  • Join Date: June 8, 2023
  • Awards Received: Flower Award1
This drama is far better than it gets credit for. viewers might have dismissed it as slow, boring or unexciting drama because they were expecting the usual BL tropes. But starting from episode two or three, it becomes clear that this is more than just a BL. it’s the story of a man entering his forties, struggling with fears of aging, unfulfilled dreams, and the comfort zone that keeps him from pursuing the love he truly desires, which happens to be with another man.
What makes this series a good choice to watch is its thoughtful character development and emotional depth. Instead of relying on clichés or rushing into romance, it takes the time to explore what it means to step into a relationship at a vulnerable stage in life.
The directing, pacing, and performances were all solid, and the chemistry between the couple was good.
If you’re looking for a character-driven BL with a slower pace and more substance than the usual formula, this series is absolutely worth watching.
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On Secret Lover Oct 1, 2025
Title Secret Lover
The rating for this series could have easily been at least an 8. It was a good drama overall. The theme might have been a bit cliché, but the directing was really well done. Even though the story was predictable, it was still enjoyable and that’s what mattered. The couple was lovable, and I’m genuinely glad I watched it. I’ll probably rewatch it, too.
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Replying to Its Rare Oct 1, 2025
I just finished the series, and honestly, it’s one of the best BL dramas I’ve ever watched from Gmmtv. The…
Ps. I know Sarin and Great end up their partnership and I really blame some fans and the company. Nowadays
It often doesn’t matter how well a series is directed, how carefully the scenes are crafted, or how high the overall quality is, fans tend to focus primarily on their favorite couple and their visuals.
As a result, the voting and popularity often reflect fan preferences for pairings rather than the show’s actual artistic merit.
Production companies pick up on this feedback and, in turn, invest more attention in the couples favored by fans.
And like this.. we lose good couples with really good skills in bl industry. But im happy for them to choose wisely for their future. They both deserve best things. 🫶🏼
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On Memoir of Rati Oct 1, 2025
I just finished the series, and honestly, it’s one of the best BL dramas I’ve ever watched from Gmmtv.
The chemistry between the main and second couple was amazing. I know some people might disagree, but for me, their chemistry felt perfect.
The storyline was beautiful. Simple, sometimes slow-paced, without unnecessary drama, but I think that’s exactly what made it so charming and smooth to watch. Unlike many other BLs, there wasn’t an annoying, clingy female character, no childish misunderstandings, and no illogical jealousy. They talked things through like two grown men and solved their problems.
There weren’t constant breakups or immature sacrifices for others,
choosing to fight for their love instead of sacrificing it.
The dialogues were brilliant, and in terms of directing, costume design, color tones, scenery, and locations, everything was beautifully done.Specially their skill to talk French was awesome. and also they use native french people and its really professional.
The limited use of NC scenes was another strength, fitting the atmosphere of the story perfectly without overdoing it. Its suitable for the historical background of series.

also I loved the second couple and the way love pushed them to grow. I admired how Dech chose to stay with the person who made him feel good and helped him move forward.

Yes, everything ended well, but we know that in reality, couples back in those times didn’t often get such happy endings. I hope this series can serve as a small comfort for those who, because of society’s views, couldn’t be with the ones they loved.
Thank you, Sarin,Great,Auo and Boom and other artists for making this historical theme series based on social disturbances.
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On Memoir of Rati Sep 29, 2025
I start this and Im just out of mind. its really perfect. I love these old vibe dramas and now i have bl in this theme. IM SO HAPPY.
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Replying to Angry Bird Sep 29, 2025
Person Kim Soo Hyun
Imagine, for a moment, that you are a parent, and your child – Kim Soo Hyun – is judged, branded, and condemned…
perfect cm
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Replying to dohpamine Sep 29, 2025
Kyungsoo is eating this role up, wowCan't wait for JCW and Kyungsoo's scenes together 🔥
EXACTLY! He is so talented
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Replying to KloaKloa Sep 28, 2025
Is he straight???
Idk about his real life sexuality. but not all bl actors are gay. mostly they are straight
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Replying to wan Sep 28, 2025
His acting was fine. His chemistry with Kevin is good. Saying he looks straight is fine but to say he didn’t…
ofc its subjective!!!! because its my comment and my opinion dude. i dont write " in all people opinion" in my cm. so yeah its subjective and its my feelings. you have opposite feelings and its fine 🙏🏼
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Replying to Its Rare Sep 28, 2025
he is not sick or something its just how he look like. and we are not blind dude... we just have logic and we…
you suffer from narcissist delulu. go to doctor
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On My Bias Is Showing?! Sep 27, 2025
choi siyeol actor is one of the actors I see that is not good for BL. his straight feelings were all over the show. he cannot even look at Ae Joon with sincere eyes. so cold. BUT I really enjoy this show. I love both couples and the scenario was clichè but in a good way. soft and simple. also Im happy for Kevin. he is so talented
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On My Stubborn Special Episode Sep 23, 2025
OMG! Normally I dont like bls that they focus on Nc scenes but I think they are the couple that I enjoy their scenes so much! they really nail it! one the best performances i see so far. love them 😁🧡
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Replying to CrystalBai Sep 23, 2025
Person Yu Meng Long
Yea, LOL believing what the CCP says is a red flag right there. Look at what is actually happening, why are social…
Exactly, Im not going to be silent about this although there a lot of fake accounts here that they attack us but idc about them. as you said we focus on that. thanks for your reasanable reply
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Replying to Yu Meng Long Sep 23, 2025
Person Yu Meng Long
Replying to deleted comment
If you cant understand my English Im sorry I cannot speak better. so keep on others talking we cannot talk in this issue
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Replying to Its Rare Sep 23, 2025
Person Yu Meng Long
unfortunately no, the case is closed by police and they cover it with alcohol reason and being drunk and fell…
talking to you is like talking to a wall. you understand nothing im sorry
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On Yu Meng Long Sep 23, 2025
Person Yu Meng Long
Im tired of some people here wants to cover up other people screaming for justice. i think some people who knows nothing about this country and its government and know nothing about communits should not involve themselves in this cases. because they think everything is like their own free and full democracy media. NO PEOPLE NO! In some countries we suffer from censorship, from dictatorship, from governments that cover up everything so easily. please let people talk about it. her letter in Weibo (Weibo is a chinese with open access to government and Xiaumi phones). dont comment without knowledge please.
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Replying to Its Rare Sep 23, 2025
Person Yu Meng Long
unfortunately no, the case is closed by police and they cover it with alcohol reason and being drunk and fell…
so thats why you know nothing about censorship and political facts about china and countries like them like Russia, Iran and Turkiye. you as a British person have rights for your media. in those countries nothing going to spread there if one politician or one industry involved in that. please dont cover up crimes like this when they happen in countries that they close their own people mouth. sources in those countries are not reliable. its like Mahsa Amini death in Iran for Islamic Hijab and then the government said she had illness!
sometimes sources are not spread originally from specific media or news!
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