Yup effeminate and BL are not the same thing definitely......idk why people would put those two together. But…
Actually I don’t understand why they think the opposite of effeminate is muscular man. For me, the opposite of effeminate is a short bald man with belly bouncing out 😂
Do you guys remember the story called ‘Ox Eats Grass’ told by MR to XiaSini? It was about an oxheard boy who kept being blamed and punished for his master and his master’s son’s faults? That story…was a way of MR telling about his childhood right?
I am not familiar with the last two…
And imagine how TXJ will react being called effeminate 😂
Or maybe read the novel…