Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
there is no need to look from her pov..! you only said that she was immature back then..! and no one wants to take immature decision..! more precisely..! π
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
She is working part-time (that money merely enought to pay her rent.! or her personal needs..! but Jungo already started his work (full-time) in his dream poet's office.! which gives more financial balance and stability for their future (if they didn't have broken up..) then they would've been the most loving couple..! but all this was happened because of her stupid rash decision..! without any thinking or reason/logic..!
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
"Jungo should have tried to get her back..?" - firstly, most of the South Korean women blocks their ex's mobile number, SNS, Insta whatsoever social media immediately after break-up..! that's why Jungo being clever, writes a letter and puts it in her guitar..! eventhough she reads a bit late., the date and day mentioned in the letter shows his feelings were genuine mostly quick..!
secondly, if she really feels depressed and had enough of this relationship, she mustn't have any romantic feelings for him anymore but here it's not the case..! she at first tried to completely cut off with Jungo by telling him that she is going to get married..!, I felt very happy that atleast she is trying to move on in her life and finds her own happiness..! but later..? she shamelessly says all that s**** words to MJ and kills his hope as well..! and you are saying that she has done very well..!
again after breaking MJ's heart with that shit..,(previously she left the get-together In the restaurant with Hikari sensei (Jungo) in a bit of a hurry because she is too embarassed..! and went to MJ's place, then again after breaking his heart, she again shamelessly comes to Jungo's hotel..!
I mean to ask..! what does she actually want ? she wants to get back with Jungo or what ? or she want a closure ??? Her mindset is weird..! her ideology confusing..! her immaturity is insane (after all these 5 years also) her reason for breakup (5 years ago) is disgusting.., Her character is questionable..! totally Her complete state of mind is..! UGH..! π΅βπ«π«¨ GOD KNOWS..!!!
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
you know what ? she (CH) said in her inner prologue that "Can Love itself enough for one's relationship" repeatedly..!
in my opinion yes..! it is..! why because.., when two people in a relationship understands one another, shares their pain or when one person is constantly trying to improve their relationship by financially aiding.., then the other person must be understanding regardless of culture, or whatsoever..! but she never agreed to his hardships..! (being a cheater or a slacking person is another type..!) but he is very hardworking (only for her and for their relationship..!) she just talked the most selfish way and broke up with him..! (personally for me those Reasons for her break-up seemed very childish and dumb..! sorry for that..! π )
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
so tell me..! you have written the conversation very clearly..! Kudos to that πππ
now tell me.! the words CH used here.., are they even correct..? after how Min Jun stayed by her in her most deadliest time ? is that even necessary to talk all this s**** shit before him ? or did MJ really deserve all this ?
I know she is very weird but atleast she should've respected MJ..! shame on her..! it may seem the word s**** word is way too misogynistic..! but her actions can't denied either..! so yupp..! π
Unhealthy lessons learned from trauma leading to a breakdown in communication. Classic really.
So by this we can come to a conclusion that it's not at all his wrong..! it's only her who didn't understand him enough..! she never talked about his parents with him..! like what kind of a mother his mom was.., what type of relationship he has with his mother and all..! all she do is talking trash and misunderstanding things..! now she even talked mean to Min Jun also like a slut..! I mean who in the world can talk like that ? like even if we are married and had children happily, I'll go behind him when he appears (like she said her heart will drop means in other words it's the only meaning..!) like see how slutty her words are..!
she really doesn't have the right to talk about those things there..! girl..! you can't two time at the same time..!…
if she doesn't know if she is really over Jungo or not or if she is uncertain about her current thing with Min Jun are not at all concerned..! what she said was not at all ethical..! if she doesn't get over Jungo then she should have said as it is..! but she said what ? "eventhough I'm married to you and had kids with you.., if he comes infront of me then my heart will drop..?" like put yourself in Hong's husband's shoes..! if your wife really says like that after you got married and had kids..,what will you do after hearing those things ?(if that's happened before your marriage definitely you'll call of the wedding and if it's happened after you had kids with her.., you'll definitely kill her β οΈ) mark this thing..! when she said those things, she really looked like a slut to me..!
First Love is something else man, even after 10 years people don't forget their first love. It doesn't mean they…
yes..! if a man does it.., then he is also considered flawed and When compared to a woman, a man don't stop right there.., he'll do more mistakes in his flawness..! so he deserves to be killed..!
It was wrong of her to talk like that, but you also shouldn't call her a slut over this. Emotions are something…
she said it already..! she said "eventhough if she married Min Jun and had three kids with him.., then after if she sees Jungo coincidentally, her heart will drop means what ? despite everything she had, she will shamelessly leave everything and will follow her ex..! otherwise she shouldnt've said that..! π
firstly, most of the South Korean women blocks their ex's mobile number, SNS, Insta whatsoever social media immediately after break-up..! that's why Jungo being clever, writes a letter and puts it in her guitar..! eventhough she reads a bit late., the date and day mentioned in the letter shows his feelings were genuine mostly quick..!
secondly, if she really feels depressed and had enough of this relationship, she mustn't have any romantic feelings for him anymore but here it's not the case..! she at first tried to completely cut off with Jungo by telling him that she is going to get married..!, I felt very happy that atleast she is trying to move on in her life and finds her own happiness..! but later..? she shamelessly says all that s**** words to MJ and kills his hope as well..! and you are saying that she has done very well..!
No matter what she had done.., Playing with both men's feelings is completely outrageous..! she must have thought it herself before playing both of them..! jungo is sincere but she turned him a blind eye..! MJ is loving but she said all those slutty words..!(involving MJ) she told Jungo that she is getting married (indirectly involving her fianceΓ© MJ..!!)
again after breaking MJ's heart with that shit..,(previously she left the get-together In the restaurant with Hikari sensei (Jungo) in a bit of a hurry because she is too embarassed..! and went to MJ's place, then again after breaking his heart, she again shamelessly comes to Jungo's hotel..!
I mean to ask..! what does she actually want ? she wants to get back with Jungo or what ? or she want a closure ??? Her mindset is weird..! her ideology confusing..! her immaturity is insane (after all these 5 years also) her reason for breakup (5 years ago) is disgusting.., Her character is questionable..! totally Her complete state of mind is..! UGH..! π΅βπ«π«¨ GOD KNOWS..!!!
PS: sorry for anything could've hurted you - this is solely my pov nothing else..!
in my opinion yes..! it is..!
why because.., when two people in a relationship understands one another, shares their pain or when one person is constantly trying to improve their relationship by financially aiding.., then the other person must be understanding regardless of culture, or whatsoever..! but she never agreed to his hardships..! (being a cheater or a slacking person is another type..!) but he is very hardworking (only for her and for their relationship..!) she just talked the most selfish way and broke up with him..! (personally for me those Reasons for her break-up seemed very childish and dumb..! sorry for that..! π )
now tell me.! the words CH used here.., are they even correct..? after how Min Jun stayed by her in her most deadliest time ? is that even necessary to talk all this s**** shit before him ? or did MJ really deserve all this ?
I know she is very weird but atleast she should've respected MJ..! shame on her..! it may seem the word s**** word is way too misogynistic..! but her actions can't denied either..! so yupp..! π
and there is no regret for me saying it..!
but luckily here the ML is Gold..! π
thanks man.! π«