Hm please define "romantic chemistry between the leads" . I see romantic chemistry, it is 10000% there,…
i will do an extreme comparison. mustache guy from germany. the rest of the world thinks he is a demon while his double letters officers, he is an angel. its the reason why humans are so diverse we see things the same but somehow interprets it differently. we are lost cause.
i had to rewrite my statement. contrary to what you are saying. its pretty realistic to be stuck on something..…
I feel like you’re more in love with the concept of love than its reality. When I watch dramas, I don’t expect them to be perfect reflections of real life—they’re written to spark curiosity and emotional engagement. For example, I’ve read that exes getting back together is actually quite common (The Good Men Project: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/how-often-do-exes-get-back-together-exact-survey-results-kpkn/). I try not to project my own romantic ideals onto the story because it’s the writer’s expression, not a real-life script.
I understand that men often take longer to get over breakups compared to women. I read that early romantic experiences leave strong neural marks, and men sometimes deal with breakups through denial and rumination instead of closure. Still, most people—about 71%—recover within three months (NBC News: https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/why-men-may-make-take-longer-get-over-their-exes-ncna799791).
I think you might be projecting personal experiences—maybe being hurt by someone you idealized as a "Chad"—onto the general picture. From what I see, most of those negative ideas about men aren’t real but exist mainly in our minds. It helps to set aside those biases and see things more clearly. Personally, I don’t see myself as attractive, but I often get confessed to. I usually reject those advances because I don’t think I can handle being with someone. I grew up in a broken family, so my idea of complete love is flawed. I did fall in love once, but I chose not to pursue it because of my own issues. At the end of the day, it’s just a drama—nothing that deep. Let’s just enjoy it and not overthink it.
i am 50/50 with this series. the screenwriter of this show likes to throw curveballs out of nowhere and fk everything up. from the title in korean it seems the girl is waiting for the boy.. whether to have closure or start love again.. idk. i watched the first episode.. the girl is a redflag.. you never get into relationship with unstable people.. coz you both suffer. thats why i ended a future relationship that i would have. . coz i think it will not workout when we are both unstable people..
I know when consuming fiction/entertainment you are supposed to suspend disbelief to some portion but OMG I can't…
i had to rewrite my statement. contrary to what you are saying. its pretty realistic to be stuck on something.. coz we are humans. just like girls with daddy issues almost never fails and 100% dates redflag guys over and over again. it will eventually comeback to everything that you do.. that's why we need closure.. in everything..
well stay put brother.. she hasnt had sex with any of her boyfriends (assumption) .. with the 2nd episode idk. im too afraid to know if this is ntr.. i hope not..
the last line on episode six. "with someone that dazzling ,,, there's no way i can measure up" this line pretty much hits what i'm experiencing currently. i think im in love with this girl on the gym that i never spoke to but i knew everything about her from her friends and blog that she written when she was in first year in college. i can't stalk her on social media coz she has private account which i tried messaging but fb messnger sux balls. we had some tension few weeks back when we stared at each other for 5 mins. i lost all my courage to come talk to her after that. but following weeks she is the one approaching me. then suddenly she stops coming to the gym for about 2 weeks now.. my source of insecurities is my sht health currently and im pretty much a bum coz of it.. im cooked. pls let this series have happy ending.🤦
what kind of NTR? Im thinking of watching this but I hate NTR so much, please spoil me so I can decide should…
well this series in general is kind of ntr coz fl is having sexual relations with other people. if you are icky about this stuff i suggest watching the first episode then if you like it.. continue if not drop it. i still suggest watching this coz its not explicit or written on a dirty manner. its sort of breath of fresh air on typical jp drama so give it a try.
Is it just me, or is there no chemistry between the female and male lead? I mean they're both cute and their acting…
i always see this kind of comment in mdl. its like we are watching 2 different shts. the thing is. if you watched the non ecchi jp dramas specially the older ones the most you can see is holding hands. you dont see the lovey dovey type like coffee and vanilla or some sht . the same in here. despite the weird premise on this series of how loose the fl is. there is almost no skinship interaction between leads. it is that way to differentiate what lust and love is. their simple aquarium date is what normal people who are getting to know each other does. chemistry between leads always is subjective to the person watching it due to each person has a set of ideals of love and whatnot.
i was put off how good their uncle was when they were kids.. now that they are adults he goes off gambling and stealing their money.. wtf. complete 360... people below complaining plot is slow.. this is thai drama.. that says everything you need to know.. just like nubdao said.. just focus on living the present .. in this case just focus on each episodes not the whole thing..
You know what, I don't regret watching it. It was pretty obvious this would have an OE so I was already ready…
bro there's nothing realistic on the misunderstanding on this drama. you talk in real life . and social media exist for a reason. its as if they made those weird misunderstanding and made it a focal point of bs.
In the sea of FL centric drama world, these kind of ML centric drama are very very rare.But i still have same…
ml is pretty much a grey character. its not morally good and not also bad which basically makes this drama fresh .. the ratings pretty much reflects why we need grey characters in kdrama. hyperknife and this drama is god's gift to humanity. usually in grey characters , villains are stale main lead has no moral compass. it needs to be that way for it to be balanced.
I’ve also looked into ideas around male celibacy and relationships. Contrary to the popular belief that the most attractive men dominate sexual activity, research shows that only about 50-60% of encounters involve the top 20% of never-married young men, and this has stayed steady over time (Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless).
I understand that men often take longer to get over breakups compared to women. I read that early romantic experiences leave strong neural marks, and men sometimes deal with breakups through denial and rumination instead of closure. Still, most people—about 71%—recover within three months (NBC News: https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/why-men-may-make-take-longer-get-over-their-exes-ncna799791).
I think you might be projecting personal experiences—maybe being hurt by someone you idealized as a "Chad"—onto the general picture. From what I see, most of those negative ideas about men aren’t real but exist mainly in our minds. It helps to set aside those biases and see things more clearly.
Personally, I don’t see myself as attractive, but I often get confessed to. I usually reject those advances because I don’t think I can handle being with someone. I grew up in a broken family, so my idea of complete love is flawed. I did fall in love once, but I chose not to pursue it because of my own issues. At the end of the day, it’s just a drama—nothing that deep. Let’s just enjoy it and not overthink it.
"with someone that dazzling ,,, there's no way i can measure up"
this line pretty much hits what i'm experiencing currently. i think im in love with this girl on the gym that i never spoke to but i knew everything about her from her friends and blog that she written when she was in first year in college. i can't stalk her on social media coz she has private account which i tried messaging but fb messnger sux balls. we had some tension few weeks back when we stared at each other for 5 mins. i lost all my courage to come talk to her after that. but following weeks she is the one approaching me. then suddenly she stops coming to the gym for about 2 weeks now.. my source of insecurities is my sht health currently and im pretty much a bum coz of it.. im cooked. pls let this series have happy ending.🤦
its sort of breath of fresh air on typical jp drama so give it a try.
their simple aquarium date is what normal people who are getting to know each other does.
chemistry between leads always is subjective to the person watching it due to each person has a set of ideals of love and whatnot.
the thing that differs is age of consent.. 💀