you can't force people to go against their will even when they're in a bad place.
to continue to convince them they need to do what they don't want to do is just as much torture as the abuse they accept.
Plant the seed of hope, let them know if they need you, you'll be there. but don't badger them and tell them they're a fool for not leaving.
because they will not leave until they are tired and have changed their own mind.
pulling someone away from what they accept is a waste of your time.
because you've pulled them away from a situation but haven't changed their mind that the situatiom is unacceptable.
you can not help people who don't want to be helped.
Shengyi, didn't want help, she didn't want to leave her husband. she just did not want to be sold to the brothel. that's why she accepted Mudan's help. outside of that she still longed for her abusive husband regardless of the pain and shame he caused her.
why does Se Young and Jin Gu's conversation sound so irritating and disgusting. they way they speak is annoying. it's very rhythmic and exaggerated. or is it just me. lol I think I just hate these 2 people maybe that's why
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to continue to convince them they need to do what they don't want to do is just as much torture as the abuse they accept.
Plant the seed of hope, let them know if they need you, you'll be there. but don't badger them and tell them they're a fool for not leaving.
because they will not leave until they are tired and have changed their own mind.
pulling someone away from what they accept is a waste of your time.
because you've pulled them away from a situation but haven't changed their mind that the situatiom is unacceptable.
you can not help people who don't want to be helped.
Shengyi, didn't want help, she didn't want to leave her husband. she just did not want to be sold to the brothel. that's why she accepted Mudan's help. outside of that she still longed for her abusive husband regardless of the pain and shame he caused her.
this is a real life lesson.
FL & ML treat each other equally.
he doesn't beat her, harm her, treat her like trash then they fall in love.
she doesn't disrespect him, argue over everything, yell all the time or whine when she's with him
their relationship is actually being built and they're getting to know each other
FL isn't continuously being mistreated like in Pearl Girl, Brocade Odyssey, and Flourished Peony
ML & FL are good people
the women aren't fighting each other
the good people are smarter than the bad people
these things are good for our mental health. 😂 seriously
She has to find a proper time to do so or she won't get a second chance.
I don't eat weasel and I can't embroider.
but who knew our girl is an all around queen of all trades
thankfully I watched it before I read your comment... total spoiler. 😂
for a historical costume drama, he sure does change his accessories often. Ep 1 he changed his earring. Ep 2 he changed his headband and earring .
🤔 interesting, very historically metro sexual lol