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This drama is about sensitive topic "marriage"

I just want to know how much abuse a person (irrespective of gender) must go through in a relationship until other person realises something is wrong?. Especially when other person clearly aware something is wrong still turn blind eye towards it.

I don't know how much open mind needed to overlook emotional abuse and humiliation in a relationship.

Writers clearly has chance to save hyunwoo from getting burnt but they intentionally let him get burned and act as this is nothing because they has ointment (love another's name) to apply on it. It will heal everything. But what about scar it leaves?. Sweet memories?.

People keep saying they both are equally at fault. Which is not really. Hyunwoo only fault is not able to communicate his problems but clearly their is a logical reasoning for that "her cold treatment towards him" which pushes him away and away.

What about haein? She has many faults from her side. One among them is her cold treatment towards hyunwoo. Simply why? What's the logical reasoning for that behavior especially when he is her love of life?.

Giving happy ending to this drama is nothing but gaslighting audience that "Love can conquer everything" just hang on, no matter how much abuse, humiliation you gone through everything is worth.

Why kdramas always highlights only love in relationships? What about other things like trust, honesty, loyalty? In reality clearly these three plays more important role in relationship than love.

I don't want him to be a hero. They just not worth his time.

I just want him to live a life he desired. I'm sure he definitely imagined one when he decided to divorce haein.

I also can overlook lot of things and be unbiased if they have given minimum respect towards hyunwoo pains, hurt and abuse he gone through. Instead, they treated it as nothing and rushed entire story into next phase.

I'm sure they will never address it again and focuses more on sympathizing, empathizing with haein character in upcoming eps. Hyunwoo character arc in that relationship is clearly over, he did everything he can. He will be just a bystander.

In the end fl brain stopped working, she clearly wavered (not romantically yet) after ml brother entered into her life. She simply can't resist him and attracted to him like a magnet even against ml wishes.

Married life with these kind of personality will be full of adventures and thrillers.

Because i tried. Ep 7 reached my limit.

Writers clearly written off hyunwoo pains and hurt are nothing and they didn't even let him defend himself when he still has a chance.

Also i can't overlook the fact that she turned blind eye even after knowing hyunwoo is not getting treated properly by her family members.

I know everything needed to move story forward and character development can happen later but for once i expected refreshing take towards this situation but they followed very old routine
template. Which really disappointed me.

But i don't have any intention to drop it, as I'm much interested in how they will take story forward from here onwards but I'll binge watch remaining eps after airing completed.

They needed to, otherwise its really hard for me to root for her after everything hyunwoo gone through in Ep 7.

Also do you really feel that they won't use memory loss plot anymore in upcoming eps?.

I felt once memory lapses started its never ending cycle unless writers ignore it conveniently.

Anyway don't worry. I will disappear from this comment section before next ep release. I already decided to kept this drama on hold until airing completed.

I really feared people will call me "misogynistic" if i keep taking hyunwoo side.

If you have troubles or have problems with your husband, go to a carpenter shop, mechanic shop, or reach out a painter and fuck them until all your energy drained. All your problems will go away automatically. Repeat the same.

Then what about real main male lead role in this whole mess?

Is he not that much useful or her 2nd marriage happened before he entered into her life?

It's not miscommunication, its lack of communication. She is the one who made promise to take care of him after marriage but completely forget it.

A warm word i didn't watched. Remaining 2 i watched, writers somehow tried to justify wife cheating.

Then what is the reason for her cold treatment towards hyunwoo?. It makes no sense.

Now come to think of, the main reason she always defend hyunwoo from family
members is to prove her decision making is correct rather than she genuinely love him.

I think at some point she completely stopped thinking about hyunwoo and kept herself as top priority like hyunwoo did.

For Hyunwoo its inevitable, he is someone who stepped back to marry her after knowing her rich family background.

Why she not doing samething with ml. Not expecting anything useful from him?.

Another thing i observed throughout 8 eps, fl is more smiling and more expressive, when she is with 2ml even though rejecting his advances and getting offended with his bold remarks.

Absolutely cold and moody face when she is with ml for most the scenes. It was like "don't mess with me written in her face". No wonder, he feared to open up to her in first 4,5 eps.

Oh, thank you.

This drama storyline and character arcs are same like my personality "absolutely pathetic ".

Somehow i enjoyed watching it.

But as per comments i read below, her 2nd husband was obsessed with her, how come he doesn't take advantage after marrying her?.

So her 2md marriage is just namesake without sexual relationship?

Wow, mind blowing story 😂.

My heart is too sensitive to deal with these kind of crazy makjangs.

You saved me and my time 👍.

Instead of simply wrapping things, Cdramas gets over ambitious at ending dramas.