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Man, At this stage of their relationship, Song Yan has nothing no offer aside from daily bills and love for her!

Everyt time he will asked Xu Qin, she will still reject him thousand times. She enjoyed living in a rich lifestyle, there is too much risk in abandoning everything you grew up with in order to be with him.

Is there any valid reason why SY doesnt want to tell Xu Qin for what happen to him for the last 10 years? What’s stopping him from telling her?
Is it because he doesnt want to use the victim card to get back to her?
He doesnt want to destroy her family?
How can they start their relationship if they are not being honest with each other?
Or is the truth about him in the past, is his last card?
Then why beg and be desperate in asking for her love if there is still a clear miscommunication about their past!
For sure Xu Qin will still reject him again for 3rd or multiple times cause she has still no leverage for going all in to him.

While Xu Qin was passive and still being a coward, still hesitant, and could not even protect our ML from his creepy brother. I understand her now cause Song Yan has nothing to offer aside from his love for her. There is too much risk for abandoning her family at this stage.

See, the turning point was not the earthquake scene, it was when Xu Qin knows what happen to Song Yan because his military friend told her what happen to him when he was in the military.
If his military friend was not there, we are still going back to Square one!

Both have flaws, its all about miscommunication between them in order to proceed for their relationship.

Those dramas are good for those who are single or teens. No bf/gf since birth. 😂

@9799723 They are just the same. Very basic lovey dovey plot. and I don't watch youth dramas.

Man. He sounds so desperate for love. That’s a big No for me. That’s already begging.

Man with his mindset. I want Xu Qin to marry someone else at this point. And let Song Yan grow old alone. 😂 🤣With this kind of setting and his mindset he will become like MYC.

Nope. You cannot compare Hidden Love or When I fly towards you to this kind of drama. They have the most simple, basic plot. Just a normal lovey dovey drama. This is one is like a bloody melo drama with so many annoying parts.

Boy, I have read the novel. I was one of the guys defending Xu Qin for what she did at episode 10-11.

But the fillers of the firehouse which was not in the novel were still useless cause their situation goes back again to episode 10-11.
She couldnt even say a word to his brother for saying trash to Song Yan but instead she just walk away without saying a word and remorse.

Man; the fillers were useless, it was all gone for nothing. It did not help anything for their relationship. aside from Song Yan sound desperate for love.

Shit. I don’t like it. I am not excited for their confession if he will asked her again.

Song Yan mah boy! please don’t behave or sound so desperate now. You are acting like a simp now!

Don’t forget Xu Qin left you or ghosted you for 10 years, and now you asked her twice already and still she rejected you.

Have some little bit of self respect to be left for your own good.
Give her some space and let her do the work. You tried and suffered soo much already. You have done your part. It’s time for Xu Qin to make her move!

I swear to God if you will asked her again, I will ship Xu Qin to MYC. 😂 😂 😂

Yes up to episode 20. She is still passive, a coward and submissive with no backbone so far.
I am just mad cause all those scenes in the firehouse were nothing. Still go back to episode 10-11 situation.

I was one of the guys here who defended and explained about Xu Qin behaviours and decisions making at episode 10-12, but for what happen so far at episode 20. That is already low. I am disappointed really for what happened

I don't want Song Yan to asked again for the 3rd time about them being together. Xu Qin should starts to move now. I hate her for being passive.

She is already 29yrs old in the drama. She is grown adult. I would let her pass when they were in high school, but not this time.

NGl if one or any of my friends and someone else called me trash or any of my friends, my friends and I gonna ready to throw some hands lol. There is no respect there and it is just pure insulting.

Agreed. It just pretty annoying sometimes that they let us see all those things in the fire house but again goes back to zero or at episode 10-11 situation.

Yes, if she will stand up to our ML again. I am done. It is so draggy now.

It is cause, this a second chance romance melo drama. The plot is very complicated. So many rejections, angsts and sometimes their decisions is kinda annoying.

You are not alone. I am an Asian as well we experienced the same thing. It all change for me when I graduated and start earning money for my own. I can marry anyone now without worry cause I can provide now for myself, financially independent, have some properties under my name. One thing left now, is whenever my parents ask for money I will give them, but I clearly said to them that once I will start my own family. Don’t expect that I will still provide/give money whenever they need it.

But the problem with Xu Qin is that, she is already 29 man. That’s already an adult.

Not really. he doesnt have self respect. They were already were like 16-20 when her last name was change. That itself should be the boundary. Like boy just give up, you are already legally brother and sister, but instead he behave like creep stalker who is not minding his business. He even ask Xu Qin to go abroad and live together. WTF 😳