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Replying to kate_xulansis Oct 31, 2023
Can someone tell me what the age gap is? Are we talking a minor with someone a lot older than him, or? What are…
In the book, they are 17 and 22.
Replying to suam Oct 30, 2023
Your concerns are valid. I tend to not say anything about age gaps because different countries have different…
@suam Mandarin speaker here! Zi Rui does not call him "kiddo." It's a terrible translation. The phrase is more of a cute way of calling him a brat.

I wrote a note on the ages of the characters above. In the novel, Ze Rui is 22 and Zong Yi is 17. ZY's age is important to the plot. I put the reason why in a spoiler above.
Replying to shalala Oct 30, 2023
what are the ages of Fan Ze Rui and Bai Zong YI in the show?
I've read the book. Ze Rui is 22 and Zong Yi is 17. I'll put more on why the ages are important in a spoiler below.
Replying to bogglesthemind Oct 30, 2023
Title Kiseki: Dear to Me Spoiler
I've read the book. Ze Rui is 22 and Zong Yi is 17. I'll put more on why the ages are important in a spoiler below.
The fact he's a minor is important to the story, because it means he gets a lighter sentence for the crime. This point is reiterated by the big boss in the series.
Replying to outofthemouthsof Oct 24, 2023
That character is so quietly tough, iron willed and unshakably confident. Really unique in BL.
You're so right. He wasn't intimidated at all and it was beautiful! So unusual in BL to see such unshakable resolve!
Replying to iki11 Oct 24, 2023
The Dad caractere in this series and the actor need more appreciation and love ❤️ also! Amazing dad
Preach! It is refreshing to see a supportive dad character like him.
Replying to xgolda Oct 24, 2023
Chen Yi has got to be the most unromantic guy to ever exist
I think he feels too much.
Replying to iamseffyyyy Oct 6, 2023
Title You Are Mine
A Chinese actor named Parker Mao... Therefore, I am hoping that some of the former BL Chinese actors would be…
I think his biography on mdl is wrong and needs to be updated.

He's a Taiwanese actor who has been in Chinese shows (like many Taiwanese actors). His accent is Taiwanese and in interviews he's indicated living in Taiwan. Also, if he was from China, someone would ask about that in interviews. They never do.
On You Are Mine Sep 22, 2023
Title You Are Mine
I'm totally perplexed by the low rating here. We're only 3 episodes in and I think it's off to a great start. The acting, humor, and story are all so good!
Fondueforkharpoon Sep 13, 2023
I wanted to offer insight on one aspect of your review. You wrote: "The way Amber is constantly misgendered by the people around him after it's revealed that he is in fact Wen-Wen - that alone made me so deeply viscerally uncomfortable that I just can't feasibly imagine Amber as a trans man.
And yes, I realise that some of the issues with pronouns may be due to faulty subtitles, but given the overall quality of the translations for the rest of the show I honestly don't think so. (I am willing to be corrected though)."

I write as a Mandarin speaker. There are no gendered pronouns in Mandarin. He=She=It=All the same word="ta". I hope this helps relieve some of the visceral discomfort you felt.

English translators have no method to adequately translate pronouns for a culture made up entirely of one singular gender-neutral pronoun. And when the translator makes a choice to gender a pronoun in English, they make an unfair judgement of Amber's friends, because those friends would be making no linguistic distinction.

I appreciate your thoughtful discussion of Amber's transition. I'd like to add that the series offered no evidence at any point that I can recall that Amber is unhappy with his transition or current gender identity. It does allude to the trauma of leaving friends and seeking treatment abroad. It just doesn't indicate that Amber regrets or didn't consent to that treatment, although I understand your well-spoken point on the harm of "normalising procedures".
Replying to OstentatiousOrchid Aug 13, 2023
My subs had "gay guy" and not the slur. But it also had "Xiao Mao" as "Mao Jr." for what I'm guessing is American…
Thank you for pointing this out. I wonder why the English subs are different from the English CC subs?
Replying to OstentatiousOrchid Aug 11, 2023
Title Marry My Dead Body Spoiler
My subs had "gay guy" and not the slur. But it also had "Xiao Mao" as "Mao Jr." for what I'm guessing is American…
Thanks for your reply. I'm shocked. For example, at minute 29 in my english subtitles, the words "f****t" and "f*g" are repeated, but the cop never uses such a slur. He's saying "gay" as if being gay is distasteful but not the other slur.

I wonder why your Eng subs use a more appropriate translation? Are you watching on Netflix?

My subs also said "Mao Jr." lol! Makes no sense!
Replying to stayfantasizing Aug 11, 2023
Title Marry My Dead Body Spoiler
Do the guys end up together at the very end?
No, but also yes. One of them is dead, and the other straight, so no. But yes in the sense that Ming Han accepts Mao Mao as his husband and his role as a son-in-law/grand-son-in-law. He even cares enough to continue to have Mao Mao's memorial alter in his home. The ending is sad and uplifting at the same time.
On Marry My Dead Body Aug 11, 2023
Title Marry My Dead Body Spoiler
I wrote a full review above (loved the movie!!!!!!) but wanted to include this note here:

The English subtitles get it wrong a lot, and one example really bothered me. In the bathroom scene, when Ming Han meets his husband for the first time, he is translated as saying "f****t" and "f*g." He's not saying that! He just referred to him as "gay," literally saying the word in English. Yes, Ming Han is homophobic, but he's not using the f-slur. Why was it repeatedly inserted into the translation?

*Another user pointed out to me that the f-slur is only used in the "English CC" translation and not in the "English" subtitles option. Very strange that they are different. I wonder why? Out of curiosity, I checked the dubbed English version, and it also needlessly uses the f-slur.
Replying to Between_YourLegs May 21, 2023
I’m still not over this drama,I’ve been watching it for like 4 times now…yes that’s how GOOD it is. Anyone…
Have you watched 49 Days with A Merman? It's amazing.
On About Youth May 16, 2023
Title About Youth
May 13 MDL rating: 8.4
May 14 MDL rating: 8.1
The drastic ratings drop doesn't make sense. How did that many people suddenly rate it lower in one day? Seems fishy. This series is so sweet and beautiful. You won't regret watching it!