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Why didn’t Xiao Han go to America with He Ran for treatment? That’s what I didn’t understand. He had said he wanted to take care of her and he was her husband. Why did only her mom accompany her?

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Nahhh, not his imagination. The Director was clearly trying to please all camps with this seemingly ambiguous ending. But, it’s clear to me we got our happily ever after. There’s a commenter, TuRuah, I believe, below who explained it well. Also, glass half full, glass half full, glass half full…lol. That’s how I choose to believe. Too sad otherwise.

Did you watch past the credits? It seems clear to me.

Episode 17 is the sister-in-law. Episode 22/23 is troublesome college dorm mate.

She’s a force. That girl doesn’t play when it comes to other women going after her man. Remember how she handled Xiao Han’s “sister-in-law”!

Thanks for sharing your personal experience. Really appreciate that insight. Those details add so much.

Mad respect for the college dorm mate who had the crush on Xiao Han. She was certainly going for it and shooting her shot, wasn’t she! It was a fool’s errand, of course. But, man, I’d like to borrow even 1/10 of her confidence level. She should’ve quit, though, when it was clear He Ran and Xiao Han had a relationship and some unfinished business. You’ll get yourself hurt, girl. He Ran don’t play that.

Wow, you’re disciplined. Willpower! Studies show that people who are good at practicing delayed gratification (especially as kids) are the ones who generally end up being more successful in life down the line.

Han Yu’s being in the dark til even the 11th hour had me chuckling. When Yuanqi said to him regarding Xiao Han, “You’ve met, yet you don’t know who that is”—I was SMH laughing. Poor, sweet, innocent, oblivious, living-in-his-own-rose-colored-world, can’t-put-two-and-two-together doof.

It really was! Extremely well done.

Check out the Recommended section above. He was good in “Loving, Never Forgetting,” but his character was quite cold and the FL character was quite ignorant. Addictive drama though, hot slow burn chemistry.

Cause they like messing with us and making us cray

I got the impression he had called her while she was still in the hospital. Months hadn’t passed yet. He knew she was sick, had even taken her to hospital once, then she disappears. If he loved her, wouldn’t he have gone looking her, worried something bad had happened? Wouldn’t he say, “I don’t understand what’s going on, but it must be serious for you to act this way. I love you and I’m here for you no matter what. I’ll give you some space if you need it, but talk to me as soon as possible. I’m worried about you.”

I didn’t get the impression it had been months. Even still, he knew she was sick, had even taken her to hospital once, then she disappears. If he loved her, wouldn’t he have gone looking her, worried something bad had happened? Wouldn’t he say, “I don’t understand what’s going on, but it must be serious for you to act this way. I love you and I’m here for you no matter what. I’ll give you some space if you need it, but talk to me as soon as possible. I’m worried about you.”

He knew she was sick, had even taken her to hospital once, then she disappears. If he loved her, wouldn’t he have gone looking her, worried something bad had happened? Wouldn’t he say, “I don’t understand what’s going on, but it must be serious for you to act this way. I love you and I’m here for no matter what. I’ll give you some space if you need it, but talk to me as soon as possible. I’m worried about you.”

I’ve seen the deleted scenes. She’s not a good kisser yet. Her technique needs some improvement. She remained conservative, as if not willing to completely give into the moment, even for the sake of the scene. There seemed to be a line she didn’t want to cross. Very charming and created great chemistry nonetheless.

I assumed the same as well. Not a coincidence at all.

Stunned at how easily he said “Let’s break up.”

He wasn’t flirting with her.