SORRY!! I GOT SUPER BUSY WITH THANKSGIVING AND I HAD TO SPEND THE NIGHT AT MY GRANDPARENTS AND THEY DONT LIKE IT WHEN I GO ON MY PHONE (and i have screentime so i couldn't go on instagram or anything at night 😔)
https://www.youthoutright.org/articles/fetishization-of-the-queer-community "Fetishization is the reduction of a person to aspects of their body, identity, or relationship structure. A person is found to be attractive solely due to these characteristics and could be exchanged with anyone else with the same characteristics." op is reducing these guys down to their appearances and their role in their relationships, how do you not see what's wrong with that? you're a gay man so of course it's fine for you to like what you like, but op is not a man, so it's weird for her to care so much about this, and only want to watch these types of relationships. "traditional yaoi manga" is mostly written by straight women who fetitishize gay men, as a lot of it features rape and harmful stereotypes. it's crazy to only want that, when a lot of mlm relationships are not like that at all.
over 2,000 other people applied for the fan club thing, i'm so surprised i got 91, cuz at first they were only accepting 200, but then changed it to 500
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"Fetishization is the reduction of a person to aspects of their body, identity, or relationship structure. A person is found to be attractive solely due to these characteristics and could be exchanged with anyone else with the same characteristics."
op is reducing these guys down to their appearances and their role in their relationships, how do you not see what's wrong with that? you're a gay man so of course it's fine for you to like what you like, but op is not a man, so it's weird for her to care so much about this, and only want to watch these types of relationships. "traditional yaoi manga" is mostly written by straight women who fetitishize gay men, as a lot of it features rape and harmful stereotypes. it's crazy to only want that, when a lot of mlm relationships are not like that at all.
i freaked out when i saw your pfp