Idk if i missed d comments -- but the family's reaction to the youngest sister being "murdered" is wilddddd!!!!!!!!!
I know they want a chance to run things and be involved but a ninja u were plotting with just murdered ur cousin!!!! How was he allowed to run amoc in a matrilocal family that he is visiting????!!!
It's not 100% a mirrored version of a typical patriarchal household. Because the Rong household does have that…
But still...i found the visiting suitors were allowed to do as they pleased -- im still watching but i thought she would have shown more dominance -- she is clever and intuitive -- but i expected more
I expected the more from the FL ...i feel like she lets too much happen before she intervenes especially with how the suitors behaved in while at the family mansion. As a matrilocal family i thought she would have more strongly control and suppress the men
On episode three and both leads are getting on my nerves and being ridiculously incompetent. The FL is dumb to…
I just reachex ep4 and its been nothing but hooting and hollering !! No one communicates well- just doctors yelling about every little ting!! Like how is the ML angry that the Dr is so skilled -- dropping tools cuz ure in awe??? and how does the FL expect to work with an injured hand and shaky mind ... y is she shouting at the ML so much when she just saw him??
that makes sense too, but maybe he also hated the Grand Prince because he's the son of the late King whom he despised…
It has to be the hate stopped him from seeing -- cuz the Grand Prince was perfect to use for a puppet young king and for revenge
He just had to use that the King and his grandmother killed his mom (look how bitter the king in Bon Appetit was to his grandmother) and he would have probably worked together or at least be easily manipulated for revenge
But maybe he just wanted to destroy so much that he didnt want to work along someone but to have complete control and crush the royals
That man was so bitter over one thing that he hated his own daughter --
i wanna ask wouldnt it have made more sense for the Left State Minister to make Grand Prince Un the King back then - he would have had more control over him as a young prince , would have had some form of revenge on the Empress Dowager he didnt want the Grand Prince to rule, would have gotten to see his love's son rule, could have still blamed the Late King's death on the current King and bethroth his daughter to become Empress same way -
I agree that the drama has some problematic tropes like Shan Shan forgiving easily and Feng Teng being quite controlling.…
tbh i stopped watching when she found out n then forgave the girl -- didnt realize or remember that she broke up with him --- they loved to add a long break-up in those old dramas
i was just so upset when she brushed off what the girl did --- and didnt tell her off that i stopped watching!
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I know they want a chance to run things and be involved but a ninja u were plotting with just murdered ur cousin!!!! How was he allowed to run amoc in a matrilocal family that he is visiting????!!!
He just had to use that the King and his grandmother killed his mom (look how bitter the king in Bon Appetit was to his grandmother) and he would have probably worked together or at least be easily manipulated for revenge
But maybe he just wanted to destroy so much that he didnt want to work along someone but to have complete control and crush the royals
That man was so bitter over one thing that he hated his own daughter --
i was just so upset when she brushed off what the girl did --- and didnt tell her off that i stopped watching!