Everyone is blaming Suo Luo for being a frustrating character, but as her big brother, what effort has JXB made…
is suoluo not to blame though? she goes against everything her brother does, whether it's right or wrong. who would want to put in the effort to fix a relationship with someone that does that to them? who would want to cook for someone that purposefully sows a wedge between them and their mom? yes, he doesn't care enough to mend the relationship between them, but he also doesn't sabotage her future or career (ex: her plans on becoming chancellor). so yes, she is to be blamed and criticized
Not really. It's two different species with different life spans. 50 years old Spirits resemble 10 years old human.…
i get what you're saying, but it doesn't change that THH is older than DFYC. if we don't think about and translate the whole different species aspect of it (centuries old spirit compared to 25+ something human like you said), and only consider what DFYC calls THH, then she's older than him. he uses honorifics and calls her "jie jie," which means "older sister" (specifically "yao xian jiejie"). so considering only what he calls her, the older woman/younger man tag wouldn't be incorrect