enigmatic_zephy

i don't agree with product of upbringing logic. One can't blame parents all the time.

What one is in adult life, onus is on them to be or change what they are being

I personally have no issue with the sister.. she can't be expected to understand why JJ is so important to LX.. she doesn't know how LX was before he was born, she doesn't know the burden he carries

i myself mentioned that here on mydramalist weeks ago.. i think that is the only glaring pattern..

BUT, i don't mind.. because that is the writer's setup. You can't compel someone to not make a story in order to be politically correct. The PD is not sexist because they did make Finding yourself, so you have to give them the benefit of the doubt and let them tell the story that is there

I also don't agree with her brother - romance logic. Drama, to me atleast, has been super super clear on LX and JJ"s relationship.

For LX , JJ was never his sister (nobody gets that place).. but as he opened up to JJ.. it was still as this one person who is his world (be it a kid, a sis, a lover..).. he has been in love since the beginning. Bra scene happened in ep 1 of adult lifel

Which brother gets your bra size right :) .. without any help from a woman

I mean!

he atleast had his dad
His coldness comes more from the fact that sister died on his watch and incessant fights

Otherwise ZQ has a more heartbreaking background and daddy lia knows that, that's why his favourite child is ZQ..

and like daddy said in ep 1, it helps that JJ is overly positive .. lol.. so she notices nothing and is happy

i honestly doubt if we are going to get any other relationship beside JJ and LX

I think it will just be about growing up - MY, TC, ZQ all three.. moving on finally finding themselves, what they want and move on

watch Song wei long in find yourself.. by the same production team as go ahead

ha h aha..t his is word by word what AVENUX said in her latest review video

fight scene in intro has already happened when both realized they were moving away

subs for ep 20 are out

as in there is LJJ who is not a family and yet more precious to him (from sister's point of view.. remember how much she had to work to get LX's attention)

SHL is rare :) .. for a guy that handsome and so reserved in real life.. he is full on crush material.. (despite having 2 older sisters, meaning he must be pampered and obviously knows that he is good looking)

wich scene?

she has always been a good sister.. i think she gets annoyed because she knows they don't mean much to LX

i ended up fast forwarding most of it except for bare minimum sweet scenes..

this LL and WL track is blah!

where is the preview

ling xiao should be easy.. she is alread on it

have a strong feeling we are not going to get any ZQ romance or closure for ZQ and MY..
ZQ's arc is going to be about finding mom, her marrying dad, and ZQ finally finding his family.. no romance!

MY i think will show some career aspirations and grow! she was always a good student..high time she focuses on herself

TC - i don't see a romance with the big guy.. she would move on!

Big Buy - MY may happen

taking off shoes Vs "washing" sis's face and body.. different things.. infact that scene tells you all the more why MY will be perfect for ZQ as a wife

ep 19 subs are out

what was the storm story

Well LX was always clear and has been treating her as his love interest. She was underage hence he was waiting. Just look at how he behaves and what he says to her, he is very conscious of his love for her and sees her as his future life partner..no questions asked.

And LX ain't innocent.. as in even if in future JJ were to have a real bf , i can bet he would have manipulated the situation to pursue her.. and it is not wrong because he knows no one can care for her the way he does and the kind of solace she finds in him

Just look at how she behaved with him vs ZQ ( ZQ was her brother.. and she has been in love with LX subconsciously since forever, love at first sight actually)
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ZQ just wants to be a family legally hence thinking of marriage based on his friends recommendation. He DOES NOT romantically like JJ..

and LX also told JJ right that to be family he needs to marry her :)

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there is no triangle.. JJ's dad will marry ZQ's mom.. so the full circle of this drama is everyone becoming a real family from the non legal family bond they started with