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I spent one month just watching J-dramas and then it just suddenly stopped. To be honest I don't know why either. I do want to start watching J-dramas again though but I think I am going to wait until Spring Break comes around. Do you have any good J-drama recommendations?

I know!!! I can't wait!

Well I guess there is one idea everybody is agreeing on right now and that is marriage is a mutual agreement and that both of them made mistakes.

I think if you look within everybody's comments within this vivid discussion you will see that at some points we both were trying to get at the same thing. The only thing which didn't make anybody agree with one another was when it came to blaming somebody.

Some people think its JW's fault...(might be).....some people think its AR's fault...(maybe so) but when it comes down to it they both are at fault.

Set the blame aside and we were talking about the same thing all along. lol.
I'm going to end this heated discussion on a happy note because I believe everybody was right in there own ways and I actually enjoyed hearing everyones opinions (It makes this drama more entertaining).

3 days since last episode being posted.

Status: Impatient waiting for the next episode.

Cure: There is no cure. I have tried watching what I call "filler" dramas until the next episode comes. I have tried listening to music to block the plot out of head.

Result: Episode 11 please come fast!!!

I remain neutral when it comes to JW and AR but yes your right he doesn't know what he wants. He doesn't want her hanging out with other guys and he doesn't want to be with her. I find that part of him to be absurd.

Personally I prefer the second lead over JW. lol.

You know a k-drama has its own rules so what are you trying to get at here?

Also another thing, compromise is very important in marriage. Have you been married before or are married right now? If so then I think you would know what I am talking about.

When it comes to him quitting his job before compromising you need realize they were having problems even before then. They both came into the marriage with unrealistic expectations.

I don't think you get what we were talking about before. We weren't talking about if AR was a good wife or not.

We were talking about communication between the couple and not blaming each other. No one ever said it was just AR's fault for the marriage turning out the way it did because it clearly wasn't BUT it wasn't just JW's fault either.

As I said above a marriage takes working together and that is something both of them failed to do.

Don't worry @lily333 he will make it up to AR but this all takes time especially with dramas. lol.

I won't say much else because I think R1N7B explained it pretty well and I am starting to think the point which was trying to be made in the beginning will never be able to get through to you.

He is going to apologize. He is going to own up. The only reason none of that has happened is because its a drama and without miscommunication in dramas no dramatic scenarios end up happening.

He was extremely cruel but did you also remember that he cried after what he did? He felt bad. The poor guy wanted to apologize but of course they wouldn't let that happen so soon in the episodes because again without problems with communication with characters no dramatic scenes come about.

Also don't you think you are being a little melodramatic yourself? "He stabbed her right in the heart." lol I think that's a little much.

I don't think you understand what I think MrsLeeSeoJin is trying to get at here.

which is this they both ruined there marriage and they both pity themselves for having a unhappy divorce but when it comes down to it they both are at fault.

P.S.
You do realize you just said they BOTH made mistakes and none of them is a VICTIM but than said afterward you think he is acting like HE was the ONLY VICTIM.
I'm sorry that you are annoyed with him but your reasoning on who is more of a victim has some flaws because neither of them are victims.

So true. I like what you said here. A marriage includes two people not just one. So they both are in the wrong. Ae Ra shouldn't have believed a man is the only one who must provide for the family and Jung Woo shouldn't have been so naive to believe that love would cure all there financial problems.

A marriage is about working together and that is one thing both of them failed to do.

Haha No biggie.
I also normally watch 16-20 episode korean dramas (Mostly airing dramas). Yeah, I used to watch J-dramas but now not so much...

Most of the time the reason why I watch long dramas is just to see how it is going to end too.

Anyone know what the piano music/ost at the ending of each episode is called?

Happy Birthday!! Your movies are hilarious!!

Yeah I love God's Gift too!! WOW even a facebook page. You really are a devoted fan.

I heard Three Days was a slow paced action drama....is that the case or no?

Its ok but it talks more about family values and friendships rather then romance at the beginning. I like it but its an acquired taste.

Yep I think Kim Tan's mom and Kim Woo Bin were the best thing in that drama. ^^

Hi! Nice to meet you too!

WOW I really wish I had known ahead of time that it only was going to have 16 episodes.

I'm starting to think sam30317 is right that is a plot hole.
Yeah I knew that the mother wanted to do that.....but it still doesn't make up for getting married in one day....then again this is dramaland and dramas are not a good example of realism.