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Someone who is speaking my language about the Jeong-Muk situation Lol. I also do not agree with him lying to YD that was very wrong.
He definitely did not show interest in MIN-HONG romantically for her to feel she needs an explanation from him. (I love MIN-HONG btw but that was a bit delusional of her, he gave her 3rd place there is no hope in that)
And Yu-Meong he didn't show interest in her either and gave her 0.5 rating of his interest Lol.
YD is the one who deserved the apology and conversation about the situation.

JM did mislead YD when he lied to her but no it is not cheating in this setting were they've been getting to know each other for a few days.
He did not love bomb her, he showed someone he liked care and found out they weren't a good match as they got to know each other more.
He was wrong for lying that is all. Surely he will learn to just be honest when he watches this back and sees how hurt YD more than helped her by giving her fake hope.
Either way we the audience will never know.

Someone with some sense. JM and YD weren't a good match as JM and JY no matter how much the audience wanted him and YD to work out.

I also felt and wouldn't be surprised if MIN-HONG and JAE-HYUN were to go on a date and develop feelings overtime but maybe its simply just a friendship.

💗I am VERY HAPPY with the results of the show, with it being only 10 EPS I'm so satisfied with the interactions.
💗I like the growth of everyone as individuals and realizing their strengths and that they are lovable even if they did not find a match, the personal growth was nice especially with JAE-HYUN.
💗I also loved MIN-HONG and YI-DO's really mature conversations they got to have with JEONG-MUK, those were beautiful scenes and very well said by the ladies.
💗And the romance between JEONG-MUK and JI-YEON was really the skinship and next level I was hoping to see, we went from super awkward to finally getting to see that, it was nice.

LMAO he literally said the food was the best experience hahaha

I agree I like in EPS 9 that he did that

EP 1 very good in second half of it so 8/10 for me. OMG that ending I was so mad he’s gonna do that to our girl. Ugh now I have to wait for next episode.

good point, the skating ring date was really a crazy experience for me watching them interact lmao I lowkey wanted to be there and be like "help her skate" or "tie her shoe" haha

Honestly this is an accurate depiction of real life couples, Not all but majority.
Women are usually prettier than their boyfriends or both man and woman are equal in attractiveness in the looks category.

Also beauty is in the eye of the beholder, example JI-SU found SANG-HO attractive and manly looking. he is not on any of the other ladies radar at all. He looks younger and healthier and better with the weightloss.

I think it's something for the viewers at home watching to relate to.

If I was Yi-Do I would go to him straight up & be like “YOU SAID I was still YOUR #1 and that I DIDN’T NEED TO WORRY and that YOU’D FOCUS ON ME…..well WHY DID YOU LIE, because YOUR ACTIONS SHOW, JI-YEON is YOUR #1”

That’s what I’d confront him on as someone with dating experience. 😭
But since Yi-Do has none this might not be a thought in her mind on how to confront Jeong-Muks LIE❗️

I’m not surprised Lol this happens on all the dating show commentary, people behind screens become clinically licensed therapist, psychologist, relationship experts crucifying human behavior.

He hurt Ji-Yeon when he said "who doesn't have one" when giving out a dating pass.
Jeong-Muk lied to Yi-Do.
Both are no better than the other, both girls were hurt and cried over both situations of the boys not reciprocating their feelings.
I don't dislike either boy or girls but nobody is more of a saint than the other, they are all a mess in their own way.

We can agree to disagree.

????? did you not read what I said right before you asked this.... me stating the word "wrong"

I think Jeong-Muk should apologize to Yi-Do for lying.
Lying to spare someone's feelings is not okay. He ended up hurting her more with false hope.
I do not however think he deserves the hate he is getting as if he committed a crime.
This is a 10 day dating show of people who have 0% DATING EXPERIENCE>
There is also EXTRA footage of JM and YD dates/talking and they do not click.
Also JM's feelings did not come all of sudden for Ji-Yeon they grew gradually from friendship to romantic. He cared for her way before she opened up about her trauma.

Finally one of the few who sees from this POV , people saying he loved bombed Yi-Do clearly forgot this show is only 10 days long and they've only talked for less than 5 days....a lot can change when you learn about someone you like. He shouldn't have lied but people are doing the most with him

I am not defending him. For the 3rd time I clearly stated he was in the wrong by lying. You and others using this word do not know what LOVE BOMBING is. He did not use manipulation or emotional abuse to lure her in nor did he do it for an extended period of time it has only been 3-5 days of them getting to know each other.

He paid more attention to Yi-Do who he found physically attractive than the other girls but as he got to know her more he realized they do not align beyond the physical attraction.

When you like someone you should show interest and get to know them which he did with Yi-Do, he did not love bomb her, he got to know her and showed her affection because he liked her which is what you are supposed to do with a romantic interest.

That was a scene straight from a drama why didn’t he just leave and go inside LMAO that felt so unreal. But it sucks he had to hear that unfortunately.

??? I literally said HIS MISTAKE was doubling back and giving her a promise and saying she’s still #1 when she isn’t. Exactly same take as the receipts you sent. I didn’t say he wasn’t in the wrong.

But saying he’s more on the spectrum than JaeHyun is a big reach. JaeHyun made mistake in 24 hour span saying he was interested in the girl he liked than going back and saying he wasn’t interested.

To me they are no different in how they terribly handle confrontation of emotional feelings.

JaeHyun did not handle anything better than JeongMuk. And he is still struggling very badly. He even told the girl he liked that he wasn’t interested. All he said to JiYeon was that he was sorry. His answers were never clear at all. JiYeon figured it all out herself ultimately.

JeongMuk clearly stated to YiDo on the night she picked him that
1) they are on different wavelengths/lifestyles
2) that he has changed despite her being physically attractive
HIS MISTAKE is doubling back after giving her a straight answer that she didn’t pick up on at all.

Compared to JaeHyun, people are more accurate in assuming he’s on the spectrum than JeongMuk. JaeHyun handles social interaction much more dramatically and anxiously than the other JeongMuk.

💙JAE-HYUN - ummm I thought he would warm up but he is in his own world and so in his head about every little detail — he is creating internal conflict in his own mind that does not need to be there and stressing himself out—it actually became very sad to watch him be so stiff and blank but I’m sure the being on TV doesn’t help that in the slightest LMAO like whew

💙JEONG-MOK - the only thing I DID NOT LIKE is how he told YI-DO he would focus more on her and that she’s still his #1 when clearly his mind changed and he was no longer interested. He shouldn’t let all the girls interest in him get to his head. He is doing dating how it should be done by seeing where his interest is with all the women instead of putting his eggs in one basket and leaving them there…I hope he learns from that lying incident and NEVER does that again.

💗YI-DO - She is my favorite girl personality wise but she became real scary when she noticed jeong-mok had lost interest, he told her that he found her the most physically attractive but that they were on different wavelengths and their lifestyles wouldn’t mesh…..that sounded very clear to me as a viewer but YI-DO did not comprehend and did not want to let go despite the change in his feelings.

💗JI-SU - she’s doing great, straight to the point, she handled slowly but surely dwindling down her #1 based on the men interested in her, understandable that she doesn’t want to be with a man who is just as emotional as she is 



💙HYUN-KYU - do they other contestants not like him???? Bc why are they coming for him not once but twice because he is eager to talk to Ji-Su and wants to spend time with her. Ji-su isn’t being held against her will and did not mind talking to him for hours. This is a dating show not friendship show. But anyways it la clear he is too much emotionally for Ji-Sub, she doesn’t want to have to regulate her boyfriends feelings and he’s giving off those vibes.

💙SANG-HO - is in another dimension and in his own world, Ji-Su could've been all his but his fight to be show interest in her was too late, it was tough to talk to him for her, glad she noticed and did not persist

💗YEO-MYUNG - ........jeong-mok gave her a 0 or 0.5 interest rating and she still wants to persist??????

💗JI-YEONG , 💗MI-JI, 💗MIN-HONG - i like these girls but I didn't have too much to say on them they're chill and sweet and trying to their best of their ability

💙SEUNG-CHANG --- i do not like him confronting HYUN-KYU about JI-SU like he's fighting a battle that is not even his and created conflict for no reason, it's a dating show no one has to be considerate of their competition in this dating show, that left a sour taste in my mouth about him

💙SEUNG-LI - stop competing with the men and focus on Ji-su Lol, he would be a good match out of all the guys for Ji-Su based on what she wants so I have no objections, they equally like each other, appearance and body build wise he's most attractive to me out of the guys