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Replying to DramaReign Jul 26, 2020
Apparently episode 12's name is Romeo and Juliet !!!https://twitter.com/soohyunks/status/1287217224768294912?s=19
That sounds maaaaaad ominousssssss. MY might only have one mentally alert family member (is the mom alive?!) and ST/KT mom is dead so why we still gotta have this conflict?! I REJECT. I know that there is a possibility that MY's mom could've been the murderer but that's outside of MY. Let's all just think like MY....she's an orphan obv so let's just delete the mom when she comes ;)
Replying to strawberrysnoopy Jul 26, 2020
Title It's Okay to Not Be Okay Spoiler
Lol I don't get how if Kang Tae was so miserable living with his autistic brother, he should have put him in a…
Obv we can't really expect a 12 year old to think straight in that situation. I believe he just didn't want to separate from his brother esp after their mother just died. All they got is each other. Also he has always been told to care for his brother so it's not like he was suddenly going to defy that. It's quite impressive how they survived through that time judging from how young they were and ST's autism/trauma. That is amazing resilience. Also by the time he started working as a caretaker he was already used to taking care of his brother for like 10 years so he probably didn't see the need to admit him to a facility. He was miserable for sure but it's not like he ever experienced being truly free and happy so he didn't know any better. He probably thought that was it for him. That it was "normal" for someone in his circumstance to feel that way. Judging from what he said in this ep, he just really wanted to help his brother. I don't think he was expecting ST to be cured. He just wanted him to be comfortable and have a normal life. ST was someone who needed his protection. Him coming to OK hospital and asking the director to deal with ST was only due to chance. It was an opportunity he could take this time so why not? If he still had his previous job I bet he wouldn't have thought of PTSD therapy for ST. It was probably something that has always been at the back of his mind but so far they have been getting by so why make ST go through his trauma with no guarantees? He has been working at all these diff psych facilities so he saw how not everyone is getting the happy ending/cure they expected when they got admitted. Also, he has been unwilling to face his own demons for 20 years so I can see why running away from everything has been his go-to solution. I believe only this past ep was when he truly acknowledge that he wanted his brother to get treated for it even if it will be very painful and hard. It took some weeks (hey ppl don't change that fast even if this is kdrama land) but yes he is finally doing what he needed to do to live the life he wanted with MY...so idk how that is still an issue for you? Do you want him to completely let ST go? That's not fair...at least let him try keeping everyone together this time and see what happens. He hasn't tried any treatment for ST before so why not? From what I have seen so far, I don't see how ST can benefit more being admitted in a facility. He is independent, communicates well, has shown tremendous growth with his acceptance of MY, shown his desire to be seen/treated as a big brother/not someone who needs to be babied, he is not suicidal/homicidal, and no delusions. He did have that freak out two episodes ago but that has been dealt with. There is potential that he might go in the deep end once he started really facing his trauma but KT probably believes that he can best support his brother about that at home. That might be the wrong decision but KT is just doing what he believes is the best for both of them. If they both go down then so be it...at least they're together. Family always stick together.

I'm so sorry I wrote so much. Maaan, this show got me thinking of all the things. KT is a person full of contradictions but that just makes him more worthy/interesting to be explored. Hope this might help show a different perspective on why he did the things he did, even if it's not what is normally expected and comes out dumb. If I make no sense at any part I'll be happy to explain further. Thank you for your input though, wouldn't have thought of all these things because of that. We certainly need more people offering their own perspectives ♡
Replying to AnswerMePorsche Jul 26, 2020
How did gang tae know it was MY's bday
I remember seeing she texted him about wanting seaweed soup and that it's a special day.
Replying to lololol Jul 26, 2020
the jenga game was too short
I think it's because they were too good so they didn't let them try again or else it would be too long........BOO
On It's Okay to Not Be Okay Jul 25, 2020
This episode was perfect. Every scene was exactly what I wanted and more. The episode just got better and better and better as it went on. HOWISTHISPOSSIBLE? I also just want everyone to be happy and seeing them happy makes me happy. I've never felt so invested about a group of characters so much. Like I care so much about what happens to them and they all just deserve the world and more. They have become my other set of family and friends.

I hope this show never change until the end. It's the best gift.
Replying to AnswerMePorsche Jul 25, 2020
Whats jenga
the cast plays Jenga for Swoon/Netflix for promo content ;D you can go to the swoon youtube to check out some jenga games from their other kdramas

and jenga is a game of stacking blocks
Replying to Kat39 Jul 23, 2020
I am having the opposite experience. The episodes fly by far too quickly. And I regularly rewatch the entire episodes…
even though I find the episodes just right..........I have no problem if they make it longer. MORECONTENTPLZ. I don't wanna get off this train!
Replying to MyBallsAreHuge Jul 23, 2020
This will be an unpopular opinion but am I the only one who think its a bit slow sometimes? I really like it but…
I can see where you are coming from especially if there are only certain topics/stories or characters you care for. If ever, so far I only felt that a bit in ep 10 and only because the whole episode was so damn sad so I wanted to know what the characters are going to do to remedy that. However, for me I think the episodes are just right. I always feel like each episode is a journey in itself and I'm just here to enjoy the ride~ The show's attention to detail is a delight and I love that it also tries to show the personality of minor characters. It gives us a chance to connect to them too! We are more engaged since we can relate to more characters beyond the leads. The world of the drama becomes more lived-in and adds to solidifying the story.
Replying to Triss1310 Jul 23, 2020
Beautiful description of IOTNBO. I like it better then the offical ones.By Tiffany Vogt"Netflix's new series #ItsOkayToNotBeOkay…
yeah the official one even included KT's salary as if that was important in the drama lol. I just realized that even though MY is obviously richer, their difference in wealth was never really a problem or held against any of them. Only the CEO was ever called out about only sticking to MY for money xD Actually, the official description sounds like nothing I would watch but here we are ;D ...the description you got is more my taste
Replying to Shawn Jul 22, 2020
I'm liking the way Joo Ri's role is going. I was afraid she would be used primarily as a second female lead/love…
yes! I need some MY and JR bonding time where they can just talk about the kind of crap they have been dealing with other people...and then they could be a backup for each other when other people try to insult or attack them or something ♡
Replying to Yasmeen Jul 20, 2020
Title It's Okay to Not Be Okay Spoiler
I have a very strong feeling that the head nurse is the one who is actually MY mother and not tpark ok ran , That…
ooooooo i didnt even think of the stepmom angle..........hmmmm but then husband didnt hint anything about that though or maybe he is just too messed up to remember properly. All the MYSTERIESSSSS. I want to see them talk to each other and see what happens there. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
Replying to AnswerMePorsche Jul 20, 2020
Title It's Okay to Not Be Okay Spoiler
https://twitter.com/soju_drama/status/1284882117546008576?s=20 omo head nurse can be..... Check this out
she legit got the crazy eyes going on....whenever she asks someone if they are ok it always comes off as insincere. When she was talking with ST about the dinosaurs her reactions looked exaggerated. I guess I'm reading too much into it but so far things has been deliberate in this show. I've seen that lady in other dramas and she can definitely pull off warm and supportive. I'm all about keeping the mom dead but if she does turn out to be the mom........holy bananas WHY HOW. I know we kinda theorized it was her earlier in the show but she looked normal so that got sidetracked......but then slowly her crazy/creepy side started coming out.........so IDK we shall see..............ms park is definitely BAIT
Replying to soohyunswoonie Jul 20, 2020
Maybe i havent read enough comments but why is no one talking about KSH's single tear drop when he turned away…
Our main leads have mastered the art of the single tear xD
Replying to haiaona Jul 19, 2020
I can't believe people actually have a problem with KSH's face. Like him doing action is not going to suddenly…
Yeah some conveniently forget he won multiple acting awards. That is not even our bias talking lol
On It's Okay to Not Be Okay Jul 19, 2020
Hope there comes a moment where GT takes care of ST as a willing brotherly support rather than because of guilt or duty to his mother. He needs to detach himself and retake his autonomy and identity.
Replying to Sukki Jul 19, 2020
I just came across a article about PBIO on a blog koalaplayground(which i thought was dead btw) and oh lord the…
I can't believe people actually have a problem with KSH's face. Like him doing action is not going to suddenly change his looks to being "masculine" ..... The reach some people try to achieve to get what they want lol and besides actors don't need to do action to be manly...thats too predictable. I like IONTBO fans comeback though.... Laughed alot xD we don't even bother them but they gotta feel the need to insert themselves then feel offended when they get called out. Since people got to much free time to hate.