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I agree fully that he should be removed from the show because his presence would impact everyone else. I mean do I think it’s fair being penalized for a failed relationship and things other adults do in their daily lives? No. Especially now since a proper English translation of his ex’s statement has been released. The word forced is never used. The youtuber sprinkled it in there and now he’s saying his team and him are doubting her. Celebrities are human so mistakes are gonna happen. But I mean if swearing is also a bad thing then I’m doomed 😂

You’re welcome. I can’t stand unfair character assassination.

He apologized for hurting her feelings and making her feel the way she felt but when you read the accurate translation of what she said it seems to reference how she was upset she had to stay hidden and how little time he had for her.

Not gonna lie, if I were in his shoes, I’d prioritize my career too especially if it took me that day long to become successful. Acting is one of those things where you just have to seize the day when you get the chance to. As for the termination of pregnancy i’m prochoice so no comments there.

Breaking up or a failed relationship should not be a career killer. Read the proper translation of her post. The youtuber made inferences and added in some detail including the word “forced”.

Here you go! I was like wow, this is pretty different from Google translate 😬

https://twitter.com/diyaaaaaaaaax/status/1451124451983052814?s=21

Also please remember that victim is being used a little too loosely here. She’s a victim because of a failed relationship? I mean who hasn’t had a failed relationship that was as bad? You can’t terminate a pregnancy without counseling and per the actual translation it doesn’t look like he forced her to do anything against her will and her real issue was having to stay hidden and not being able to spend time together. He chose his career over her and she couldn’t move on. It happens and life goes on. I mean people move on everyday whether you want to or not. Plus the YouTuber is the one who added in all the salacious details which he’s now saying aren’t true. I mean breaking someone’s rice bowl is pretty vile. Shitty person or not, who’s gonna feed him or his parents now if he’s so tarnished he can’t get any work? Within or outside the industry? As for his ex, people need to stop dragging her through the mud too. Their private business is theirs.

Yes because if you read the proper translation of her original statement she never mentions force. In fact most of it is about her being upset that they had to hide their relationship, he didn’t have time for her, etc

Have you read the proper English translation of her original statement? It’s quite different from what we’ve seen.

My opinion with 2D, 1N is the way the show is filmed makes it incredibly hard to fake his personality for that much time. Unless of course he’s a psychopath 😬 Variety shows are slightly scripted to go with what I think their true personalities are so who knows, maybe he is that goofy. One thing a friend of mine once said that I think is so accurate, “I’m a great friend but a terrible boyfriend”. This could be him. I mean I don’t really care about their drama, it’s private but I really hate it when it impacts other people’s livelihoods.

I think the term victim is used a little too loosely here. People get gaslit all the time, especially with use of dating apps and the throwaway culture. It happens to people all the time and I wouldn’t call them victims. Obviously not saying he’s isn’t responsible for some of this mess but so is she. Unfortunately her statement and current action just make her look like a vengeful ex out to take down a successful ex. I mean I was trying to get my ex’s career destroyed because we split up. I mean you have to learn to move on at some point. Also speaking as a mom, your body your choice. He said marriage or the baby, she chose marriage possibly. They both made some stupid choices

Yes, people’s feelings change all the time even after marriage and kids. If you ask me, they should be glad they never got married and then had to break up with a horrible divorce. He’s guilty of the crime of being an ass and she’s guilty of being a vengeful ex. He apologized because he knows he played a part in this mess but I am sure his perspective is different from hers. In any case the damage is done to both of them. Also I take issue with calling her a victim. Lots of people are gaslit in the dating world these days. Can they also considered victims since they are not famous people? If that’s the case everyone dating these days will have encountered it at least once.

She wanted a reaction, she got one. Now it’s just a huge mess for everyone including her. She’s being dragged in the world of social media too.

Real question here, but haven’t you ever complained about work or an irritating coworker before to a partner? I mean why do we expect any different from him just because he’s famous. Lots of costars hate each other but they put on a good show because it’s just a show. I mean are people also this upset because he’s got a good boy image? Personally I think he’s a good actor but I’m not gonna waste my money sending him things etc.

He lost like 100,000 after his admission, so he’s still at the same follower count isn’t he?

Well it seems she’s affected now too so it’s a mess for the both of them.

Thanks for stating something a lot of people seem to be missing. He talked her into getting an abortion, he didn’t force her to get one. Not gonna lie, him promising marriage in exchange for an abortion is shite on his part. But she would rather be married to him than have the baby so she made her choice. I’ll always pick my baby over a man. Just saying. And they didn’t even break up until earlier this year so it obviously wasn’t working anyway. They got out of a toxic situation, they should both be glad. It sucks his career is in the toilet but it doesn’t look like she can escape unscathed now so they both screened themselves over.

I think part of the toxicity of the situation is having fans who don’t understand that celebrities have feet of clay and they screw up all the time. First off, I agree, victim blaming is never ok. I’m guessing they were trying to prove she wasn’t squeaky clean herself either and I guess they found it. For me personally, I’d take my baby over a man any day anyway.

I know right. As someone who is a mom, pregnant women are all about their baby and clear about what they need to do to stay safe

Probably because she was doing Instagram lives drinking and posting about drinking when she was pregnant. Pregnant women don’t do stupid shit like that if their babies are so precious to them. I mean at least I didn’t 😬😬