The thing is it is not that ml cant move on it is that kdrama writers have to write his character like that. Why…
why are the comments complaining tho? there are so many kdrama in which the guy not only dates but hook with many women. that has many women around him and treats FL badly and even in cruel ways. there are many in which ml is arrogant and disrespectful while FL is pure and kind hearted.
they are so many troupe in which male lead is player that has different girls until he falls for the young innocent girl. it is so popular that it has its own genre. it is actually rare for ML not to have ex , it is often FL bc she is the pure and innocent one. it was not until 5-6 years ago they even had FL that dated more then 1 guy bc Korea is conservative country.
The thing is it is not that ml cant move on it is that kdrama writers have to write his character like that. Why…
there are so many troupe in which male lead is player that has different girls until he falls for the young innocent girl. it is so popular that it has its own genre. it is actually rare for ML not to have ex , it is often FL bc she is the pure and innocent one. it was not until 5-6 years ago they even had FL that dated more then 1 guy bc Korea is conservative country.
I really wanted to like this drama, but it just keeps getting ridiculous! This man (ML) wanted to get divorced…
"Not saying the FL is the perfect person, shes petty and unprofessionally. But at least, it can be justified as someone who is hurt" for someone that believe she was cheated on and hurt, i think she is being good person to him. She only lashed out at the start bc she was so hurt. she was willing to work with him for her client showing she put her personal issue and be professional. But I truly hate the ML, i can not understand how so many people can side with him. There is no excuse to not be honest with her and tell her he was unhappy. Cheating is something you do to your enemy, it is such deep wound. yet he is willing to make her believe she was cheated on. wow
How is a relationship where you feel undervalued and unheard not a perfectly valid reason for a divorce??? Now…
"How is a relationship where you feel undervalued and unheard not a perfectly valid reason for a divorce" he he try talking to her ? Did they try marriage counseling? if you feel undervalued and not heard, do you not try to talk about that issue first ? unless he tried to talk to her about those issues, they are not valid reason to leave. Marriage is not like dating. if this was just boyfriend and girlfriend then i would totally agree with you. "in a healthy relationship you would just talk about that and ask for a divorce or find a way to fix it. But for whatever reason he didn't feel he could do that." he is not trapped at all, unless later on it is revealed she is abusive and controlling, he had many ways to leave in less hurtful way. it shows that he is the one that does not value her or even hears her at all. She is human, she can not read his mind. You can not leave without trying to talk and fix the issue. He is beyond selfish and self centered.
" I don't think any of us are validating his methods for engineering the divorce but we can see how someone who felt trapped might take drastic options when that's all the law allows" but yet i see comments that are validating his methods for engineering the divorce bc south Korea is strict with divorces.
i believe there is something else , it's no way it's just that reason for the divorce .. i believe there is something…
Do you not know what marriage is ? it is not something you can just get out in short amount of time. That is so self centered and selfish. The female character wanting to try to fix their marriage shows she is better person then him. when you get married, you make a vow, you make promise to stay together. If they were just boyfriend and girlfriend, i would agree with you. However the fact that he did not communicate to her is the root of all this issue .
For the female lead, her being very hot-headed is something he knew before he married her, they dated for 10 years before this. Is 10 years not enough to see if you can live with that person??
When did he ever compromise? he lied just so he can leave. he was so selfish to lie and create misunderstanding about the cheating.
I honestly would not hate him so much if he did not create that misunderstanding about cheating. He was willing to cause the female lead so much pain and trust issues for his own selfish need. is that compromise? cheating is something you do your enemy, to someone you hate. It really damages your loved ones when you cheat, yet he was willing to create such misunderstanding. "here's some great comments below explaining how legally, it's really quite difficult to get a divorce." did he try ? even if he could not, he could have. moved out and gotten some space away from her. SO far the female lead does not seem like bad person, she does not seem like the type that would chase him and lock him in marriage, if he had been completely honest. Yes she would try to fix it at first bc that is what good person does, however, she would soon realize it not possible and give up. TBH they could have better story in which he was honest and they both reflect their flaws and become better people for their future partners.
i believe there is something else , it's no way it's just that reason for the divorce .. i believe there is something…
why is that justifiable reason? if you are not happy, do you not tell your wife and try marriage counseling first ? will you lie and use cheating to leave ? do you now see how much unneeded pain he has caused by lying instead of just being honest ? the female lead is not bad person that will hate him for leaving over being unhappy.
I wonder why yall don't like his justification for the divorce. Everyone was complaining that it would be some…
The fact that people agreed with you is scary.! How do you not see how twisted it is to divorce like this? It is fine to want to leave because he did not like his marriage but why would he make such misunderstanding and say it was due to cheating ? Do you not realize how much pain and trust issue it creates for your loved one ?? If he had been honest with her, they both would have moved on. She would not hated him so much, they could have been good friends and still help each other out. Also not liking the marriage and easily leaving says alot about him, did they try marriage counseling ? how often did he try to talk to her about his issue ? marriage is not some cheap job you can leave. For him to want to leave by using cheating is disgusting, cheating is something you do to your enemy
I would like to ask you, if you are not happy in relationship, would you be honest and tell the truth so see if yall can work out the issue ? or would you like the male lead lie and create such big pain and then leave ?
they are so many troupe in which male lead is player that has different girls until he falls for the young innocent girl. it is so popular that it has its own genre. it is actually rare for ML not to have ex , it is often FL bc she is the pure and innocent one. it was not until 5-6 years ago they even had FL that dated more then 1 guy bc Korea is conservative country.
for someone that believe she was cheated on and hurt, i think she is being good person to him. She only lashed out at the start bc she was so hurt. she was willing to work with him for her client showing she put her personal issue and be professional.
But I truly hate the ML, i can not understand how so many people can side with him. There is no excuse to not be honest with her and tell her he was unhappy. Cheating is something you do to your enemy, it is such deep wound. yet he is willing to make her believe she was cheated on. wow
he he try talking to her ? Did they try marriage counseling? if you feel undervalued and not heard, do you not try to talk about that issue first ?
unless he tried to talk to her about those issues, they are not valid reason to leave.
Marriage is not like dating. if this was just boyfriend and girlfriend then i would totally agree with you.
"in a healthy relationship you would just talk about that and ask for a divorce or find a way to fix it. But for whatever reason he didn't feel he could do that."
he is not trapped at all, unless later on it is revealed she is abusive and controlling, he had many ways to leave in less hurtful way.
it shows that he is the one that does not value her or even hears her at all. She is human, she can not read his mind. You can not leave without trying to talk and fix the issue. He is beyond selfish and self centered.
" I don't think any of us are validating his methods for engineering the divorce but we can see how someone who felt trapped might take drastic options when that's all the law allows"
but yet i see comments that are validating his methods for engineering the divorce bc south Korea is strict with divorces.
may i ask for your age or if you are married ?
it is not something you can just get out in short amount of time. That is so self centered and selfish. The female character wanting to try to fix their marriage shows she is better person then him.
when you get married, you make a vow, you make promise to stay together.
If they were just boyfriend and girlfriend, i would agree with you. However the fact that he did not communicate to her is the root of all this issue .
For the female lead, her being very hot-headed is something he knew before he married her, they dated for 10 years before this. Is 10 years not enough to see if you can live with that person??
When did he ever compromise? he lied just so he can leave. he was so selfish to lie and create misunderstanding about the cheating.
I honestly would not hate him so much if he did not create that misunderstanding about cheating.
He was willing to cause the female lead so much pain and trust issues for his own selfish need. is that compromise?
cheating is something you do your enemy, to someone you hate. It really damages your loved ones when you cheat, yet he was willing to create such misunderstanding.
"here's some great comments below explaining how legally, it's really quite difficult to get a divorce." did he try ? even if he could not, he could have. moved out and gotten some space away from her.
SO far the female lead does not seem like bad person, she does not seem like the type that would chase him and lock him in marriage, if he had been completely honest. Yes she would try to fix it at first bc that is what good person does, however, she would soon realize it not possible and give up. TBH they could have better story in which he was honest and they both reflect their flaws and become better people for their future partners.
do you now see how much unneeded pain he has caused by lying instead of just being honest ?
the female lead is not bad person that will hate him for leaving over being unhappy.
How do you not see how twisted it is to divorce like this? It is fine to want to leave because he did not like his marriage but why would he make such misunderstanding and say it was due to cheating ? Do you not realize how much pain and trust issue it creates for your loved one ??
If he had been honest with her, they both would have moved on. She would not hated him so much, they could have been good friends and still help each other out.
Also not liking the marriage and easily leaving says alot about him, did they try marriage counseling ? how often did he try to talk to her about his issue ? marriage is not some cheap job you can leave. For him to want to leave by using cheating is disgusting, cheating is something you do to your enemy
I would like to ask you, if you are not happy in relationship, would you be honest and tell the truth so see if yall can work out the issue ? or would you like the male lead lie and create such big pain and then leave ?