I can't believe there are people out here writing essays trying to justify rape.
Women are dehumanized on a daily basis. It is an affront to our self-esteem and a man’s tool to inscribe subordinate status on to women. In today’s unjust society this is being so normalized.
Every day we have the opportunity to examine our behaviours and beliefs for biases that permit rape culture to continue that's why I do believe build can learn and grow from it at least that's what I hope.
But please don't sit here and invalide us all just because you idolize him so blindly that you can't acknowledge his wrongdoings.
It's okay to forgive him but don't try to make him the victim in this situation " oh poor guy " no.. no.. no as Vegas would say.
No matter the time, age or circumstances, such thing has no excuse and build knows this so I'm expecting you, his fans to also know this.
As for the people who dug this, yes it was obviously a malicious intend but you are all blaming them more than you blame build and I think that's problematic because although no one should invade someone's privacy build did deserve to be held accountable for it.
I love you all and it's okay to unfollow him, it's okay to be hurt, it's okay to forgive him, it's okay to feel whatever you want.
I am sorry, if you want me to be honest. What he wrote was wrong, but the people who dig this up now? Eight years…
Im sorry for what happened to you, I truly am and I understand this things online don't hurt you but not everyone can relate, many victims struggle while reading such things from someone who they idolize, its within their right to unstan him and the time doesn't play a role in that, those words were said regardless of when and how, they are as hurtful now as they were 8 years ago
Build deserves to be held accountable for his mistakes. Please don't blame the people for bringing it to the surface instead of focusing on his wrongdoings. Of course, no one should invade anyone's privacy but some of y'all are brushing off the main point, build did something wrong and the apology was needed
What really happened ? Can someone start at the beginning ?
Build said women deserve to be raped because of how they dress and then told a rape victim that they should take rape as an opportunity, this eas 8 years ago and today he apologized
This is sick. I FORGIVE HIM but please stop praising him for an apology and act like he deserves a crown AND PLEASE stop justifying what he did. ITS OKAY to give him a second chance while acknowledging the shit he did
STOP FINDING EXCUSES FOR HIM. You can forgive him without justifying his actions!!! Its not that hard, Im also giving him a second chance but I wont sit here and try to fucking justify it. ACKNOWLEDGE HIS MISTAKE PLEASE
We're living in a time where everyone and everything can be found online. Where someone went, how dressed or even…
Yes, nobody should invalidate other's. People are allowed to forgive him but they are also entitled to be mad at him. Each one of us can cope with it as we wish, there is no need to spread hate
Why are they coming out with this now? They really waited years to just reveal this? Leave them alone!! they always…
I think that although we shouldn't dig for actor's private life, im glad they brought this up because otherwise build would have never apologized and it was needed tbh.
Please take care of yourselves ❤ I know this matter is heartbreaking to many of us, as someone who is deeply attached to the show as well as the cast I understand how much this can hurt so if you need a break make sure to take it and focus on yourself please
Women are dehumanized on a daily basis. It is an affront to our self-esteem and a man’s tool to inscribe subordinate status on to women. In today’s unjust society this is being so normalized.
Every day we have the opportunity to examine our behaviours and beliefs for biases that permit rape culture to continue that's why I do believe build can learn and grow from it at least that's what I hope.
But please don't sit here and invalide us all just because you idolize him so blindly that you can't acknowledge his wrongdoings.
It's okay to forgive him but don't try to make him the victim in this situation " oh poor guy " no.. no.. no as Vegas would say.
No matter the time, age or circumstances, such thing has no excuse and build knows this so I'm expecting you, his fans to also know this.
As for the people who dug this, yes it was obviously a malicious intend but you are all blaming them more than you blame build and I think that's problematic because although no one should invade someone's privacy build did deserve to be held accountable for it.
I love you all and it's okay to unfollow him, it's okay to be hurt, it's okay to forgive him, it's okay to feel whatever you want.