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However, BDSM is completely fine. In fact, in some cases, it’s better than vanilla lifestyles. Some things in a BDSM lifestyle that you don’t always find in a vanilla relationship such as consent and boundaries - Lots of relationships obviously use consent and have some boundaries, but BDSM relationships are structured on them. In vanilla, it seems as though people just try to figure their role and what the other person wants as they go. But with BDSM, most set the boundaries from the get-go. Not all relationships, but many, seem to fail due to lack of communication. BDSM also centers around this. You kind of have to talk with each other about their wants, needs, and concerns before you can enter a scene. You have to talk to your partner about your desires and fantasies in order for them to be realized. It can be a lot more fulfilling both sexually and emotionally when you are open and honest about these things, and the BDSM dynamic allows for that.
They are not so different from any other couple. They have the same concerns. BDSM play is always consensual — meaning whenever one of them uses the safe word, what’s going on must stop. No questions asked.
They also are supposed to talk beforehand. The scene played out shouldn’t be organic until they’ve done it enough so they know each other’s limits. When they’re just starting out, they must discuss the scene in advance and lay out what’s going to happen.
BDSM is not abuse nor rape.
Gone copy this to whoever shames BDSM btw 🤡
Pete on the other hand is influenced by the background he grew in. He's strong enough to swallow the guilt when he settles for violence to complete his task, it's the most effective way to achieve his goals but unlike Vegas he doesn't use this for his own benefit.
Vegas WANTS to chose violence, Pete HAS to chose violence. They are not the same in that category.