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but it's not pathetic that these writers are fantasizing about rich handsome pure virgin men who only ever loved them,
while they are ok for the FL to be with other men,

you see, it's not pathetic at all.

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Others are also free to reply to comments or not reply to my comments.

I am not forcing anyone to read my comments or reply to comments.

It's my choice to post, the others also have a choice to ignore my posts.

last thing others should do is give someone advise that is personal.
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it's not the man wanting to be a virgin,
it;s the female writers of these dramas writing the man being a virgin.
while the same female writers write the woman having relationships.

hence the question Girl.

I am just asking if the preference of these woman who want to sleep around is to marry a virgin man?

Girl, the ones being prudish are the writers,
they are the ones writing the pure virgin ML.

they are the ones having problem with men having relationships while having no problems with women having relationships.

Girl, being a virgin is not a big deal now a days.
No man or woman is looking to marry a virgin Girl.

hence my surprise at watching every Kdrama and Cdrama having a pure virgin ML , while the FL is shown happy having sexual relationships...Girl

Cdrama Female empowerment ->
have the FL in relationships with other men, keep the ML as a pure virgin who loved FL since he was a sperm in his daddy's loins and lastly ensure FL has as many body rubbings with other men as possible.

looking at this pure virgin ML trend in Cdramas and Kdramas, Just wondering if Korean and Chinese women like to marry a pure virgin man while they themselves don't want to save themselves for their husband and have physical relations with as many men as possible?

Most Cdrama FL's are cheating pieces of crap.
And the dramas have normalized their shitty cheating ways while keeping the ML as a simpy pure virgin without any dignity.

Don't know who to hate more, the cheating piece of crap FL or the gutless ML who is hell bent on saving his virginity for a piece of crap.

I was talking about the scenarios.

person A meeting their ex who they had relationship for years is significantly different to a person B being chased by a person they had no interest.

First scenario is about 2 people who were in relationship, intimate in every possible way
Second scenario is about 2 people who were never in a relationship and have zero intimacy.

the FL should have never asked ML to meet her ex.
The only interaction FL should have with her ex is the same interaction she would have with a pig covered in shit.

it's strange Cdramas normalize FL in relationships/married having these kinds of interactions with their ex or other men.
Just the disrespect shown to your partner is astonishing.

She does meet her ex though, after getting married to the ML.

the difference between FL meeting her ex, who she had dated for years, been extremely intimate, both physically and mentally for years
and
ML being chased by a girl who he has never dated, never liked, never been physically intimate etc etc is huge.
You could fill an ocean in the difference between the two scenarios.

This crap of a drama is going exactly like every other Cdrama,

the pure virgin ML after getting together with the FL who had past relationships with other men, is getting his balls crushed and his spine grounded to dust by the FL.
The ML is now entering his Simp phase, nicely trained by FL. Slowly the ML will lose his identity, his respect and finally himself and just live or die at the feet of the FL.

Typical Cdrama story telling.

throw as many men at FL as possible.
make as many men grope FL as possible.

Most importantly keep the ML pure and virgin.

Yet another Cdrama with yet another pure virgin ML.

Cdrama romance industry is absolute shit, not normal shit, the kind of shit you poop out after eating lot of dodgy food.

Compared to TPR, this one is 100 times better.

In TPR, if you reverse the gender, the writers would have made FL take revenge on the ML who cheated, abused, maligned and killed her.
Since it's the FL that does all these horrendous things, viewers need to pretend she was not horrendous and also pretend ML was not victim and also somehow pretend believe ML repeating the same crap in next life as well.

does it make sense - No
does it make FL getting groped by multiple men all through the drama - yes

The only thing that matters in Cdramas and even many Kdramas is having FL getting it on with as many as possible.
Characterization and story line matters naught.

Let's imagine Cdrama FL is writing her profile on a dating website, it would be like this -

Female, 25, with past boyfriends, modern, party girl, heavy drinker, has many close male friends and admirers who will be constantly in close touch....
is looking for a Man, who is a virgin, never dated, never loved any woman, does not ever make eye contact with women, will not have any female close friends, will not mingle with other women, cooks, cleans, 6 feet tall, very successful, handsome and very rich.

Where does the drama show ML being interested in any woman?

On other hand, the drama takes a lot of time and effort to show FL's relationship with another guy.

If ML indeed has any sort of interaction/interest in another woman, the drama would have shown it, just like how it shows FL's relationships with other men.

yes, that's the drama.

It was bizarre watching 2ML rolling all over FL even after she got married to the ML.
It was deliberately written to ensure the FL got groped by as many men as possible in the drama.

Romance did not make any sense in that drama.
the ML was pretty much cucked early in the show where the FL abuses the ML for couple of episodes over 2ML.

There was a recent Xu Kai's period drama,
in that the FL after becoming the wife of ML is shown rolling around with the 2ML, who happens to be the FL's friend from their childhood.

That guy literally rolls all over the FL who is shown as passed out.

You can guess why these Cdrama writers have their FL's being groped by as many men as possible in their dramas while keeping the ML extremely pure where he never even makes eye contact with other women.

This drama ML, Ming is expert at playing pure virgin ML's.
In all his dramas he is a virgin and the FL more often than not had relationships with other men.

ML's are toxic by design.
If they are NOT toxic, it would mean an environment where women can approach them and the ML would have relationships with them,

There is only one way to maintain a Cdrama ML's virginity.
That is by making him toxic.
If he was not toxic, with their handsome looks, capabilities, wealth, social status etc etc, these ML's would be swimming in boobies since middle school.

first episode is damn funny.

the FL's father is a walking riot. That man looks like a drunk Walrus

Pure virgin, very handsome handsome and very capable ML - check
FL with boyfriends - check

Another same shitty Cdrama romance - check

This is 10th consecutive Cdrama romance in last 2 months with the same characters and tropes.
They sure love their very very virgin ML, don't they..

Another run of the mill Cdrama with harem for the FL.
The whole drama is all about throwing as many men as possible at the FL.

You know, just like every Cdrama in last few years,

They are not celibate, they hate all women except FL. have you noticed how ML's won't make eye contact with any women? They won't even give any women a handshake.
On other hand FL's will have full body on body rubbathon with as many men as possible.

Looking at Kdramas and Cdramas, I am almost convinced Chinese and Korean men have a lot of serious sexual problems - at least going by how these dramas show their men in them.

All men in these dramas are super handsome, rich, successful and with full of sexual disorders.