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okay so am i the only one who felt akin being childish when losing the most handsome award to jin?
i mean he won it for 5 years already and he said it himself that it's all fleeting then why was he so upset; i get being little upset but so much to the point of bursting into tears??
it wasn't even best actor award; which to me would have made more sense as jin is a newbie.
and also shouldn't he be happy that his bf won the award after him being the number 1 for 5 years already? why is his character so immature? and when he lost the best actor award to someone else, he was totally fine eating cake? i mean i dont know if they are following exactly how the anime was written but to me akin is very immature also pointing out how he handled johnny situation; like why wont he just confront johnny? he was clearly drunk and according to him (akin) they spent the night together then shouldn't he be mad and confront johnny? if not that same morning but next day?
jin is so much more mature and centred, thankgod.
or maybe i am watching it wrong.

okay so after reading comments from both perspective of people who say its grooming and who say it isn't as there isn't much of an age difference; though i agree there's not much of age difference and at the end of the day Jun's a grown adult and capable of making his own choices, but still what Sorn is doing is similar to gaslighting and manipulation as he is first crushing Jun's confidence by telling him he is not good at kissing and other stuff and then offering to teach. but who says he is not good in the first place? has any of Jun's past lovers told him that? why is he believing Sorn's word? and why is Sorn making excuses to be with Jun in the first place? if he likes him just say so or even if he is confused, he can just say he is confused and would like to give it a try.
Sorn wants best of both worlds he has multiple partners and also wants Jun to himself all while crushing his confidence.
or maybe i am just watching it with wrong lens on.

okay so i will not be presumptuous and say that i understand your situation; but i would like to suggest something that really helps me in my tough situations; just randomly make a list of positive things that came out of this slump , i know its difficult to do and easy to say but trust me even if its only one thing (eg: this situation gave you more time to think about your career graph) just be delulu and list out whatever you can think; you will find some direction/path at the end of it. it worked for me so just thought of suggesting it. hope everything works out for you. best wishes.

okay so now i have another question: when does akin realise that they didnt sleep together and it was all the new guy's plan?

okay thanks for replying, i feel lil peace now

ok so i really hope someone can spoil this for me as i am not sure about this series anymore; up till ep4 it was going quite good but ep5 had me a lil disappointed (i wont spoil why);
but the teaser for ep6 is not looking good in my pov: please tell me that the new guy doesnt SA akin? (i have not read the manga nor i have any idea about it) i really hope not..
hope someone can answer this

that's right, in this particular series they are not blood related, its more of ML find him on the street and gives him a shelter and they eventually start living together as a family, he called the older ML as brother because in asian culture we dont call elders by their name, even if we are not related and are strangers we call brother/sister as calling by their name is considered rude. this series is a masterpiece, i wish i could erase my memory and watch it again, its been months and i dont think i will get over this ever.
enjoy..

got it :)

yes i think so too, and thanks i am surely trying my best, hope you find strength to keep fighting too (if it helps, i am trying to change my location entirely and start fresh, you can try it too). we got this :)

hey, i am replying after so long but really wanted to thank you for your comment.
i have been bullied in high school so i do understand yi heon's pov but maybe i did underestimated his trauma and how deep it runs, as for me i didnt have any deuk pal to sort of guide/help and had to pick up the pieces myself and save myself and not give but create my own second chance, thats why it really bothered me that he gave up but after reading the comments i do understand, maybe i dont give myself enough credit for being strong and just assumed that what i did is what is everyone does and its not a big deal. so your comment really made me appreciate myself all over again.

thankyou for your reply.

firstly, thankyou so much for taking the time out to explain it so beautifully.
i will keep this drama in archives to watch later for now and for days when i am not down with my own problems and feeling mature and stable to watch it with smile and appreciate it for what it is. thanks again.

okay so someone please be kind and let me know if its a happy ending? happy ending as in the leads end up together forever kind... also please be kind and mention if its bittersweet ending or sad.
as i am in a phase in my life where my heart cant handle anything other than a happy ending. so please. god i hope as i have been waiting for this drama.

am i the only one who doesnt agree with the ending???
i am a little upset over the ending tbh;
even though it was not fair how deuk pal lost his life but still he had a full life....
the real yi heon should have entered his body and continued the life..
i mean he got a real chance to live life for the first time ever, it would have made more sense to see real yi heon becoming confident and coming out of his shell after everything deuk pal did for him, i mean he should be grateful and lived his life to the fullest and also understand that his choice lead to this consequence and yet his having another chance at life thanks to deuk pal.
and what about deuk pal?? like how is he going to live life a kid again?
it doesnt make sense to me at all...
i am really dont agree with the ending....

is it true for school teachers too (not just hagwon teachers)? as for hagwon i can understand, thats why i am curious for school system.

as in the series i found the school teacher to be too egoistic, he cared more about his honor and position than the students and their needs and made students life difficult in order to prove his point and nobody did anything and just accepted it for what it is (i mean principle and school board)? like how?

oh my god fellow indian, i can totally relate.
plus i am shocked at the education system there,
we often find ours to be lacking but for the first time i am grateful for our education system (though it has its shortcomings)

what a start, for the first time i am glad to be watching an on air drama.
learning a lot about korean education system and how it is so different and difficult.
just one thing, why is everyone trying to control other people's lives!!!!!!
asking a question since i am curious (no hate) : is it common in korea for school teachers to have so much ego? or are they just showing worst case scenario?

exactly, even the cinematography feels like. one spring night is my all time fav drama
edited: just realised same director thats why

i think in future she will be sacrificing her life/ her future for this very family and take care of them like how the dad does it now, may be thats how she ends up wearing the family ring.

i think she's going to regret in future lying to him like that, i feel that will come back in future episodes.