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Some people even defend it by saying the drama background and lighting was good so you should watch that and I am like but it theme and story it cheating then why are you looking at its lighting ?? We are here mainly for the story and if it's trash then it's trash don't try to defend it by new love and lighting or others bullshit .

We will start "We the Men " Campaign for the justice of Kdrama husbands who get cheated on 💪💪.

Its not yisoo, anyone who he would have choosen for his relationship that would have gone strong because he is very deep thinker like me .I knew whoever he choose it will gonna last because people like us not make choices that easy but when we do we stick to it no matter what . That's why it's frustrating for me to see him so confused and make other confused. He also gave Jiyoung false hope this was more frustrating. If he didn't liked her he should have told her in their second date that he didn't like her but no he kept her hanging and flirting but always choosed someone else . He cockblock other guys to give their 100% because everyone thought he will choose her . so they didn't try much. Even JiYoung didn't try much with other guys but when she realise he will never choose her and gave other guys chances everything look diffrent for her and she was able to choose someone else. She didn't get much time to decide who is better for her .untill last episode he was keeping her in loop . If he liked someone it's good but you have to tell others that we are not a match or I don't like you . She was suffering because of him and he didn't even address anything and keep avoiding her. He was always flirting with everyone in front of her . Its was just plain disrespect.

Yes I felt the same I can't tell you how disappointed I am with him.he was my guy from the start because I always like underdog but the way he unfolded was just painful .he was so confused that even as a guy I would have dumped him .he choose everyone but the girls who love him and if he didn't loved her he need to tell her that I don't love you but he drag that to the end and she didn't get any time to know anyone else maybe it was scripted to add salt but he became the villian of the show . He was too coward the scene when guys were asking for the date and he took almost 20 minute to choose Yisoo again I was like wtf .man you don't need relationship.you need to work of yourself and needed to know what you like and what you have to do because watching you is frustrating.

Na it was not that good all three boy like one girl who is in love with 4th boy and all the three girl in love with 4th boy who is in love with someone who doesn't love him .mingyu was most confused person he always choose Someone but jiyoung and if he didn't like her he should have told her from the start but he always said it's hard and I am confused and gave her hope . At last she come to the conclusion that he will never choose le so she choose someone else and they broke up . I didn't understand Mingyu a little bit he has more common things with jiyoung . They have same interest. Same pace and same hobbie but he never choosed her . Mingyu and yisoo relationship was too forced I think it was scripted to add some content because Mingyu said to Jiyoung that he stoped him from loving her bro if you don't want to love someone why come to dating show ?? They were perfect but I didn't understand him till the end maybe it was scripted because one day he was saying we are done to Yisoo and next day they were closer than anyone even the last selection was scripted .

I think the problem was not time .it was lack of affection she never liked him in the first place . She only choosed him because the one she was in love with didnt choose her once and the was really confused . That's why she choose comfort and try to work but it will not . They didn't have many things in common and didn't have any same hobby so their relationship was doomed from the start .

Everyone knew they will breakup She only choose him because he was comfortable and she needed someone else because the person she liked never choosed her . I knew the moments she choose him they will gonna breakup .

1. Atleast she should have treated his wound . I am not mad at her leaving .I am mad at her when she saw him injured and leave the house no matter what you always prioritised your love ones health over anger . She don't have control on her anger .no matter how angry I am with someone I won't leave if she is hurt I will always treat her first then get mad .

2.Again with same if only he had given her the attention bro I never heard a man saying something like give me attention . Wrong is wrong and that was cheating not wrong . She is in her late 20s she needed to be mature and know relationship doesn't work like that .people also have othe priorities like work , friends, hobbies and sports etc. it's not like he was spending time on vacation or alone or someone else . He never get mad when she spend her time with friends but she always get mad at him and instead of talking to him she choose to cheat on him with some stranger .

3.She need to say sorry because she need to address all the things in private not in public and embarrassed him in front of his friend . He didn't share the wine . He hide it but when his friend found the wine he said ok let's drink many would have done the same thing .he was busy in work and I don't know about you but if I am working I am totally invested in it and surrounding doesn't matter to me also it's not like he was playing games . He was preparing for the interview any man would do the same. its not something to get mad about. She is just childish and not mature enough to understand all those things .they perform s*x and now he want to watch soccer it's not ditching he just watch soccer in hall with friends it's not like he go outside or gosted her. She always get mad and that's why he don't explain things to her. he even wanted to explain why he declined the job offer but after watching her behaviour he said ok let it go I don't want to fight with you . He always say I don't want fight but she is always mad .

4.Its not crazy it's the end of any relationship I don't know about other but if something like that happened to me I am gone . If I see my gf setting with someone in the bar i still will give her benefits of doubts and let her explain but if my gf saw me and still didn't say anything and let someone else put his hand on her shoulder then it the end because no amount of excuse can cover something like that and I have too much respect for me to talk to someone how humiliated me like that .

Fl was talking to someone who she know want to sleep with her . She didn't block him even her one friend said isn't it cheating if you are talking to someone without you bf knowledge who is intrested in you ?? so FL was not the better person in the relationship .they are both worst . She get upset with little things . She was paying his rent then he also try to take the job he hated for her . In that interview he said my gf will be upset because H2 is us and if I let go of H2 I will be let going of us and then leave . I will agree he become too comfortable but he is the one who always say sorry and I love you . Fl never said those things and the elevator scene was devastating . Its not that she cheated or not . She saw him and let someone else take her to the elevator where ML was standing that was plain disrespect. Even in front of their friends she always get mad . Even one of his friend said she will beat you if you won't take the job so I don't know about better person . He never complained about her with anyone else always said sorry .yes he need to communicate better that's the only problem he had . She also need to be more mature . He was busy with work and she was disturbe him . When he said he didn't took the job she get mad and left without checking his injury it's not a trait of better person in relationship. So I don't think she is better in any way .

People are not trigger by cheating people are dissapointed with hypocrisy . you won't see when husband or bf cheat Fl call him to ask what happened . You want see happy ending for cheater when it's men . You won't generally see women accept their cheater husband but you will often see husband forgive their cheater wife Or husband will be alone in the end not successful nor some one will come for the husband and thats why people are upset . Even in this someone said she will find someone else in the end and ML will be alone that tell you the hypocrisy of Kdrama and their cheating .

The problem is not cheating. The problem when women cheat they always get away with it but when men cheat they face concequences.its double standards that's the problem . I don't have problem with cheating story I have problem when cheater don't get punished or the husband forgive them but when it's men who cheat. their wife will take revenge become successful or find someone else but it's not same for the men when they get cheated on in Kdrama .

If it's women who cheat .the writer always try to justified it with situation or neglegence of Ml but when men cheat then it's always they are trash or their wife will be the most saint women you will find on earth . People always say its reality but is it ? How can it be reality when you blame one group and always try to save another . When husband cheat it's always their wife find someone better and their wife is most traditional wife who was always busy in family and all but when husband cheat it's always they will be up alone . No one come for them or the mistress they cheat with will be dumb who don't know anything. Their wife will divorce them and find someone better or become successful themself but when Wife cheat their husband will be a loser who don't take care of them or busy in their work or will accept their cheater wife in the end .it's not reality it's hypocrisy either write both of them same or not at all . Cheating is a choice and no amount of loliness or excuse can change that and both men and women should get same treatment but look like Korean writers are ok with women cheating but not men .

Nope at first she said they are like siblings and don't have romantic feeling then she gave up 4 candy and told him to stick with her as her backup plan . None of the other guys showed intrest in her . Habin didn't show intrest for anyone . Even Gwanhee doesn't show intrest in her . Wonik was pretty much set on another girl . Mingyu was set on gyuri . So neither of them showed intrest on her . She only missed him when someone showed interest in him then she realise my backup plan is gone and then she rushed toward it .

Gyuri accepted Minkyu because she doesn't want to end up loser or to save her face so their relationship is more like business .

JinSeok and Min-young was final from day 1 yes there was some obstacle but they were true of themself but is till believe neither of them are each other first pick . JinSeok choose her because she was only one a little bit interesting that's why he said on day 2 none of them are his type and thats why he goes after Minji but Minji was a player and he don't like player so he didn't 100% choosed her. Min-young also didn't like him that's much she only choosed him because none of the other men were intrested in her and she didn't want to look like a loser in the end .

Gwanhee : I think he liked Hyeseon from day one but he was so insecure . And Hyeseon didn't validate his insecurity when he said I will only choose you other girl Minji and Hajeong validate his insecurity but he knew Hajeong was fan for him from the start and only be with him for his fame . I think he didn't like monogamy that's why he is so conflicted he also said to every girl go on a date with someone else .

Minji was a child who only know seduction and preety and bubbly when you first meet her.so it's work on outside world but here it won't here you are completing in a competition and everyone is preety not only for in outside maybe she was beautiful in her college like she said she get many attention but here you have to show your character and personality also preety can give you first chance but it's your personality that will take you long .

The problem was one episode per week because people lost intrest or the story took eternity to pass. untill episode 9 people still manage because it was fluppy so people enjoy it despite one week episode but after 9 episodes it goes into past life where people lose intrest and it took long like more than a month to past life trope to end so people think it was draggy. I always said if you binge watch it . It is not as bad as the review or rating but one episode per week made a significant damage to this drama .

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I think Camera and Script sometime put lot of pressure on contestants like look at Habin He is not that much interested in any girl maybe they are not his type and people are calling him boring or he didn't get any screen time . look at Gwanhee that guy is the reddest flag but get all the screentime . Also girls don't want to end up alone at final selection . Look at Min-young she first rejected JinSeok but the second he started talking to another girl she start behaving like a brat because she doesn't want to end up alone because the person who end up alone is loser and 5 Female contestant are Miss Korea so that will damage their brand reputations. Even Dex was getting all attention but become loser at the end .so the girls want someone who get much screentime and are dramatic because they will also get more screen but they didn't realise there is a difference between good publicity and bad . People are criticizing Minji for her behaviour and I doubt now that she will able to land her anchoring job maybe when people forget about her not now .I remember in Season 1 the girl who left on the beach and become friends with many boys is the best girl in that season but only one person choose her and I still remember her not others because she was good maybe she didn't get much screen but she win many heart . In season 2 Nadine was best girl but didn't get choosen by anyone she even try her best and got out of her comfortzone but leave alone but the diffrence is even if they both didn't get many screen or choosen they didn't lose their self-respect and didn't lower themself but in season 3 Ha-jeong is good but the way she is making herself for Gwanhee is unbearable girl just be happy you try and leave the inferno with self respect don't became someone doormate same goes for any girl who is going after Gwanhee.

Just watch the last 10 min of episode 13 it will be worth it and as for returning to normal couple this will happen in ep14.

Gwanhee has the lowest self-esteem. He constant need validation like a girl . He is acting more emotional than any girl here and have a experience and brain like a kid . He always ask same question again and again with everyone . He is a walking red flag and the only reason girl are going after him is because he is basketball player and famous even appear in some variety show and his family is rich as fuck . Ha-jeong knew him before coming to SI and followed him for his fame . He is so confused that even a child look more mature infront of him .I liked what Hyeseon said to him that choose Minji because I don't want to be with someone who is that much confused .

Minji : she is a child in adult body and doesn't know how to respect someone . She doens't even know how to do deep conversation. the only think she know is seduction that's why Gwanhee said she is good for GF mean fun who will constantly give you validation and seduction but not good for wife because she is not mature enough to get into marriage . In helicopter scene the way she acted is so disrespectful for mingyu . That guy is always good with everyone and doens't deserve disrespect even if you are not instrested in someone the only thing you can do is go on a date like a friend and enjoy but not disrespect someone like that . She is just pick me girl .


I only wished two best girl Hyeseon and Ha-jeong should have gone for Mingyu and JinSeok .they were the best match and green flag this season or any season .

He has a lowest self-esteem. He constant need validation like girl . He is acting more emotional than any girl here and have a experience and brain like a kid . He always ask same question again and again with everyone . He is a walking red flag and the only reason girl are going after him is because he is basketball player and famous even appear in some variety show and his family is rich as fuck . Ha-jeong knew him before coming to SI and followed him for his fame . He is so confused that even a child look more mature infront of him .I liked what Hyeseon said to him that choose Minji because I don't want to be with someone who is that much confused .