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my understanding of his reaction is that this was his first time to love someone and to want to trust someone. he was already willing to do so even when he doesn't fully know her background and he already thought that she didn't want the gdm.

only to find out that she indeed wanted it and thus felt that everything she did was not out of sincerity but only to gain his trust so she could to steal the gdm.

also the search for the cure was because she believed that he already destroyed it and doesn't have it anymore.

she knows she hurt him and was now suffering the concequence of her lies. she doesn't want to involve him more in her problem because she knows he hates her because she tried to steal the gdm.

Yes

How to move on from these two. They're so adorable fr! https://youtube.com/shorts/RB5lagJTJYA?si=rP6YoU8qo-DJJDq5

It’s totally fine to enjoy a drama and still see its flaws — that’s normal.
But at the end of the day, your rating is yours, just like mine is mine, and everyone else will have their own too.

There’s really no point in comparing or justifying why someone rates it higher or lower.
People watch for different reasons, value different things, and connect with different parts of a story.

So if you liked it but wouldn’t rate it as high — that’s perfectly valid.
But someone else loving it more is just as valid. No need to turn personal preference into a debate.

I dont get you why do you have to lurk here and compare this to other dramas?

Everyone is entitled to their own preference, but that’s exactly the point — it’s your preference, not a universal truth.

If someone enjoyed Love in the Clouds for its emotional impact, or for the chemistry and performances, that’s valid.

At the end of the day, people watch dramas for different reasons. Let everyone like what they like

also here's ji bozai pov according to hmh from weibo

Even if it cost his life, he would hold onto the first person he ever loved. But after many years, when he offered his pure heart again, the person he treasured scattered it without a drop left. Shock mixed with disappointment, and it became impossible to tell whether it was misunderstanding or betrayal. So he spoke hatred from within love — all his emotions tangled together like a giant vat of dye. In the end, it was “willingness” that absorbed all that color and returned everything to its original form — because his love already carried forgiveness from the start.
Ji Bozai, who lives by walking toward death, has refined his emotions to the purest state. He is sincere toward the one he loves. Once he confirms that the other person’s feelings are real, he drops every defense and becomes even more steadfast in his love

oh yeah. i think he felt he was lied to about her not wanting the gdm and in effect confused or dissapointed that everything she did was only to gain his trust so she could get it.

yes finally. found someone with the same understanding of the drama.

i think i liked idea of him finding out for himself.

because if the fl told her i think it would create more misunderstanding as to if her feelings towards him were sincere or not.

i dont think it was the best idea either but the thought was giving him that wine was the setup they had planned all along. and by that time she only had one petal left. and the go signal that he was now willing to drink that wine had to be the opportunity she can no longer miss

imo even when there wasn't that much background for her previous life it was definite that what she was trying to do was to get the gdm so she could get her life back. also even when she did not verbally admit that she has fallen for the ml i can tell by her actions that she already had feelings for him the first one was at the fake marriage and the next was when he was refining the neatherbeast.

did he say that? i mean i believed it was true that he didn't care about mingyi's past as long as she really cared for him that was all he needs.

but then he was dissapointed when mingyi tried to get the gdm. ofcourse he was confused on whether mingyi was lying. he wasn't really mad about the gdm its more of he's hurt because she might not be sincere towards him afterall.

that's why all he truly needed to verify if she really did love him. and giving her the gdm was a no brainer. it was out of love and that she was the most important than anything else.

imo he didn't care one bit about the lies. all he cared about is whether she truly loved him or not.

i think that because she knows he loves her deeply is the exact reason she couldn't bring herself to tell the truth.

i noticed that whenever she was thinking of telling him the truth. there would be lines in which hinders her from doing so. like the one about the gdm. he tells her that he knows she's not after it since she had a chance before but didn't take it. so she had no way to drop the truth about needing the gdm by then as well as when ml said that his master's dying wish was for him to not let the gdm appear for anyone else.

also because you cant easily go and say that oh i was lying from the start and wanted to get close to you for the gdm but now i really do love you can you give the gdm to save my life.

really would that be believable? won't it cause more misunderstanding that she made him fall inlove just to get the gdm?

imo im satisfied with how the story unfolded. finding out himself that he is loved. instead of questioning what the fl would tell her if its the truth or not.

really sad. i mean people work hard for this. the actors/director/staff spent alot of time and effort in this. and just because they hate it they want to do damage.

he really believed that ming xian is a man. and at first he tested if she was using something like an illusion to appear as a woman and verified that she is a real woman and thus his conclusion that she can't be ming xian.

also the fl barely shows she's sick or in pain in front of him. she was always hiding it from him and downplay it like it was just because of she's not strong and the backfire of spells affect her.

after the breakup and finding her sick. he was on anger mode probably why he didn't figure it out. also the fl mentioning ming xian was poisioned. i think that makes him angier to know that the fl wanted the gdm for ming xian. making him feel that the fl loves ming xian and only used him.

so no he can't figure it out at that time. that boy is angry and hurt.

for your peace of mind the fl didn't entertain his feelings from the start to the end.

i think she wasn't girly for real. i mean she was acting girly since she needed to get close to the ml. but after the breakup i dont remember her acting girly. also aside from acting girly for the ml she wasn't girly with others.

my understanding is that she tried to find a way to tell but upon their conversation the ml was actively telling her that he knows she's different and that she doesn't want the golden millet.

initially this was her intention to appear that she doesn't want it. but since she developed feeling she now becomes scared that he will find it out.

also the ml introduced her his master and that he made a promise to never allow the gmd to appear. so then the fl was like i can't make him disregard his master wishes so i'll just be the villian.
and the part of him forgiving him easily for me is understandable. i mean he did mention that he no longer cares about his past. that knowing she truly cares about him is enough.

yes he was hearbroken because he thought that she didn't really care about him and only wanted the gdm. so he tested the truth not just the real identity but he also tested if she really did care for him. which she truly does.

for me the making of nirvana was enough confirmation that she does really love him. as well as when he fake fainted and the fl was willing to heal him even if she dies doing so.

haven't watch blossom in adversity since i did not find the plot interesting. but watched her in my journey to you and is amazed by her acting and now in her role in litc im impressed even more. her acting is relatabe so i enjoyed this drama a lot. same with the ml

haven't watched those 2 you mentioned. but this one i was really looking forward to since the release of the trailer and it did not disappoint. i'd say give it a shot. for me its worth the hype.