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Well-Intended Love

奈何BOSS要娶我 ‧ Drama ‧ 2019
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Bellesister
2 people found this review helpful
Oct 2, 2022
20 of 20 episodes seen
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Overall 1.0
Story 3.0
Acting/Cast 2.0
Music 2.0
Rewatch Value 1.0
This review may contain spoilers
I am so fooled into watching this drama from the rave reviews and comments that I've read. Obviously they are not on MDL. If I'd read the comments and reviews on MDL, I probably would not have given this drama a shot. Well, to be fair, the first 10 episodes are kinda okay and watchable when you leave your brain off and just feast on the eyes looking at Xu Kai Cheng. But after that things started to go downhill. The FL gets more annoying and irritating, and you just want to slap her to "wake her" up sometimes. The evil guy (I forgot his name) is an absolute bore and his acting is so bad......... The mom storyline is also weird and to me doesn't make sense, how you would betray your own son just because she loves her second husband? That to me is super outrageous! Unfortunately, I'm not one to drop dramas, so I have to just soldier on and finish it all - Netflix combines both seasons, so it just kept on playing. But I do other things while it plays on the background. Somehow I'm interested to see what crappy ending this drama has :)

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50FiftillidideeBrain
2 people found this review helpful
Jun 14, 2025
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 16
Overall 7.5
Story 7.0
Acting/Cast 7.5
Music 6.5
Rewatch Value 6.5

✒❌️Wrong Car ✅️Right Destiny °7.5° °VG°

They say nothing is free. WIL is about a free ride that isn't free, in the end.

“How could I have leukemia?” Xia Lin (aka "Lin Lin" aka "MuMu”) knows this makes no sense. Her personal and family history are clear of health issues. She's flummoxed as she bulls her way out of the hospital and flings open the door of her Uber. A strange man is in her ride!?! Whatever, just “drop me off first, I'm in a hurry,” she honks. “Well? Scoot Over!” The stranger scoots. (We all Uber in Maseratis all the time, right?) The stranger takes a call from his friend: “I'm alone on the street! Where are you, you were supposed to pick me up!” Sounds like that come from the other end of his phone convo. Stranger, Ling, (Xu Kai Cheng from Novoland: Pearl Eclipse) laconically shuts him down cold: ”Take a cab.” Next, Ms MuMu gets a call from her actual Uber driver… Whoops! Wrong car…

Or wuzzz it?

WIL is a 2019 release that is rated 7.6 on MDL, which is actually a middling rating for that site. Viki has it at 9.3. Why the disparity? WIL contains some triggers that many viewers will find unpleasant, specifically the making of a monster. It's also about the unmaking of a monster. Some viewers will not get beyond the triggers, while others will enjoy the dopamine rush that a classic style romance delivers - he's really, really into her. Our ML grew up with a domineering father. His mother is gone - she finally had to escape her horrible husband and she abandoned her son. Ling picked up some bad tendencies from Fughee (dad) and brings them to his love life. There's nothing unrealistic about that pattern. WIL is about how MuMu‘s presence reforms Ling’s tattered emotional state. The point is that he has issues and needs some work. It isn't justifying his behavior, even if his wrong acts work out in the end. If abusive and domineering men are a hot-button trigger for a viewer then (based on the ratings and reviews) WIL is not the one to watch.

This is a non-spoiler review, so no specifics, but our ML pulls an outrageous stunt because that is all he knows. Fughee brought him up to be emotionless, manipulative, authoritative, and domineering. He desperately craves love but is not equipped to give or receive it. Some watch this and can't get beyond the urge to cancel our ML entirely. On a core programming level, I'm incapable of hating a show in which the ML loves the FL as much as Ling loves MuMu. Keep in mind that equality of the sexes in Asia is decades behind the West. This show is actually performing a service in representing this behavior as wrong and in need of reform. Our FL absolutely refuses to put up with it.

Perhaps that will help you decide if you will enjoy WIL or not - it's only value is in its wind-down escapism, so if it will get one worked up, one should avoid it. People take every trend too far, and our cancel-culture has gone too far. Wrongs should be addressed, corrected and even punished, but we are too quick to throw out human beings. ‘Bringing out the lions’ has never fixed any society or any wrongs, and it never will. None of us are without blemishes. Our first goal should be to promote growth in others. Blocking, mocking, and cross-offing might make a person feel better (superior) in the short run, but it does harm and not good, ultimately. Now I've gone way overboard for a piece-of-fluff show. Moving on…

Mixing up cars is not enough to bring them together. They didn't even exchange names, after all. MuMu glimpses her medical file & learns that the closest match for a bone marrow donor is a stranger, Ling Yi Zhou. She studies up on him - he's a CEO & he will be hard to reach. FeiFei (Liu Jia Xi from The Last Immortal) is her cute & spritely friend. She will teach MuMu how to hook a guy. There's 3 main principles: 1. Commitment. 2. Be Shameless. 3. Be committed to being Shameless. With help from Fei Fei she starts scheming.

Many women have already schemed to meet Mr. Ling, so MuMu & FeiFei are to be congratulated, as it isn't long before MuMu gets her 1-on-1 and sees he is her kind Uber-stranger who gave her a free ride. He won't help, though! He's a businessman, and there's nothing in it for him. No deal. MuMu becomes very emotional and decides she's going to die in a beautiful way. She jumps into the water. For those of you who haven't watched many Asian features, particularly Chinese ones, walking or jumping into the water is treated as a tragic threat of imminent death. It's something I found amusing the first few times I saw it, but now I'm so used to it I just take it in stride. It's a representation of a suicide attempt and it should just be taken as such, no matter how inauthentic and downright silly it appears. Even the Netflix show, Marco Polo-8, has such a scene. It's obviously a cultural thread that connects a patch of ideas and images to which we, in the West, are not privvy.

Anyway, near drowning (her acting was perfect, too. He complimented her) wasn't enough to bring them together, or save her life. She had to go on a campaign. She learned his schedule and he got used to seeing her face until he finally breaks down and agrees to help her. He has 1 condition: Marry him. Marrying her will chase away all the annoying women coming after him. He doesn't have time to work on human relationships. He really doesn't have the desire to, either. She is well suited for the position because she needs something from him. MuMu has a dream of being an actress. Perhaps being married to this well connected guy will save her career as much as it saves her life. Tit-for-tat he understands. Ling can make sense of that. FeiFei theorizes that Ling's real motive is to hide the true nature of his relationship with his actor friend, Chu Yan (Ian Yi from Killer and Healer). Ling needs MuMu to keep him “straight,” ahem. Come to think of it, their first date was /shopping/... 🤔

Actually, what Ling cares about most is making his grandmother happy. It's Grandma who wants him to get married. So, they get to work. Contract signing (with only moderate haggling), civil ceremony (more like a registration), the surgery, recovery, and choosing what family property to occupy (such problems)… They keep the marriage 100% packed away until the move-in stage. She wanted it kept under wraps completely (“😤You're supposed to keep it a secret!” ”😶I took that clause out.” 😤😤!)

Soon she becomes curious about whether Ling finds women attractive or not. More exactly, whether he finds /her/ attractive. She tries an experiment👙 or 2… They fall for eachother early, so most of the show is adjustment issues. He was honed by his father to be ruthless. He's done some ruthless things and he's accustomed to having complete control. How will she respond when the truth comes out? More importantly, is that gonna fill 30 episodes? They have a couple surprises. This duo has some 👛👜🎒stuff💼👝🛍🛄 to work out.

Ms Mu is played by Simona Wang (The Legend of Du Xin Wu). She is bright and endearing. Her manner allows her to appear cute though her looks are more classically beautiful. She was born in ‘91 and was 28 years old when WIL was released. She's supposedly just 21 in ep1, but she does appear older than that. The show covers a few years so it catches up with her. Director, Wu Qiang also brought us General's Lady, Miss Crow with Mr. Lizard & The Eternal Love S2) and screenwriters, He Dun and Yang Huai penned Cute Programmer & The Romance of Hua Rong.

They've almost completely course-corrected in recent years, but for a long time it was common for a Chinese modern-day feature to have inane dialogue to the point of… - well, pinch yourself to check that you aren't dreaming, and confirm they actually committed something that feeble to film. That bad habit probably led to the plot twist that got women's rights groups in a twist (they ain't wrong!). It's more a matter of 1. How seriously do you take a show like this and, 2. If a character makes a mistake, even a particularly bad one, but they have sincere remorse coupled with a complete turnaround later, can we forgive h/h?). WIL has above average writing and dialogue.

The acting is above average. Ling's mother had to hold back tears at one point and the actress was breathtakingly effective. I held /my/ breath. The wardrobe is above average (except for Chu Yan's suit of blue squares which brings on morning sickness). Speaking of wardrobe, Ling looks fabulous in a suit, and I'm not crazy about suits. The script and the plot are well above average. It could be argued that Chinese modern-day dramas are best watched while in rem sleep. They're melodious and often soothing though overflowing with poor plots, wooden acting, and awkward dialogue. The value and/or rating of a feature is in both its technical excellence and its emotional connection. Chinese historical and fantasy features are among the best in the world, but their modern-day stuff has been technically appalling while being emotionally palliative. Guess what? Emotions win 90/90 -> They win 90% of the time for 90% of the people. And Chinese modern-day features are Prozac.

WIL has the 🇨🇳usuals: Flashbacks. Amnesia. Poison. There's a plot twist with one character that's just laughable (Ling's mom). Some of the sequences and side stories are nonsense. Romance fans should still like it quite a bit, though. The building where he works looks like poured liquid with wavy sides. It's an architectural jewel. The filming location is Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, which is on Taihu Lake, 100-150 miles from Shanghai. Another building is a horizontally lit sphere. Swanky. She's always wearing star jewelry and I love it. Each episode ends with a cute vignette looking back on a scene from a different take.


QUOTES📢

S1
In this world there are three things you can never hide: a cough, poverty, and love.

I guess poverty has limited my imagination.

〰🖍 IMHO

S1
📣7 📝6.8 🎭7.3 💓7 🦋7.5 🎨6 🎵/🔊6.7 🔚7.5 ♦ 🌞5 ⚡5 😅3 😭3 😱3.4 😯2 😖1 🤔2 💤2.5


Age 12+ kidnapping, Adult situations, sexual content with lots of kissing, pregnancy, violence

Rated TV-14: Parents Strongly Cautioned. Re-📺? Not impossible


Historical/Period:
Overlord 8.4,
The Sleepless Princess 9.1 (there's a minor fantasy element),
The Romance of Tiger and Rose 9.8,
Under the Power 8.6,
The Rebel Princess 9.1,
The Sword and the Brocade 8.6 (in the style of ancient Chinese opera),
Ruyi's Royal love in the palace (episodes 1 - 49 are a 9.3. While looking up it's historical accuracy, I learned how heartbreaking the rest of the show is. It's over 80 episodes, so that's a hella-lotta hurt. I am not up for it now, so I stopped at episode 49, which is a perfect ending. I cannot recommend episodes 1 - 49 enough. It's near perfect).


K:
My Only Love Song 8.7 excellent comedy;
Mr. Queen 8.5;
My Sassy Girl / Yeopgijeogin Geunyeo 8.5;
The Kings's Affection 8.3;
Mr. Sunshine 9


Fantasy - Heavenly realm:
Love Between Fairy & Devil 8.9;
Once upon a time in Linglian Mountain 7.5;
Douluo Continent 9.4;
Handsome siblings 8.7;
Heavenly Sword 9 (Kung-fu!);
Ancient Love Poetry 8.6;
Eternal love 8.3 + its sequel Eternal Love Of dream/Three Lives, Three Worlds, 10 Miles Of Peach Blossoms 7.7 (I watched these in the wrong order, which was a shame. EL is not without flaws, the FL being the biggest issue, but overall it's outstanding. The sequel was not originally planned. EL actually tells the same story as ELOD as a secondary romance, and the show was so popular that they did the sequel and changed quite a bit).
Love and Redemption 10
Historical/Period:
Overlord 8.4,
The Sleepless Princess 9.1 (there's a minor fantasy element),
The Romance of Tiger and Rose 9.8,
Under the Power 8.6,
The Rebel Princess 9.1,
The Sword and the Brocade 8.6 (in the style of ancient Chinese opera),
Ruyi's Royal love in the palace (episodes 1 - 49 are a 9.3. While looking up it's historical accuracy, I learned how heartbreaking the rest of the show is. It's over 80 episodes, so that's a hella-lotta hurt. I am not up for it now, so I stopped at episode 49, which is a perfect ending. I cannot recommend episodes 1 - 49 enough. It's near perfect).


K:
My Only Love Song 8.7 excellent comedy;
Mr. Queen 8.5;
My Sassy Girl / Yeopgijeogin Geunyeo 8.5;
The Kings's Affection 8.3;
Mr. Sunshine 9


Fantasy - Heavenly realm:
Love Between Fairy & Devil 8.9;
Once upon a time in Linglian Mountain 7.5;
Douluo Continent 9.4;
Handsome siblings 8.7;
Heavenly Sword 9 (Kung-fu!);
Ancient Love Poetry 8.6;
Eternal love 8.3 + its sequel Eternal Love Of dream/Three Lives, Three Worlds, 10 Miles Of Peach Blossoms 7.7 (I watched these in the wrong order, which was a shame. EL is not without flaws, the FL being the biggest issue, but overall it's outstanding. The sequel was not originally planned. EL actually tells the same story as ELOD as a secondary romance, and the show was so popular that they did the sequel and changed quite a bit).
Love and Redemption 10

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Dropped 11/20
Agus595
8 people found this review helpful
Aug 23, 2019
11 of 20 episodes seen
Dropped 0
Overall 1.0
Story 1.0
Acting/Cast 1.0
Music 1.0
Rewatch Value 1.0
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SPOILERS

A series normalizing abusive and controlling behavior by a sociopathic male lead, with a female lead that ends up going back to him, and supporting characters that excuse his behavior and don't try to get her out of the horrible relationship.

The male lead fakes the female lead's cancer diagnosis to manipulate her into marrying him, after stalking her for 2 years, then when she finds out has guards stationed at the house so she can't escape, and steals the marriage license so she can't leave or divorce him.

Paired with a female lead that doesn't leave immediately, doesn't call the police when he basically kidnaps her, and doesn't report the huge medical fraud that happened because his family owns the hospital (both him and año te doctors are to blame here), goes back to him after 2 episodes and ends up having a real marriage and having his child.

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Dropped 13/20
Soula
5 people found this review helpful
Dec 29, 2019
13 of 20 episodes seen
Dropped 4
Overall 4.5
Story 6.0
Acting/Cast 6.5
Music 5.0
Rewatch Value 1.0

Great first half, horrible plot twist

I'm dropping this after only watching 13 episodes, mostly because it became too ridiculous for me to continue investing time in.

The amnesia, while cliche, was tolerable. The large secret the husband kept from the wife felt really wrong and kind of silly when you consider his postion, wealth, and power. The "killing" of a side character for plot progression *rolls eyes*. Plainly put, the villians felt juvenille and the plot twist was super dumb and borderline creepy, cultural diffrrences aside.

I wouldn't recommend this drama, even if the first half of the drama was enjoyable.

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SapphirePetal
5 people found this review helpful
Feb 8, 2021
13 of 20 episodes seen
Dropped 0
Overall 2.0
Story 1.0
Acting/Cast 6.0
Music 7.0
Rewatch Value 1.0
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The name of the drama is a LIE

My review contains a spoiler, but in my opinion it's a necessary spoiler.

When I started this drama I thought it was pretty okay, a bit cringy at times but still okay.

Then, The Twist happened, and I dropped this drama pretty much immediately.
They just casually said "Lol everything is a lie and the male lead is legit a gaslighting abuser but that's okay right? <3"
NO, it is NOT OKAY. I simply refuse to keep watching something that literally glorifies emotional abuse and manipulation and tries to brush them under the rug like it's nothing. My advice to you is that you do the same. Do not watch this, or if you do, don't say I didn't warn you. This is such a disgusting series and I can't believe it got a second season.

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Inna
9 people found this review helpful
Mar 4, 2020
11 of 20 episodes seen
Dropped 1
Overall 1.0
Story 1.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 6.0
Rewatch Value 1.0
This review may contain spoilers
just don't

acting great i actually really liked. actors had great chemistry and each had own thing.
and the main couple was a really good match and different with the usual very little skinship. they had a lot
and actually seemed like a real couple

plot good, but after episode 11 things went into the shit show.
i just dropped it after that, also the plot became really messy and stupid.
HE FAKED THAT SHE WAS ILL, and they tried to turn it into some fairytale.
like nah, i wasted my time don't waste yours.
Here you learn to read reviews.

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uwu
7 people found this review helpful
Jan 26, 2021
11 of 20 episodes seen
Dropped 3
Overall 3.0
Story 1.0
Acting/Cast 6.0
Music 5.0
Rewatch Value 1.0

very disturbing, and not in any way that could be considered good

There are TONS of reviews saying the same thing so I won't go too much into it, but I'll just say if you're even considering giving this drama the benefit of the doubt, stop right there. Don't watch it. Just don't. If you desperately want to, I'd stop at around ep 10 or 11. But it's better if you don't watch it all.

I gave this drama a few more stars just because the acting isn't bad, the chemistry is there, and the humor was doable. But the so-called plot twist is so sick and disturbing, and the worst part is the drama never acknowledges that. It's like all the people in the production of this drama thought it was okay for these kinds of things to happen. The male lead, while at first just seemingly assertive and confident, is manipulative, abusive, and aggressive. And no, no reviewer is overreacting or exaggerating. It's really that bad. I couldn't continue watching because this plot twist made me sick to the stomach, especially since no one ever addresses how horrible and not okay it is.

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hye sung
3 people found this review helpful
Feb 27, 2020
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 0
Overall 6.0
Story 5.0
Acting/Cast 6.0
Music 4.5
Rewatch Value 4.0
This is the first cdrama I have watched which involved in contract marriage. Most of the cdramas that I have watched involved time-travelling, rich guys falls for poor lady, relationship involves with alien girlfriend and hate turns to love relationship. Hence I gave myself a chance to watch this drama since session 2 of this drama was just being released.

I am not going to spoil the story as the title of this drama has mentioned it clearly "Well Intended Love".

What I can said is this drama is really very funny from episode 1 till 10 then from episode 11 onward it starts to get serious and that is the time the female lead, Xia Lin knew the male lead, Old Ling aka her contractual husband has arranged to trick and trap her into this contract marriage.

I am rather surprised to see there are many skin-ship involved in this drama which are very cheesy and I really saluted both ML & FL for being able to bring up these cheesy moments.

The side casting example Xia Lin good friend and Wen Li relationship and Yan Chou were rather cute and adorable. It's like the decoration on top of a birthday.

Overall this story is quite predictable and if you like rom-com this drama is for you.
As for me it's just an average drama 'coz it's not logic but entertaining.
Even the OST for this drama is just average.
One thing for sure is it has happy ending! Lol..........

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Ria Madan
3 people found this review helpful
Dec 12, 2020
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 0
Overall 6.0
Story 4.0
Acting/Cast 5.0
Music 6.0
Rewatch Value 4.0
Honestly i never thought that a 20 ep drama could feel like so long. Like did writers use even a little of logic or common sense while writing, or they had their brain grazing in the field all along. Finally m done watching it but like seriously, even cartoons and animes make more sense than this.
It really could have been a good drama but seriously i will seriously say they ruined it this bad it cant be any better.

Plot and Acting: Ok it goes like a cute modern drama story like a cold rich man, grandma pestering for marriage, and contract marriage. Female lead story was also doing pretty good all along like sick girl and she need help from Male Lead. But the ways the female lead kept approaching the main lead were so childishly written like it would be like you are watching a cartoon for toddlers. Ok thats still abit cute till there. But a quater after frst half is like so annoying.

Like the man is crazy, ok they mean to show the possessive character trait which he changed, But if it was supposed to be that way ACTOR DID A TERRIBLE JOB, because it was cute throughout . The story and atmosphere was purely mismatched. He does passionate things which are ridiculous, but there is no ridicule in the atmosphere like seriously. And there is no character development in any character.

For main plot and leads, both failed to come upto the expectations. Neither the plot was well written, nor the leads did it well, but their way rathar made show less serious than it is, making it easy to continue until the episode end.

Other than that the supporting characters did their parts pretty well and made more sense than mains

Rewatch Value: well I have many good dramas in my bag so at least i wont be rewatching it any sooner. But if u plan to, just give ur mind a holiday while u r watching it because it makes no sense. It would be pretty well and cute until u dont talk about some common sense.

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Crazy about Asian dramas
3 people found this review helpful
Jun 22, 2020
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 0
Overall 6.5
Story 6.5
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 6.0
Rewatch Value 5.5
This review may contain spoilers
A boy love a girl to get her ,he made a false situation. Story is good but the way he got her that was not right .If you love someone you should tell him or her , instead of you force them to get marry with you. what if she loves someone and you force her to marry , for a while she get totally destroy and fake news about cancer that is not right ,what if this news put her into pressure and she get depression. Though this drama shown immense love but their story starts with a false and every relationship is based on trust . So we should not encourage such story where he play with her emotions to get her ,this is wrong ...
But the love story among them is likeable
I like his assistant love story too .

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ChineseDramaFan
3 people found this review helpful
Jun 18, 2019
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 2
Overall 8.0
Story 8.0
Acting/Cast 8.0
Music 8.0
Rewatch Value 6.0

Strong Chemistry between Male and Female Leads

Viewers either love this drama or hate it. Those who love it is mainly because of the chemistry between the two main leads. Those who hate it because of the seemingly un-realistic plot in contract marriage and the beginning of the story. Most viewers drop the drama within the first few episodes, before it gets into the good stuff - loving relationship between the leads.

For me, the beginning was also a bit hard to watch. However, after 10 episodes in, I began to enjoy the story and the plot. The chemistry between the male and female leads is enormous; they don't seem to have enough of each other. Ling Yi Zhou desires his wife constantly; he is passionate for her; there are umpteen kiss scenes - serious kisses, not just taps on the lips; bed scene is a constant play, sensual and sexual; it's really very sweet and beautiful, and sexy.

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Felicious
4 people found this review helpful
Apr 22, 2020
20 of 20 episodes seen
Completed 0
Overall 7.0
Story 5.0
Acting/Cast 10
Music 10
Rewatch Value 5.0
I'm glad I didn't read all these negative reviews before I gave this drama a chance. I'm not a fan of contract marriages and the whole plot sounded so absurd I just had to watch it! Both my parents have had cancer, I quickly noticed something was “off” in the story and maybe that’s why I wasn’t disappointed. The drama overall has a bunch of romantic moments, a long with some cringey ones and some action scenes. I would say the story was very complex and got rushed, if there would've been more episodes I think the plot would've turned out better.

However I really liked:
The acting
Music
The romantic parts

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