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Me senti transportada para a história. Personagens que individualmente se destacam por sua singularidade. De início ao fim torci pela felicidade desses irmãos como se fosse a minha! Um misto de chorar e rir em um só capítulo, mas uma experiência totalmente satisfatória. Extremamente Sensível.Esse é aquele típico dorama de pouca divulgação, mas de um valor pouco conhecido.
Que mais pessoas conheçam a beleza e ternura que é Go Ahead. Encantada. Um dos meus doramas favoritos agora. Dificilmente superado. Apenas apreciem.
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〈沒有血緣關係還能成為家人嗎？〉
#以家人之名（2020）的主題非常有趣，兩個父親，三個異父異母的孩子組成一個家庭，每天一起吃飯，一同成長，直到各自的血緣家人拆散他們。這是劇集前1/4的內容，相當好看。
三兄妹毫無性別羞恥相互捉弄、支持彼此，他們與原生家庭拉扯離散，這些故事使人心有戚戚；兩個父親分別分攤家政與經濟，相互談心事養孩子，好比傳統家庭的母與父，他們就這樣搭伙過日子。其實不用有性吸引，也可以做同個家庭的兩個家長；不必是相同父母，也可以把彼此當兄妹欺負照顧。這個家庭看似如此美好包容，卻又亟需努力才能支撐。孩子們的原生家庭分崩離析，加上家長相互欠負，甚至與死亡牽連，他們內心中總有著憾恨的缺口，強烈的情感轉向彼此，相濡以沫。
進到劇情的2/4，講述哥哥們各自被原生家人帶去國外讀書，九年後共同回來，與這個多元家庭的生疏。這段我覺得也挺生活，挺好的。也一邊揭露角色過去更多的秘密，並交代他們的新生活與變化。
接下來劇集剩下的1/2，我認為太瘋狂了。哥哥們轉為追求妹妹，這實在不可思議，我和我妹一致覺得很噁心。
他們畢竟一起成長，前面孩子們的戲可以看出他們毫無禁忌地相處確實如同兄妹一般，若是硬要轉為愛情，反而將他們原先複雜而濃厚的家人情感變質也窄化，更重要的是，性吸引力是怎麼長出來的呢？在人類學家武雅士在台灣童養媳的研究中，就證明了從小一起長大的無血緣男女通常是無法產生性吸引力的，因此童養媳多半生育率低、離婚率高。他們間的情感即使帶點擰巴扭曲，也都是將原本給親人的愛加倍給了彼此，那從來不會參雜色情。看到這個轉向我真的有一點點想吐，而且妹妹從拒絕到接受哥哥情感的鋪陳我也完全不能接受與理解，這也代表兩個哥哥確實也將妹妹視為非家人，拉開了彼此的距離，強調血緣的差異。也許是時空的距離，讓好不容易紐在一起的家，又各自分裂了吧。
其實我從來不懂嗑骨科的人，會不會他們沒有過很親的兄弟姐妹？總之強忍不適，我還是看完劇了。該劇鋪展相當多組家庭的故事，按著中國劇事事有呼應的習慣，前後扣連交代仔仔細細，也使劇情稍拖沓，加上兄妹的「亂倫感情戲」毫無衝突（要嘛極端一點，製造妹妹究竟會選哪個哥哥的懸念，要嘛讓哥哥與妹妹起衝突，鬧分手不愉快之類的），使得後面劇情更無聊了。
總之，我認為中國人對於亂倫、骨科題材的興趣真的頗喜好，使得這部劇的「以家人之名」，從褒獎轉成諷刺。
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張新成演高中生的扮相太老，真的有點小小的老子；宋威龍這部難得不木；譚松韻確實出彩，角色形象多變，轉換也很自然；涂松岩更厲害，活活劇拋臉。
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They messed up in the middle
I need to say that Go Ahead is definitely NOT a bad drama but despite loving some things, it disappointed me a lot in others too.Good Points:
- The acting were VERY good and the OST is impeccable. I have to point out that Xincheng's acting was VERY good and I was really surprised by him! I had just seen Skate Into Love and I thought he was really good there but he definitely proved himself as an actor here.
- The drama starts very well. The characters are charismatic, there is chemistry and the family thing is very good.
- The main couple has a lot of cute scenes too.
Negative points:
- Ling Xiao's change: I understand that after everything he went through, it make sense that the character was going to undergo changes and I also understand that Jian Jian was his only happiness, but there were some moments that I felt that he imposed things on Jian Jian because he couldn't live without her. And this also made Jiang Jian's character lack a little because I couldn't feel that she had the same need and love that Ling Xiao had for her. Sometimes it felt…forced.
- Jian Jian's lack of romantic development: The fact that she kept calling Ling Xiao "Ling Gege" bothered me a lot because they were raised as brothers and that's why she called him that. But continuing to call Ling Xiao "Gege" seemed very strange. I also thought that in some scenes the way they treated each other was too similar to how they treated each other before, which it was weird because before they had like a brother and sister relationship but later they really liked each other as a couple so things should've change more.
- 40 episodes: I felt that the number of episodes dragged the drama A LOT and made it boring at some points.
- Rushed Ending: The redemption they gave to Ling Xiao's mother was too rushed and ended up not working for me. For a woman who was toxic to him the WHOLE DRAMA I expected them to develop her story better.
Anyway. Go Ahead is a drama that is indeed captivating and I understand why many loved it but at least for me some things were disappointing and irritated me and that's why it ended up not being a 10/10 drama.
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אחת הדרמות הטובות שנכתבו והוצגו
סיימתי את- ״בשם המשפחה ״..וואווו וואווו מה אומר …
יש כל כך הרבה.
משחק גאוני של כולם ללא יוצא מן הכלל ראשיים משניים , סיפור מדהים של החיים שכנראה הוא תוצאה של תרבות אחרת , של נטישה ושל אימוץ, של קושי נפשי שלא טופל, של הורה שלא בטוח שהבין את תפקידו בחיים ולפעמים מתחלף עם הבן ולא ברור מי הבן מי ההורה, של אהבה נקייה ללא גבולות, של רומנטיקה מיוחדת שהולכת ומתעצמת, של חיפוש העצמי בחיים, של הורים - אמהות בעקר, שלא תמכו אלא הפריעו ומה התוצאה, ושל ההפתעה הלא מפתיעה בסוף.
הכל יחד, עירוב של תחושות, מסע בעולמות של רגשות ,
תמיכה וערבות הדדית וטונות של אהבה טהורה ומפליאה.
סדרה נפלאה שקצת מצליחה להשכיח את מה שקורה מחוץ לחלון החדר המואר שלי….ם. 🙏🏻💙
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Un dramma che racconta la vita.
Racconta la vita in tutti i suoi aspetti. Famiglie amore difficoltà.
Due padri cresceranno insieme tre ragazzini. Una femmina e due maschi crescono come fratelli tra le varie difficoltà che dovranno affrontare. Una volta cresciuti dopo essersi allontanati e poi ritrovati dovranno affrontare altri sentimenti. L'amore sboccia e si dovranno confrontare con le famiglie e tutto il resto ma per fortuna andrà bene.
Dramma un po' lungo ma abbastanza scorrevole e piacevole da vedere.
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Lindo, emocinante, bem escrito e desenvolvido. Desde os atores mirins até eles em adulto. Chorei, ri, senti raiva em alguns momentos. Não sei até que ponto essa questão de ser filial realmente funciona na China, as vezes parece surreal. Como bem é dito no drama, a mãe do Ling Xiao era um buraco negro sugando todos para o seu inferno pessoal. Mas no geral é lindo de ver que nem sempre família esta ligado ao sangue e sim pelo coração. Só não achei muito legal colocarem o romance entre os 3 irmãos, poderia de ter ficado apenas entre o Ling Xiao e JianJian, pois desde crianças já dana a entender que o amor entre eles era diferente, agora colocar o Zi Qiu como pretendente, acho que foi demais.
Se tivesse que colocar 1 defeito, seria no final. Corrido demais, depois de 40 episódios de 40 min e só no último episódio vê finalmente Chen Ting parar de invernizar seu filho, foi dose, ela merecia um castigozinho maior.
Apesar de 40 episósios, super indico!!!
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Bukan Cum Cerita Cinta Segitiga
Baru nonton 7episdoe, tapi dramanya bagus banget, penyampaian ceritanya bener bener penuh makna, bgmnya juga bagus, akting pemainnya udah gausah diragukan lagi, disini lucu banget song weilong jadi yang paling dewasa padhal aslinya dia paling kecil (99L) seven tan jadi yang paling muda padahal aslinya dia paling tua (90L) tapi karakternya bener bener dapet banget, pas sama semuanya.Dan ini bukan cuma drama yang ceritiin kisah cinta romantis, tapi kasih sayang diantara keluarganya bener bener dapet, gada secene yang mubazir, penulisan skenarionya bener bener bagus.
Drama ini pokonya rekomen bangett, mau yang suka drama ringan atau berat, dramnaya dikataiin ringan ga juga, diktaiain berat juga enga, apalagi buat yang suka drama genre slice of life harus banget nonton, yang gasuka slice of life Wah wajib banget nonton drama ini, slice of lifenya bener bener ga yang bikin boring, intinya rekomen banget nonton drama ini
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