What's the problem here?
What's the problem here?I thought about it for a long time, why this show is not as good as it could be.
I personally have no problem with actors. (I wouldn't watch a series just for their sake, but I think they did a decent job.) The story is interesting, so I keep watching, but somehow I still don't really enjoy it.
(I also read the novel, to see if I can figure out what's wrong with the series. The novel is adapted almost one-for-one. So the fault is not to be found in the series)
The problem, I think, is that the political and military thread should be the main thread, and the love thread should be a secondary thread. Here, however, the focus is on the love thread. In this case, the writer subordinated the action to the bickering of the main characters. And it's boring, drawn out and pointless in many parts.
A literal adaptation of this story is a mistake. In 2024, this is already the 3rd Chinese series that either should not have been made into a film, or the original idea should have been reworked into something faster and more spectacular.
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Are you the one? no not the one
where do I start? I despicable manipulative gaslighting man is forgiven by FL end end up together. seriously? they called that groveling? the man showed no regret or remorse even though he said he did. worst story ever. I would have loved it if the FL left the man and never came back while he remains regretful for the rest of his life. or she even finds someone better. tired of seeing women in c drama treated unfairly by ML then ends up with him in the end instead of being with 2ML. argh 😖 😩😩😩😩Was this review helpful to you?
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Very sweet, too many lies / secrets
A great story! LOTS of skinship, decent kisses and good emotional intimacy. The leads had great chemistry and talent for acting. My complaints about the show are mostly about how the lying / secrets ultimately came to a head. You start off seeing the ML as a ruthless guy, blatantly using the FL’s amnesia for his own agenda (he doesn’t coerce her to sex or anything though, quite the opposite). Then you start watching him catch the feels and damn, you understand why it became so difficult for him to just be honest with her. You really felt his inner turmoil, but the hole he dug for himself was already miles deep. I also understood him to a degree, with his desire to retreat to this fairytale away from the palace drama / scheming. Unfortunately… then it just dragged. He kept digging this pit of lies, pressured his friends to keep his deception a secret, and missed so many opportunities to just rip the bandaid off and come clean. Then it gets really uncomfortable and annoying when she recovers her memories, realizes that he’s been lying to her, and then decides to keep all of that a secret from him for a plan to take revenge on him. So it all culminates to a wonderful scene where they part ways… And then I became a little bit disappointed with how they handled his groveling / pursuit of her until they reunite. I wish there was a little more angst and less humor during these episodes. I wanted a bit more begging on his part, more sadness and more of a heartfelt (maybe even tearful) and remorseful apology. We did get a few good scenes, and he does apologize eventually, but I wish we saw more of the remorse from him.Other things- man, I wish we got more of our leads battling together! The scene we did get was AMAZING, but I wish we had more teamwork badassery with the leads.
In other comments - the new empress was an AMAZING character. She may have been my favorite. Loved her relationship with the emperor.
So yeah- great show!
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Of hearts that learn to reign.
Are You the One lingers long after the final episode—an experience that ennobles rather than dazzles, not for its grandeur but for the honesty with which it explores how affections and decisions are forged. The series reminds us that true power is born from quiet renunciations and that personal growth can be, at once, a revolution and a comfort.At its center lies the bond between Liu Mian Tang and Cui Xing Zhou—a connection that transcends romance to become both a school and a mirror. They move through fractures, lessons, and reconciliations; their relationship feeds on patience and courage, on conversations that refine their character. Their evolution feels gradual and genuine: from the hesitation of the early moments to a shared trust built through trial and tenderness. Within that emotional forge, love emerges as both discipline and refuge—the most gratifying force that sustains the story.
Alongside this, the relationship between Liu Mian Tang and Zi Yu, now seated upon the throne as emperor, adds a powerful undercurrent to the narrative. It is not a simple rivalry nor an unquestioned alliance, but rather a meeting of respect and contrast—an ongoing dialogue between ethics and duty. Zi Yu challenges Liu Mian Tang to weigh conviction against the burdens of governance, while Liu Mian Tang reminds the emperor that true rule requires compassion. Their exchange becomes a lesson in leadership: that politics transforms when authority learns the language of empathy.
Shi Xue Ji, as the empress, stands as one of the most luminous figures in the series. She is both strength and serenity, wielding power without losing grace, and influence without arrogance. Her relationship with Zi Yu shapes not only the throne but the moral rhythm of the palace itself—she becomes the quiet architect of balance and conscience. Each of her gestures teaches that true influence does not always need to be loud. For many, Shi Xue Ji was the soul of the drama—a presence both elegant and enduring.
The supporting cast weaves a tapestry of loyalty, ambition, and redemption. If there’s one gentle critique, it is the wish for more room for the secondary stories to breathe; a few threads seemed to fade before reaching their fullest form. Yet the overall sense is one of fulfillment—each major arc resolves with coherence and emotional integrity.
From its script arise phrases that linger, like gentle truths: “To rule is to care,” or “When truth returns, it asks for tenderness, not punishment.” These lines serve as moral compasses, guiding both the characters and the audience. Are You the One ultimately teaches that the most enduring authority is earned through humility and listening, and that people change most deeply when offered trust instead of control.
Finally, there remains a deep gratitude—to the actors who breathed life into these journeys, to the writers for crafting words that echo beyond the screen, and to the team behind the camera who translated emotion into image. May their work find not only recognition but peace and satisfaction. This drama does more than entertain—it leaves lessons that endure, the kind that transform viewers into grateful witnesses of a story beautifully told.
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Are You The One is a great drama set in a historical time with a beautiful love story. It has well choreographed action scenes, beautiful cinematography, and a pleasant OST. The leading couple, Liu Mian Tang (played by Wang Chu Ran) and Cui Xing Zhou / Lord Huaiyang / Cui Jiu (played by Zhang Wan Yi), is a force to be reckon with. They are both capable, cunning, quick-witted, smart, and warm-hearted toward each other. Their relationship begins with a farce but, through their interactions and as they work together to resolve obstacles and complications, they grow to love each other. This love is tested when the lies are unveiled and each other’s real identity is revealed. Up to this point, the drama is provoking with the mix of mysterious characters and a lovely budding romance. The cast did a great job bringing their characters to life and the leading couple has a great playful exchange of teasing remarks, very well written dialogues, and a pleasant romantic chemistry. Yuan Yu Xuan did a great job portraying the seemingly shy Shi Xue Ji that surprises the audience with her character’s shy and clumsy demeanor while concealing her true nature’s maturity and cleverness. Even though the drama starts to slow down on the second half after the drama reaches its pinnacle, and the finale feels rushed, the drama is entertaining. Was this review helpful to you?
Rambling Thoughts & Nit Pickings on Are You the One?
Here’s my essay review on the drama. Grab a cup of tea or coffee, because it’s long and full of spoilers if you venture into the later parts of this essay.To briefly give a synopsis of the drama, Lu Wen, a bandit leader who upholds justice and helps the poor has been at odds against Cui Xingzhou, also known as Prince Huaiyang (think a feudal lord) for quite some time. The two are equal in combat skills, cunning wit, and strategies, running laps around each other. The bandit leader fights to help the poor, and the prince fights to protect his lands and people. But one day, at the base of a mountain called Mount Yang, Cui Xingzhou (Prince Huaiyang) and his soldiers find an unconscious woman named Liu Miantang, on death’s door with her tendons severed, floating in a pool of her own blood. Believing her to be the beloved concubine of Lu Wen, his rival, Prince Huaiyang does everything to save Liu Miantang’s life to lure out Lu Wen. However when Miantang wakes from her coma, having suffered from her injuries, she has lost 3 years worth of memories and mistakens Xingzhou as her husband. Miantang affectionately calls him Cui Jiu, believing this to be the man she married 3 years ago. Cui Xingzhou (Prince Huaiyang) seizes the opportunity to assume the identity of “Cui Jiu” and plays husband to the amnesic Miantang hoping to catch Lu Wen once and for all. The deeper Xingzhou plays into this fake marriage, the more he begins to fall for Miantang. As Miantang regains her memory, and Xingzhou’s feelings grow, can their love prevail against the betrayal and deception?
This is my short review, which is spoiler-free:
After watching 40 episodes of this drama, I would rate this an 8.5/10. If you’re a fan of the classic movie, Overboard starring Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell, you probably will enjoy this drama. The 8.5 score from me stems from really enjoying the fake marriage trope and chemistry between our leads, and Zhang Wanyi nailing his performance. However, there were several missed opportunities in the drama that could have made this a much stronger story.
The drama makes it a point to let us know that Cui Xingzhou/Prince Huaiyang has a rivalry with Lu Wen. Once Lu Wen’s identity is revealed, they failed to show how these two opponents are of equal footing, and I felt they forgot about this story. At the same time, the female lead, Liu Miantang, who was found injured and lost her memory, had made it a point to seek revenge for what had happened to her, amongst other things. But then the drama also seemed to forget this arc and she became a supporting player in her role in exacting her revenge. She was relegated to helping the 2nd male lead instead.
Overall, I enjoyed the drama, but I lament how much better this could have been with tighter storytelling. There are times when I felt the drama struggled with what vibe they were going for: slow pace, serious, comedic, deeper impact on storytelling? There were moments throughout the drama that felt like it dragged, which they could have utilized the pacing better to show a proper reconciliation between Miantang, our female lead, and Xingzhou, the male lead. Then have the two actually work together in a revenge arc.
If you’ve not watched the drama and don’t want spoilers, please stop reading here. Otherwise, you can find the rest of my lengthy review here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1v5qDdwFiLcxvOmpbqx05gF4wOdSh8O3CRJXgu2fzdos/edit
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secret identities ?!
"Are You the One" centers on a love story between a clever and beautiful woman, Liu Mian Tang, who suffers from amnesia and a royal, morally grey but secretly soft-hearted man, Cui Xing Zhou. The twist is that the male lead pretends to be her loser husband to help him in his schemes to capture a bandit.The drama kicks off with a lot of promise. The first half is solid, giving us a good balance of romance, humor, and character development. You really feel the cute "hubby and wifey" vibes, and there’s a nice blend of everyday moments mixed with tension from their hidden motives. But, as the plot progresses, especially in the second half, things start to drag. The pacing slows down, and the excitement from the earlier episodes fizzles out.
But overall, I think I would recommend this. If you’re someone who enjoys light romance with a touch of mystery, you'll find it enjoyable. I really loved the wedding scene haha <3
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The prince who pretends to be the husband of the "enemy's" concubine, who has lost her memory, in order to set a trap for him. She, beautiful and intelligent, was meant to be just a expendable pawn, but she becomes his Love.But when her memory returns, she feels offended by his lies and separates from him.
Even though he confesses that he truly loves her, she doesn't want to hear of it. He follows her, helps her silently, and refuses to remarry anyone but her. On the other hand, she appears adamant about getting back together with him, but it's undeniable that she cares for him.
Then there are two other couples, the emperor and empress, and the relationship between his friend and her friend, which are very tender.
The last three episodes, where they plot to unmask the traitor, were played poorly in the sense that they staged a whole charade to lure just one person into the trap (I went from 9* to 8*). Poisonings, incarcerations... if he wanted, the villain could have easily killed them and won.
I wasn't convinced.
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A really good drama, but
I waited this drama after lost you forever for Zhang wanyi and also for chu ran who I'm also a big fan of, so I was really excited to watch thisThe production is good, the casting and acting especially Zhang wanyi. I really love the way he acts whether it's a serious drama or a comedy he can really carry the whole show. Wang churan also, I love her acting and her sweet softy aura. I watch both of their previous drama before so I'm not worried about the casting or acting of them. The story is also good and the leads has a really strong chemistry and tension which what keeps me watching this drama. But I expected too much which is, I should not do for a 40 episode drama. I actually want to see more of their story like the back story of luwen and how cool she is, also the backstory of ziyu and miantang if they really love each other(?) ziyu's backstory as the late crown prince son is also interesting. And also the angst, I thought this will be angsty especially between the leads, I expected a strong enemies to lovers between them. But yeah they already fell madly to each other (which I also love. I just want to see an angst between them, like being in love but also has to be enemies first). There's a lot of questions leave hanging but this drama focus on lead's love story so that's okay. Afterall the genre is romcom and they give justice to it. The overdramatic husband huaiyang and his iconic expressions lol, and calm pretty wife miantang who always assured and calms her husband. I will not disregard the comedy of another leads the funny zhennan and He zhen their interaction always makes me laugh and also touch. I also love empress xueji how she's really open minded and didn't let her self be on the side of evil even how bad she was treated in her familys, she's unprejudice and so kind. She always understands ziyu and do not felt any jealous to fl, to the point that the Emperor didn't deserve her.
This drama still deserves an almost 10 ratings, as this is one of my favorite comfort drama of the year❤️
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Fun watch but really draggy storyline
i just finished this drama and overall i liked it but there’s just a few things i would like to say that bothered me. first of all i was so unsatisfied by how little the relationship developed between the emperor and empress went the writer could’ve developed their relationship better the potential was there for their relationship to be way better written. also this drama was wayy too draggy from the FL taking a century to forgive the ML after all he did was lie to her that he was her husband and used her to get his arch nemesis.but he still kept her virtue intact and he never slept with her while she didn’t have her memories in fact he always avoided it because she meant that much to him. also the ML shouldn’t have been stabbed by the FL that was just wayy too much it’s not like he killied someone related to her. also there was soo many characters that shouldn’t have been casted why was the aunt and cousin even casted ?? they brought nothing to the show honestly. also the villains were so undeveloped and there was just so many plot holes which i hated. but nevertheless the chemistry between the ML and FL was amazing also the chemistry between the empress and emperor was really good even with the baldy developed romance.also i loved the last fight scene between the ML AND FL overall this drama is a solid 8 very fun in the beginning but draggy towards the ending.Was this review helpful to you?
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In the drama , Are you one . I didn't find any part of it intresting. This time few romantic scenes were not enough to balance the drama. Inspite of having forty episodes , ending was not satisfactory though it had happy ending for the main characters. personally , I found it was a boring one.
About acting except few actors everyone did a great job
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probably one of my favorite and comfort cdramas of all time!!
probably one of my favorite and comfort cdramas of all time!!i really love their dynamics so much. i love how xingzhou can be a cutie patootie when he is around his furen. i also love how miantang reciprocates her fujun's affection. they are soft for each other.
i hope they at least show clips/montage of what happened during the 3 months timeskip, cause how did ziyu became an emperor all of a sudden? i also think that they should have shortened their divorced/courting stage because it took what?? almost 10 episodes for them to reconcile!! (but the reconciliation stage was worth it tho) instead of prolonging cxz's agony, they should've given us more of their strategizing and fighting scenes together, their silly little acting skills to deceive enemies, and their married life. the last episode gave us one of the most iconic fight scenes in cdrama and, honestly, i want more of it!! like i would pay for the leads to work again on another drama and they stay as the scheming married couple just like in this drama. and i also want to see more from the emperor and empress!!
i feel like this is going to be the first historical cdrama that i will be rewatching. 5 stars kayo saken furen at fujun <3333
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