AND. First of all you forgot something important to highlight = This is only how the female sex might view these things cause as a guy I can assure you none of that made any sense to us. I believe what you are really attempting to do here is in a nice sounding way provide some rational behind the obvious phenomenon that female viewers seemingly always blame the women in these stories while defending the ML to death no matter what happens, and many of the chicks doing this are self-proclaimed feminists which seems to be the opposite of uplifting women so ofc. the rest of us find this phenomenon to be bizarre. Unfortunately, your looking for reason in something completely irrational. Here's a brutal cold hard facts true explanation of what's happening here.
This show really highlights well how there are so many female viewers (Full disclaimer: I am not female) who can become so irrational about evaluating the ML compared to the FL cause they seemingly start crushing on the ML so he becomes this figure who can do no wrong in their eyes (Even the most vile acts like trying to murder the FL just to silence her and prevent any potential future trouble is sometimes excused away like it is with the "hero" of this story) while conversely they will just ruthlessly begin to nitpick the FL to death over everything she does. Like here where our FL actually possesses supernatural knowledge of how the ML will behave in the future including what appears to be him treating her like garbage and even includes things like him betraying her by banging her sister and then letting her die and not ever caring at all, yet even here I've seen all these comments about how horrible the FL is being towards their super dreamy dreamboat of a ML for not believing in him and just immediately giving him what he wants by dropping her panties every time she sees him. Nothing enrages these peeps more than a FL who's not completely obsessed with the ML like they are and is so stupid and ignorant that she somehow can't see how perfect this male specimen truly is and thus has the audacity to repeatedly reject his continuous advances. The FL does this allot in this show which is the big reason why she is so hated and why she is constantly called "annoying" millions of times a day by millions of women. (The other big reason is having the hubris and audacity to be a FL at all especially one who's so much prettier than they are. Typical female Jealousy of other women who are their betters in most every way and so they have the desire to tear these bitches down a peg or two.)
Some of these "people" (let's be honest were talking about a bunch of overly emotional girls who let their own emotions do most of their "thinking" which massively clouds their judgement.) seem so untethered from reality over watching a simple TV show that you know it's probably even worse in real life. Thank God that many women will somewhat grow out of this, but they really need to call out these younger chicks who are clearly being irrational and educating them on how to be more objective. Your all are very welcome for letting me so generously gift you all with such an enlightened essay of "Mansplaining Truths to Women". Have a nice day!!!