Chapter 1: Who Do You Think I Am
1) My charm that the opposite sex flutter:
I think it's a good way to make eye contact and listen to the other person well.
2) My day and my holiday:
On weekdays, my routine is to drink tea, do what I have to do, and exercise on holidays, I think I do hobbies such as sleeping late, eating delicious things with my favorite people, going to a pretty cafe, and listening to songs.
3) My soul food:
Meat, sashimi, tteokbeokki, etc. I like almost all foods and if I have to pick one, it's meat.
4) My healing spot:
I tend to relieve stress by spending time with my favorite people in scenic cafes or parks.
5) My own superpower:
There was a time I could guess what time it was.
6) The movie I love and a scene in it:
Eternal Sunshine. The scene where Clementine and Joel are attracted to each other on the train.
7) My playlist that I want to play to my lover:
- Lauv - Steal the Show
- Acoustic Collabo - 묘해, 너와
- IU - I stan U
- Christina Perri - A Thousand Years
- Jukjae - Do You Want to Walk with Me?
(see links below for the playlist)
8) A scene from my happiest childhood memory:
I remember playing in the water in the summer and skiing in the winter with my close friend's family.
9) The hardest time:
It's when I'm so sick because I got COVID-19, but I had a lot of things to do. I think I endured it with my mental strength while reducing sleep.
10) My salary that I'm forecasting in five years:
Back then, I think it will be as much as I work hard.
11) The memory of the luxury that I had at the time:
- I don't think I remember being luxurious.
Chapter 2: The Love that I Think of
12) The charm of the reason that makes my heart flutter;
Kind and warm words and actions, smiling well.
13) My fluttering skills that I only I know:
Pacing around
14) Mock test for dating (propensity):
- 14.1 What is the level of touch I want before a relationship?
- B) Holding hands
- other choices: A) impossible C) hugging D) kisses E) Others
- 14.2 How often do you want me to contact you per day during a relationship?
- C) Message or call every time you're on the move
- other choices: A) short call B) message 5 or less, 1 call before going to sleep D) only messages often E) Share your daily life through video call
- 14.3 How often do you want to meet in a relationship?
- C) Once or twice on weekdays, once in weekends
- other choices: A) once in a weekend B) Weekends, 2 days together D) 4 or more times including weekends E) every possible day
15) Love test for dating (Value Book):
- 15.1 What's the limit of a meeting with a male friend and a female friend?
- B) If it's a group meeting, it's possible
- other choices: A) Not allowed to exist C) can eat in a cafe with just the two of them D) movie theater, karaoke room with just the two of them E) can drink together with just the two of them
- 15.2 How much is the range of daily sharing available?
- A) Share your daily schedule. B) Share the acquaintances you meet in detail
- other choices: C) share your home password D) share your cellphone password E) share your asset details
- 15.3 What is the way I want to express my affection?
- Expressing your feelings of love often in words or letters and making time for each other as often as possible.
16) The moment I feel I'm in love and the moment I feel I'm being loved.
When I want the other person to be happy without worrying about anything and when I feel that the other person thinks of me like that.
17) Relationship stabilization, 3 essential elements of an ideal romantic relationship: (with explanation)
- Comfort. I think we need to be comfortable to show each other's self during the stable
- Deep conversation. I think it would be good to have a lot of deep conversations because you can thinkk you know all the lovers(?).
- Sacrifice for each other. And in a long-term relationship, the other person can give what they need and I think we need a part to listen to each other's wants as much as possible.
- other choices: Excitement, Touch, Sincere date, Trust, Promise for the future
18) The solution I want when I argue with my lover.
- Talk to each other until they feel better. This is because I think I can understand/sympathize and solve the other person's thoughts or words through conversation. I think it's better to find exactly through the other person's words rather than taking time to guess why.
- other choices: Take a moment until the anger subsides.
19) My reaction when a lover says, "Let's take a moment to think apart." (with explanation)
- B) Ask why and try to have a conversation. This is because I think I can spend that time effectively only when I first understand why the other person needs time through conversation. If it's a problem that's solved, I think I can use it as a time to find a solution and if not, I think I can use it as a time to organize my mind.
- other choices: A) Do not ask the reason, but follow the other person's will C) Whatever the reason, hold on to it that it's never possible. D) First of all, do what the other person wants and keep in touch with him from time to time. E) Take it as a breakup and breakup.
20) The moment you see your lover and think you might break up with him
When the things you want to do with that person are gone.
21) The moment you think about marriage to this person.
When we have good communication and are happy together.
Chapter 3: Marriage that I Think of
22) My Charm as a spouse:
The fact that one's emotions don't rise or fall.
22) Three things I want from my spouse:
- Doing your best at work and home
- A fun and honest conversation
- One or two hobbies we do together
23) Three things you really want to check with your spouse:
- What you want to do/your goals
- How do you want to spend your tie on your day off
- What do you want from each other.
24) Not posted
25) Wedding Speed Q&A
- 25.1 Where's your newlywed house?
- A) Sleeping with debt. This is because it would be nice to buy a house with investment value.
- other choices: B) renting without debt
- 25.2 Where do you want to live?
- Jamsil. This o sbecaise you can take a walk at the Han River or Seokchon Lake and there is a lot of infrastructures such as Lotte World Tower, and the educational environment seems to be good. In addition, it is good to have a place where you can take a walk and have infrastructure.
- 25.3 What is my husband's monthly income that I hope for?
- C) >1,500/month. This is because you can do what you want relatively without restrictions.
- other choices: A) 500 to 800/month B) 800 to 1,000/month C) 1,000 to 1,500/month
- 25.4 Who's managing the finances?
- C) All income disclosure, one person to administer. Make retirement or investment plans together because I think it'll be comfortable.
- other choices: A) Make your own money and take care of yourself B) Expenses for living expenses only
- 25.5 After getting married, what type of sleep do I want?
- A) a bed in the same room. I'll wrap up my day before I go to bed. Because it would be nice to fall asleep while talking.
- other choices: B) same room, separate bed. sleeping in your own room
- 25.6 How do you want your holidays after you get married?
- B) A visit to both houses. I want to see you before and after the holiday, and I think we canadjust the date according to the situation.
- other choices: A) Visit both houses before holidays. On the holidays we're on our own
- 25.7 Can you live with a pet? If so, a dog or a cat?
- B) Dog. It's because even though we've never lived together, I think I can play well .
- other choices: A) None C) Cat D) Both (dog & cat) E) Other
- 25.8 Do you want a child? Any plans for a child if you want?
- I think it would be good if there is a 2-year age gap between 1 male and 1 female.
- 25.9 What kind of parent do you want to be to your child?
- I want to be a perent who supports my child to find the life he wants by talking in a comfortable relationship like a friend.
26) Not posted
27) The extent of the couple's private I think
- ALL OF THE ABOVE: You can enjoy your own hobbies on the weekend. You can travel alone or with your friends. Individual shopping and cultureal life are possible.
28) One day, if your spouse says that he has 500 million won debt.
I think I'll ask what happened and why he didn't tell me before getting into debt.
29) The night before work, if your spouse fights at 10 o clock:
- B) Even if you fight, sleep in the same bed. It's because I think it's better to sleep for work the next day, and if I get physical distance, I think my heart may also become further apart.
- Other choices: A) Sleep in separate spaces to avoid a bigger fights. C) Do not sleep until it's completely resolved.
30) The kind of housework I want:
The chores I am most confident in are cleaning and laudry. The chores I am least confident in is washing dishes.
31) What song do you want to listen on your wedding day
To my spouse, I want to hear the songs we used to listen a lot when we were dating.
32) A scene from everyday life that I really want to share with my spouse.
It's a scene where we eat delicious dinner while talkig about what happened that day.
33) What I think marriage is.
Whether it's good or sad, for the rest of your life, being good friends with each other.
All time, all space
It seems like there's only you around me.
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