Simi_Tutu:
I saw in the comment section of Grab Your Love that you were also watching the series, I stayed up today to complete it. What are your thoughts?

Yes, I couldn't discipline myself, I was too curious. (^_^'). I am sorry. I still want to comment each episode with you all. I was waiting for the new watchers to post before continuing.

I like the series and I enjoy every character. I like that FL is smitten, unwavering and un apologic about her love/ desires and goals in life. And I also like that ML is committed and so smitten. The two are very cute together my heart skips a bit everytime they are on screen. 

I liked the ending and it feels like they are aiming toward a season 2. I would like that to be honest. To me, the last scene felt dreamy and then the reality came . I hope it is the reality. I liked that it is not like a typical republican era drama in wich ML dies and pretty much everybody else  like in "scent of dawn". I liked that ML survives. The leads are strong in there own way. FL is a powerful businesswoman and ML Is a powerfull Millitary/ bodyguard. This drama is one of my favs now and I am very happy to that Arclei recommended it.

 Simi_Tutu:
I had notes ready to post for episode three but then while making edits my browser refreshed, and I lost them all

that's the frigging WORST, ugggghhh

How's your leg healing btw?

 Simi_Tutu:
I made some GIFs

Love themmmm!!! 


  • "This is quite an interesting thought" - Men really had every advantage in the book and still decided to take advantage of the few women who weren't at their mercy- Classic, innit 
  • "I don't think it was in stealth." - With those big puppy eyes? Absolutely not xD 
  • "Power dynamic between Ying Xian and Dong Yang is quite interesting" - Agreed, it's a battle for dominance between the two of them and neither is willing to yield. If he weren't such a little *****, they would make for a very interesting couple
  • "Oh look, Fu Cheng can use a lighter 🤭" - His performance just seems to tank when he's being watched... o-o Such an interesting development
  • "or was he just seizing an opportunity" - I believe it's this. In the flashback he says that he couldn't afford to seek revenge because of his younger sister even though his uncle was urging him to. I think now that FL approached him and his sister was hospitalised because of FL's family, he's like "eh, might as well ruin them, lolol"
  • "Dong Yang having to see all of those photos of the sexualized men in Ying Xian's darkroom" - AHAHAHAH, now this is a hilarious thought 
  • "Wasn't he thinking about it?" - I believe he only starts as her bodyguard at the end of the ep, before that he still seems to be the bratty rich girl's bodyguard. But the story is a bit messy with what's past and what's present as well as timeskips so who knows xD 
  • "She's probably so used to this by now." - Definitely is. If there's anything I've learned from watching historical dramas both asian and not is that rich people DGAF about who's watching and chances are those right hand folks have seen WAAAAYY more than they ever should've T_T
  • "I do love the imagery here" - Nice attention to detail, you're so right

 unbeliebubble:
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"He wants her to love him" - I don't think this is the case tbh. I think he wants her (and her family's) power and wealth and to assert his dominance over her by making her his possession. I guess the most he might want her to feel for him is desperate. To need him. He's not quite the unhinged possessive type, he's just greedy and sleazy lol 

 Arclei:
"He wants her to love him" - I don't think this is the case tbh. I think he wants her (and her family's) power and wealth and to assert his dominance over her by making her his possession. I guess the most he might want her to feel for him is desperate. To need him. He's not quite the unhinged possessive type, he's just greedy and sleazy lol

I agree with all you said. I just interpreted the fact that he tried to spark her jealousy in episode 1 and 2  : making his mistress wearing the same necklace and asking her if she was upset as a way for him to make her love him. In that case, why doing that if you don't want someone's love. Or maybe for him controling a woman means making her jealous, I don't know.

Indeed you are totally right, he wants power, money and status. 

Oh, interestiiing- I saw it as a power move. Not to make her jealous but for her to know her place, maybe even taunt her. That he's willing to give the same thing(s) he gave to her to another woman- Maybe he does somewhat care and I'm cutting him 0 slack xD idk

Yes, I think I cares. And he is somehow delusional enough to think his shenanigans can force Female Lead to love him. I suppose if it was only for power, would he be trying to run after someone in her lab. In fact when I look at him I see the glimpse of what bad love is. 

He is the kind of SML who thinks that coertion can make a woman fall in love.... What a joke. 

I'm not alone in my preference

 DiskJak:

I'm not alone in my preference

Not at all. There are some recommendations on page 1 if you are interested.

 unbeliebubble:

Not at all. There are some recommendations on page 1 if you are interested.

Is there no ultimatum list here or are user sheets better to use? I just don't know exactly how it works.

 DiskJak:

Is there no ultimatum list here or are user sheets better to use? I just don't know exactly how it works.

What is an ultimatum list?

 unbeliebubble:

What is an ultimatum list? 

Full list of doramas with tags)

 DiskJak:

Full list of doramas with tags)

No there is no such thing. There is recommendation on page 1 with tropes.

 unbeliebubble:

No there is no such thing. There is recommendation on page 1 with tropes. 

Got it.

 DiskJak:

I'm not alone in my preference

Most definitely not, my friend! Welcomeee! Feel free to take a look around and grab a cool badge from the index! Hope you enjoy your stay with us! <3

 DiskJak:
Is there no ultimatum list here or are user sheets better to use?

Userlists tend to be the best way to go since what MDL considers RR is usually very basic definitions (it takes a more literal approach like female CEOs without specifically taking into consideration character dynamics and personalities). There is the Gender Role Reversal tag but it's not only incomplete but also a bit of a gamble as to what you'll find (spoken from experience, haha. I've watched most of the content under this tag). 

User @Ree has the closest thing to an RR achieve with pretty much every RR-relevant title included within it ^^ And I have a RR recommendation list of titles I personally watched with notes and tropes included to give a general idea of what RR titles contain what content. You can find both and more in this section of the index like @unbeliebubble said. 

Thanks, I'll look into everything now)

Hello, I'd love to join.