BL Drama Lovers Club

 Matt:

i should be going outside but instead i want to huddle in my bed and watch bl all day,,,aaaaaa

I have this problem and am on long-term disability so I give in far too often.

if you loved my stand-in check out reset.

do yall have recs for shows with possessive leads...i've been trying to find some but a lot of them have underwhelmed me (i didn't like dark blue kiss, love mechanics or my engineer,,,,wish i did tho). i've ofc watched love syndrome (show and movie) and some others, but i desperately need more. 

preferably i'd like something with no infidelity. 

 ColourMePurple:

Off topic: I relate so much with ADHD symptoms and this is yet another one I can't seem to find a single proper psychologist that knows how to diagnose it. I was given links and expected to figure it out myself which is the last thing I wanted to do since I prefer not to have ADHD obviously. 🙂

Oof I'm sorry about that! Yeah getting a psychiatrist that specializes in ADHD is difficult. If you're in the US:  if you have insurance, you can call them and try to get some information about psychiatric services and ADHD diagnosis. Your city/county may also have some health services listed online (for psychiatrists it's usually under behavioral health). Other than that, just keep googling for psychiatrists in the area. godspeed on the search! 

 ColourMePurple:

Off topic: I relate so much with ADHD symptoms and this is yet another one I can't seem to find a single proper psychologist that knows how to diagnose it. I was given links and expected to figure it out myself which is the last thing I wanted to do since I prefer not to have ADHD obviously. 🙂

that was a weird way of "treating" your adhd. why the links instead of advising you what you need to do, or guiding you through it? that seems a bit lazy on their end imho lol

 Matt:

Oof I'm sorry about that! Yeah getting a psychiatrist that specializes in ADHD is difficult. If you're in the US:  if you have insurance, you can call them and try to get some information about psychiatric services and ADHD diagnosis. Your city/county may also have some health services listed online (for psychiatrists it's usually under behavioral health). Other than that, just keep googling for psychiatrists in the area. godspeed on the search! 

It was difficult visiting a psychologist and psychiatrist to begin with. My relatives and dad were telling me I shouldn't go and people will think I'm crazy. Basically the older generation doesn't believe in mental health. And all of them are extremely educated individuals. Only a cousin and one uncle encouraged me.

 jazme:

that was a weird way of "treating" your adhd. why the links instead of advising you what you need to do, or guiding you through it? that seems a bit lazy on their end imho lol

Yup she was not good at helping me with anything. I wasted a lot of time with her so I ditched her. But by that time I had concluded that I probably don't have ADHD so when I visited a psychiatrist it was for another problem that I felt was more urgent. 

 jazme:

I haven't checked your profile so not sure if you have watched these:

• My Stubborn
• Meet You at the Blossom
• TharnType (classic lol)

Those are great! Sadly I've watched all of those, but that is exactly what I'm looking for! Meet you at the blossom was crazyyyyyy

 Matt:

hello! i would like to join :) 

been keeping up with the new BL's of late and have no one else to talk to about it ;0; 

Here's a list of my BL shows: https://kisskh.at/list/1R8JP9m3. I'm a generous rater so you'll see tons rated 9.5-10. I would not hesitate to recommend those, but I understand that we all have different tastes so what appeals to me might not appeal to others. I have included my notes for most of the shows. I hope they help.

Since you liked My Personal Weatherman, you might enjoy the quirkiness of My Beautiful Man (2 short series plus a movie). 

Since you liked My Stand-In because of transmigration, you can try Vice Versa. I haven't found anything quite like My Stand-In. It was a pretty unique show.  

 jazme:

so you finished it? not a sad ending? 

Sorry, no I have Kill to Love on-hold atm. RX another member here told me it was okay.