
Casper:
I want to finish it so bad but I get so irrationally mad when they’re happy like your mom just died and she was so nice to both of you how can you move on that quickly??
Everyone grieves differently. When you've maintained a good relationship with someone and they know you're happy with your life, there are fewer regrets. It doesn't mean you don't miss the person who has passed away. But you make each day a promise to live happily for them, because you know that's what they want for you. And missing them comes in waves, sometimes unexpectedly. Brought on by music, a scent, food, a random memory. For me, personally, my Dad has been gone since 2008, but I still find myself missing him every so often. I wish he could see my adult children and how they turned out.