tiffany:

DECEMBER 2025 BL CHALLENGE

Day 12: Something good that happened to you this year

I'm no longer working with people who bully me so no panic attack since.

ugh bad coworkers can really be the worst, i'm glad you're free of that!!

 iota:

congrats, that's amazing!!! especially your 2nd point, that's so exciting!!

yess ive been doing treatment for 5 years and this recent July was my final time(they had to make sure it didn't come back) 

I'm a space cadet this week with too much going on and trying to make a lot of healthy lifestyle changes at one time. Three kitchen accidents just today, yikes. I think that's a record. I could share stories for laughs but I won't. 

I don't need a boyfriend, I need a handsome caretaker,  with a good sense of humor.  👀 🤣


Day 12: Something good that happened to you this year

I have to mention a very sad thing first to share why the good is good.  My BFF since middle school passed away at the start of 2025 and of course it was devastating. (Totally unexpected). It also goes without saying, but I'm saying it anyways - she can't be replaced. Love u, KW!!

Fast forward to October when a new neighbor moved in across the hall. She's very cheerful and friendly. Amazingly we have tons in common it's kinda spooky. We share funny things and laugh a lot. 

So my good thing, a gift really, from an overwhelming difficult year is a new friend. 

My go-to good thing all year is this space right here.  🩷   We all have #%$ to deal with but we can come here for a mood lift, a friendly convo about BLs and some of the best eye candy on MDL!!! Woot woot!!

I'm not intentionally ignoring good news posts, I just can't see some of them.  🙁

I'm feeling particularly emotional tonight. I don't know why. But I'm listening to some songs that I love since that's where my mood has taken me. I simply LOVE this song by Nanon so much, as well as the video itself, which is like a mini BL story. Some of you saw that I posted this clip just after it was released a couple weeks or so ago, but for anyone that has not seen/heard it yet, you have to check it out, it's so good. Nanon is amazing and has such a beautiful voice, and his musical talent is so fantastic ... and those lyrics. 🥺




 UrYaoiholic:

yess ive been doing treatment for 5 years and this recent July was my final time(they had to make sure it didn't come back) 

wow 5 years is so long! i'm glad you're through it now :)


 Indie Art Girl:
I don't need a boyfriend, I need a handsome caretaker, with a good sense of humor. 👀 🤣

ditto 🤣 🤣 

 Indie Art Girl:
Day 12: Something good that happened to you this year

i'm so sorry for your loss. grief is so hard to deal with, especially when it comes unexpectedly. but finding a new friend is so great! sounds like just what you need :) 

 Jadeheart:

I'm feeling particularly emotional tonight. I don't know why. But I'm listening to some songs that I love since that's where my mood has taken me. I simply LOVE this song by Nanon so much, as well as the video itself, which is like a mini BL story. Some of you saw that I posted this clip just after it was released a couple weeks or so ago, but for anyone that has not seen/heard it yet, you have to check it out, it's so good. Nanon is amazing and has such a beautiful voice, and his musical talent is so fantastic ... and those lyrics. 🥺




i just went and watched this, the mv was so good 😭😭😭

thanks for sharing!!!!

 iota:

i just went and watched this, the mv was so good 😭😭😭

thanks for sharing!!!!

You're welcome. There is also a behind the scenes of the making of the music video also if anyone is interested.

BL Challenge Day 13: Favourite Korean BL of 2025

Finally a question that I can answer straight away without my usual hemming and hawing: "Secret Relationships".

Otherwise, it's been a dry year for top-tier KBLs. "Ball Boy Tactics", "My Secret Vampire", "Peach Trap" and "Story of Bi Hyeong" were reasonably entertaining watches with cutie-patooties, but with some weaknesses (especially the last one), and I can't call any of these "top tier". (I've not yet watched "Thundercloud Rainstorm", which is supposedly quite good.)

There have also been a lot of reel-format KBLs in 2025. Although a few have been pretty good (e.g. "Summer Crush"), most are mediocre, forgettable and annoyingly choppy. Let's hope that the recent re-release of "Match Play" as six normally formatted episodes (albeit still rather choppy) instead of the original 63 vertical micro-episodes marks a recognition in the industry that reels suck.

Thursday, December 18, 2025 is an insanely full day on my release calendar:

The highly anticipated "10Dance" (Netflix).
The start of "Fourever You Part 2" (WeTV, 24 episodes - so this will be with us for many months).
The start of "Dare You To Death" (Joong/Dunk, supposedly Netflix but I don't see it on my feed).
ETA: Now, two hours later, it's showing up on my Netflix feed. Maybe Netflix heard me.

... plus also in non-BL world:
DVD release date of "Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale".
S5 of "Emily in Paris" (Netflix).

Day 12 Challange - Something good that happened to me 

1. My depression lessened for a few months

2. I went to two Musicals

3. I am trying to reconnect to my old friends and succeed with one of them

(4. I can be whoever I want to be and know and accept now that not everything can be changed )


Day 13 Challenge - Favorite Korean Bl

I didn't watch many Korean bls that were released 2025 (about 8) so I have to say Secret relationships was one of the best. I almost forgot that it was released this year.

DECEMBER 2025 BL CHALLENGE
Day 13: Favorite Korean BL of 2025

Oddly enough I've only seen Sexual Lessons (+ its sequel) and Therapy from South Korea this year. I don't know what that says about me. I also vaguely know I started Secret Relationships only to drop it.

Anyway, out of the two, I'll choose Sexual Lessons... and be done with it. Gave all 3 a 7.0 btw.

Secret Relationships is for me to finish in 2026 I believe.

DECEMBER 2025 BL CHALLENGE

DAY 12: Something good that happened to you this year
  1. Got/Did my first internship
  2. My nephew came into this world❤
  3. (Future) Will be taking a trip to Colombia for Christmas Break


DAY 13: Favorite Korean BL of 2025

Secret Relationships

 p43425:

Thursday, December 18, 2025 is an insanely full day on my release calendar:

The highly anticipated "10Dance" (Netflix).
The start of "Fourever You Part 2" (WeTV, 24 episodes - so this will be with us for many months).
The start of "Dare You To Death" (Joong/Dunk, supposedly Netflix but I don't see it on my feed).

... plus also in non-BL world:
DVD release date of "Downton Abbey: The Grand Finale".
S5 of "Emily in Paris" (Netflix).

Lol same. Really anticipating 10Dance and DYTD, but I also have my final exam on the same day😭. For the DYTD death one, I think it's not on the feed yet because it's not a Netflix original, so they'll probably take their time with it. 

 sjay:

Lol same. Really anticipating 10Dance and DYTD, but I also have my final exam on the same day😭. For the DYTD death one, I think it's not on the feed yet because it's not a Netflix original, so they'll probably take their time with it. 

Ah ... and now, two hours later, it's showing up on my Netflix feed. Maybe they heard me!