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Duang with You eps 11 was so satisfying! The confrontation he had with his parents was so refreshing. I've gotten so tired of child abuse being sweeped under the rug like a lot of these shows do. I literally cried during this scene.
I know everyone feels the pain/second hand embarrassment of Duang acting like a 5 year old, but in this episode when Qinn ran to hug him after his parents left I felt Duang acting like this helps Qinn feel okay also acting like a child. And for an person who was abused for being a child with child curiosities I now look at how Duang acts in a new light and this just made the show 100% better for me.
Overall, I'm excited for the last episode but this is going to be one of my favorites, if not for this episode alone.
CONTAINS SPOILERS for ep11 Duang With You
I agree this was a great episode, and so heart-wrenching yet satisfying to see Qin speak up about his continued suffering from being abused. This is not something people just get over, and I’m glad they drove that point home.
At the same time, I think Duang’s behavior in relation to all this was very mature. Duang encouraged Qin to talk to his parents and Duang only stepped in when Qin said he needed Duang. Also, I don’t think we should underestimate the power of a hug and the reminder that someone is here for you.
My parents have done some very hurtful and emotionally abusive things in my life, and while we have a better relationship now, I have never gotten over a lot of it, including their lack of physical affection. When I met my spouse and found someone who would hug me all the time, as much as I wanted, it was the beginning of healing from that hole in my life. It doesn’t make it all go away, but it is a wonderful feeling to finally get all the physical affection I was missing.
I thought of all of this while watching Qin and Duang. Duang may be silly but he is a constant. Qin knows Duang loves him immensely and will not stop no matter what happens. So to Qin, Duang’s silliness is cute and charming. Qin needs and deserves the love Duang gives him. And each hug or kiss isn’t just a come on, but a chance to drive that point home.