ElementalStar:
Portugalia67:
dora:
When I was in my 20s I made a lot of compromises to be in relationships with people who didn’t completely accept me. It can wear you down to know someone doesn’t like or accept part of who you are. But I don’t regret the love I felt or the things I learned then.
I am now married to a trans masc/nonbinary/gender fluid person. She/they said when they met me that they knew they wouldn’t have been made the way they are if someone wouldn’t love them for it. When I fell for them I stopped calling myself bisexual and started calling myself pansexual. I know they feel better about themselves knowing I accept them as they are. (You will notice I still usually call them my wife. They have said that is fine for now.) self-acceptance is still a process for them, though.
In the end, you have to make your own choices and face what that brings, good or bad. We all take time to learn and grow. But I wouldn’t want to be with someone who couldn’t accept something so fundamental about me.
FYI: don’t know if you’ve watched heartstopper but there is a nonbinary character (assigned female at birth) who gets really close to a straight boy. He wants to have a relationship but cannot handle the idea that it means he is queer in some way. The nonbinary person says no to him for this reason. I think this was in season three but I’m not sure. Someone probably made clips of it on YouTube. I thought it was done really well in the show.
@Unique_rain
i was also going to respond to your post but Dora's already said everything i would have and more <3
but i will add that as a fellow trans & genderqueer guy, i have been in a situation very similar to this and it did not end well for me personally ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ learned a lot from it though!
(also now i wanna go watch heartstopper)
One reason many people like watching toxic shows is because it’s a safe way to explore situations which are scary in real life.
you read my mind, and why i enjoy toxic bls. that i know if it happens in real life, i'll sure as hell beat the toxic partner for good lol. and this is me being a friend to the aggrieved party, but if i'm the aggrieved party? i'll stop it as soon as i catch that the guy is toxic. did it before, can and will do it again if it happens
stayforlife:
Finished watching See Your Love. It was so cute, funny, and romantic... and also a bit steamier than I expected. Those men did not come to play. I really enjoyed it!
Next up, has anyone here seen Fight For You?
I liked it but it has a lot of flaws. It starts off pretty mediocre but it gets better as it goes.
Finished watching See Your Love. It was so cute, funny, and romantic... and also a bit steamier than I expected. Those men did not come to play. I really enjoyed it!
Next up, has anyone here seen Fight For You?
I liked it but it has a lot of flaws. It starts off pretty mediocre but it gets better as it goes.
I'll keep that in mind when watching just in case I need the push to stick with it.
Journey with You - episodes 1 - 2
I like what I am seeing so far plot-wise.
I am underwhelmed by the costumes to be honest, but it is not a major consideration for me.
I look forward to seeing this series play out.
I must mention that ice has made a return to the BL scene 😏 if you know you know
Teeteeholic:
Hey guys how have you been? It's been a while since Ive been active on here. I finished duang with you, my romance scammer, started watching love you teacher, forever you part 2,love up on a time, and I'm the most beautiful count. I've been trying catch up on shows, since I recently move sometimes I don't have time to watch them.
Hi welcome back! Moving takes up a lot of time for sure. Out of the titles you've watched do you have a fav? That's a lot of dramas!!
