KritWayuForever:
LueurArcane:
Unique_rain:
What's everyone's view on polygamous relationships.
i have nothing agaisnt it, i do support people consenting and having polygamous relationships, but if its about my own relationship/personality, i prefer a monogamous relationship because my personality fits monogamous more, i just dont see polygamous relationship working out for me. I like commitment,a one to one relationship gives me a sense of stability, id feel more grounded if that make sense, also im an overthinker id be questioning about how much important i'am to the person compared to the rest partners and that will emotionally exhaust me, but also im that person who would pick one person rather than picking many in the same time like i tend to find my eyes on one person.
im probably a bit possessive. the thoughts of my partner flirting with others etc dont sit well with me
I am the same way
Yup same , Lol i just did notice that a part of my post is highlighted 😂 i want to mention i didn't hightlight anything , because im using dark mode some sentences keep geting randomly highlighted when i post 🤣🤡
sjay:
Did y'all hear the news that Your Sky is getting a Japanese remake? Idk how I feel about this news. I feel like it's too soon for a remake, but I'll still watch it because I loved Your Sky
Personally, I've never watched it myself but it came out in 2024 so coming up to 2 years now so for me it isn't too soon plus it will be a fresher memory so easier to compare.
Double helix is a remake of a drama that was made in 2015 so expectations of dramas was completely different compared to then
What's everyone's view on polygamous relationships.
Keeping in mind that I have never been in a relationship or ever been in love, this is my view:
I do not think it is my place to say whether or not polygamous relationships are good/ right or bad/wrong. What people do in their own private lives that do not harm others is none of my business.
However, as it relates to me, a polygamous relationship is a hard no. I am going to be very real in saying that I am a very territorial person; I do not share. The mere idea of someone else enjoying the romantic favour of my spouse is at the very least upsetting and at most deeply angering, and I would feel betrayed emotionally. I require commitment solely to me. I want obsession and possessiveness. These are things that I will bring into a relationship, so I want someone who will compliment me in this regard.
My territorial nature extends beyond romantic relationships. When I was child I hated when other children would get too close to my mother or grandmother. Even though not as extreme now, I am still a little irritated when others try to get their affection. I am also an only child, so perhaps that plays into it.
Anyway, if polygamous relationships work for you then you absolutely should pursue them. It is a strong no for me though.
Did y'all hear the news that Your Sky is getting a Japanese remake? Idk how I feel about this news. I feel like it's too soon for a remake, but I'll still watch it because I loved Your Sky
I didn't know. It feels a bit early but maybe I have this feeling because I only watched it this year. I will probably watch it.
p43425:
An open letter (desperate plea) to @P'Aoftion:
Tutor and Yim will both turn 26 this summer. Their biological clocks are ticking. Please give them a really good, serious, well-written, non-stupid-comedy BL love story drama before they reach their sell-by date.
What age do you think BL actors should stop acting. Come to think of it most BL actors I watch and follow is all below 35 I think
mile-apo is past 30 and they're still looking good doing bls
What's everyone's view on polygamous relationships.
I'm always been one for polygamous relationships as i feel like wouldn't be able to give the right amount of attention and care to an individual if I was in a monogamous relationship and so I don't want to feel burdened and allow the individualall the attention and care they deserve alongside me being in the relationship.
I've tried quite a bit: 2 relationships at the same time, Vee relationship, monogamous.
I have had a few relationships running in parallel, often because one was close to the end while the other just started. But never longer than a couple of months with 2 relationships. The worst I experienced was in 2 different countries, the logistic was crazy.
My only Vee relationship lasted 2 years and while both my partners were fantastic, after a while I felt exhausted: after the initial euphoria (the one where you sleep little but love big) I started to feel like I was constantly running behind on time, love, energy, sex… you name it, as if it was never enough. I ended up spending my whole time trying to make it work between 2 partners, 1 demanding full-time job and my friends & family. You get it, I burnt out and completely lost myself in the process.
So I decided to stop it all, and I've been monogamous since then. On top I prioritize myself and put my relationship with myself first. It may sound weird or egoistic but it has been one of my best decisions so far. My partner is aware of it and fine with it, as long as there is no other partner. He knows he will never get my whole care and attention and love, because some will always go to me.
RXinw:
Yes indeed!
This is space is more of a community than a mere club or group. While we are strongly BL focused and always aim to keep things BL relevant, we discussed and share so much here. It is because we share so many of our personal stories, our ups and downs, birthday wishes and offer support to each other, a family type atmosphere has been established. There are even in person meet ups happening between members.
There is also the fact that we keep things kind and respectful in how we interact with each other, which makes persons feel free to share their different opinions and beliefs without fear, and oftentimes when you think you are alone in your opinion you find others of like mind that agree with your point.
very well said!
on a different note, have you watched Dangerously Sweet? It's a fiery JBL vertical, I saw some episodes in YT but I think only until ep 9 is there. I'm looking for the rest
Speaking of older BL actors, I see you Max 😏
hot, but why is he smoking huhuhu
Portugalia67:
So I decided to stop it all, and I've been monogamous since then. On top I prioritize myself and put my relationship with myself first. It may sound weird or egoistic but it has been one of my best decisions so far. My partner is aware of it and fine with it, as long as there is no other partner. He knows he will never get my whole care and attention and love, because some will always go to me.
i think self-love is the most overlooked kind of love. we tend to give our all to someone which later on drains us in the process. and i'm not good at self-love when i'm in a relationship, that's why it's either i have to learn it before going into another relationship, or continue the relationship i have now, with myself =D
jazme:
mile-apo is past 30 and they're still looking good doing bls
On the other end when you watch My Sweetheart Jom, you just ask yourself what Saint is still doing in the BL industry (and he's not even 30).
I don't think there is an age limit, it definitively depends on various factors: the storyline, the characters, the actors and the pairing. Boom Raveewit is 34 and he nailed it in Top Form. Krist and Singto are over 30 and back together as a BL pairing. On the other end BL actors like Mek or Mew completely disappeared from BL dramas when they reached 30, as soon as they couldn't (or didn't want to) play school boys / young students anymore.
Maybe if there were more adult BL stories, actors would continue playing in BL series as main leads (and not as a guest appearance, in an older brother role, or a cameo) well after 35.
