Obviously older female/younger male but with FL is care/protect ML  , sometimes they know each other since younger days ect.

If you're familiar with japanese media you know what i am talking about

It's the onee-chan archetype/personality

Not looking for any cradle robber shows.

Thanks

Possibly The Sweetest Secret  and My Fated Boy  (6 year age gap, both are adults before the relationship begins, both couples knew each other since childhood). And Lighter & Princess has no age gap/childhood together but the FL is extremely protective and caring toward the ML.

 emeraldarrows:

Possibly The Sweetest Secret  and My Fated Boy  (6 year age gap, both are adults before the relationship begins, both couples knew each other since childhood). And Lighter & Princess has no age gap/childhood together but the FL is extremely protective and caring toward the ML.

Super thanks, please let me know if you got more, kor or jp  are also welcome.

 emeraldarrows:

Maybe 30 Kin Sore wa 30-sai Miman Okotowari no Koi? ML falls in love with FL because she looks after him at work. The age gap is pretty big but both are adults.

I dropped that drama after few episodes, this is a text book example of cradle robber.

I'm not sure about the limit age (but there shouldn't be anything with ten years age-gap but I'm not sure either, please check them first) but here are some dramas I like:

Destined to Meet You (fl thinking ml and her sleeping together and fl wants to take responsibility since ml is younger but actually it's part of ml's strategy to get close to fl so fl will choose him as her upcoming marriage partner) - fl wants to take care of ml but somehow I remember ml is better at taking care of her

Falling into You (ml want fl to train him so he try to attract her attention by showing his high jump, ml is whiny and cute.  Fl then become ml's coach) - fl takes care ml in everything, like a normal coach

Long Vacation (fl and ml becoming roommate after fl's fiancee-who used to be ml's roommate-left her on the wedding day with all of the money. Lively fl makes gloomy ml becoming happier) - my all time favorite, fl is the caring type

Reply 1988 (fl and ml are the same age and neighbours, along with another 3 boys of the same age, 1 older boy, 1 older girl, 1 younger boy and 1 younger girl) - fl takes care of ml since he's a go genius who practically can't do anything other than go

Why Women Love (fl is ml's boss but ml is company's heir, the company owner wish she could teach him about the company. Fl is useless at anything other than works while ml is great at almost everything but he doesn't like to work) - here fl takes care ml at the company but ml takes care of her foods, he's a great cook

@Iris_YangHJ

Reply 1988  dropped it because i didn't like the ML, SML is much more better.

Long Vacation its a ok drama but FL is damsel in distress and Her brother and her are super toxic.

 dramalistsite:
Reply 1988  dropped it because i didn't like the ML, SML is much more better.

I also think sml is better, but ml is much braver in expressing his love towards fl, that's why they ends up together.

 dramalistsite:
Her brother and her are super toxic

Her brother is free-spirited and a walking red flag indeed. But I don't remember fl being toxic, probably when she forcefully her idea of living a happy life on ml? Then maybe she is a quite toxic, but she is arguably the reason ml grown up as a pianist.

@Iris_YangHJ 

>Reply 1988  

Its pure favoritism from the writer, despite the character growth and story progression some writers  just make some characters win for no reason.  same with Gyeryongsunnyeojeon drama.

>Long Vacation

I watched it 18 years ago i think, memory is kind of fussy,  i remember FL uses ML as meal ticket and keep  distracting ML so her A**hole brother can have the SFL. 


I don't think FL and her brother never loved anyone, FL  just want someone to settle down she don't like to end up as himono-onna/christmas cake because all the her friends are married and she is too old. Brother is just a human trash, he just use others for fun. Both FL and brother never cared about other people feeling.

 dramalistsite:
Its pure favoritism from the writer

I heard the writer even want to kill sml on a jet crash, gladly she's not. Actually sml is very cute since fl being sent to accompany sml to a go match abroad. My younger brother even called him cute.

 dramalistsite:
i remember FL uses ML as meal ticket and keep  distracting ML so her A**hole brother can have the SFL

Sorry, it's my bad. I watch it like 5 times and all I remember is the positive things.

Indeed fl usually ask ml to treat her since she's broke from being abandoned by her fiancee on the exact wedding day and that fiancee steals all of their money. Ml is feeling guilty that's why he lets her live-in and he's also pretty generous to fl. Actually fl cancel her wedding to her boss-a photographer-because he loves ml-so I think she really love ml and she want him to be happy, I remember she try to matchmaking ml and sfl and giving courage to ml to ask out sfl.

But I can't defend the brother, really. I once thought the brother really love sml but then he's back to his ex. I'm speechless. Innocent girl always fall to bad boy, and bad boy only want something new.

@autumn iris  

> Actually fl cancel her wedding to her boss-a photographer-because he loves ml-so I think she really love ml and she want him to be happy, 

didn't she slept with the ML on the same day of accepting wedding proposal from the photographer guy?

Haha, perhaps I'm really only remembering the good stuffs.

Then you probably need to check the trailer of my other recommendations in case they don't suit your search.

Cinderella at 2 AM  I don't know how much older she is, but she's obviously older (his baby face actually put me off) and she's caring. Not my fave, just the last drama I finished and it fits with your description (except they didn't grow up together)

I need romance 3 Have not watched but I think it fits since she used to be his baby sitter

My Lovely Sam Soon and My Name Is Busaba 

Oh! My Lady 

Protect the Boss I'm not sure about the ages, but there's a strong, strong noona romance vibe. 

Encounter 

 autumn iris:

Haha, perhaps I'm really only remembering the good stuffs.

Then you probably need to check the trailer of my other recommendations in case they don't suit your search.

probably  😄 , thanks for links.

 mahiba:

Cinderella at 2 AM  I don't know how much older she is, but she's obviously older (his baby face actually put me off) and she's caring. Not my fave, just the last drama I finished and it fits with your description (except they didn't grow up together)

I need romance 3 Have not watched but I think it fits since she used to be his baby sitter

My Lovely Sam Soon and My Name Is Busaba 

Oh! My Lady 

Protect the Boss I'm not sure about the ages, but there's a strong, strong noona romance vibe. 

Encounter 

watched everything except the encounter (dropped it).  I need romance 3 is really good you should watch when you got some free time.

 dramalistsite:

watched everything except the encounter (dropped it).  I need romance 3 is really good you should watch when you got some free time.

You really like that trope uh! ^^

Ok, I need romance 3 is actually on my watchlist, never got around to it. I think I'll do it now, since I'm on a major slump right now. Btw if you've got an idea of some drama that could get me out of it, please share (preferably something short and/or easy?