I'm looking for drama recommendations where the ML is in love with FL but she hates him, she gets memory loss, and he tries to get her to love him?

Not exactly but very close, possibly...

There is an ongoing Turkish drama ( Stranger in the Mirror) -  FL hates the ML to the core. She found his secret ( we don't know what it is). He is obsessed with her. She tries to escape him with her daughter, but her daughter gets taken back. She gets a full face plastic surgery to take her daughter back and escape him but she ends up losing her memory of everything after surgery. 

Wong Wien Hua Jai (2021)