This thread is discussing alot about the state of consent. I think she allowed A lot of it because a wife in ancient Chinese culture doesnt have the right to deny her husband. To her it’s part of her duties like drawing a bath for him, etc. the times where she’s truly pissed with him she denies him completely and he complies. But their acts in bed are always aggressive and rarely enjoyable for her. I also felt like there were times when she felt that it was the only way to connect with him, if that makes sense.
id like to explicitly say. Women, and especially wives have the right to say no. Unfortunatel, this has not always been the case historically,