Coming of Age
Recommendations for coming of age films - a work in progress because my brain is old, even if I have a lot of time for young people figuring themselves out.
Japan will be well represented because they excel at CoA imo. Comments are sparse for several though, as I saw them through JFF online festivals before I got in the habit of writing good summaries. Many are hard to find elsewhere, let alone legally.
Thailand too, because the warmth and kindness they put in so many of their films and series works especially well with youth/CoA. Also, it's much easier to get the internet to cough up copies of old Thai movies <3
Not ranked. Alphabetical by country.
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1. A Muse Never Drowns
Japanese Movie - 2022
The loneliness of the first half was difficult for me but the ending made up for it.
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2. Follow the Light
Japanese Movie - 2021
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3. Itomichi
Japanese Movie - 2021
Coming of age done a bit differently.
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4. Love My Life
Japanese Movie - 2006
Japanese (slightly older) coming of age, unhurried slice of life, low angst, and LGBT+ affirmative. It's fantastic.
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5. My Small Land
Japanese Movie - 2022
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6. Single8
Japanese Movie - 2023
Another focused on creativity, a visual art and finding your own voice. High school students work together, with the help of a uni film student and a history teacher, pushing themselves, their skills and ingenuity to make a short science fiction film with meaning. It left me with a big smile.
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7. The Lines that Define Me
Japanese Movie - 2022
The lines of this film shift from delicate to joyful to bold to struggle to fulfilling, embodying the ethos of its story of finding your own lines in art and traditional forms, the ones rooted in your own emotions and the life in them.
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8. See You
Taiwanese Movie - 2024
I don't think I've ever seen a moody teenage boy used so effectively, and certainly not to carry an entire film on his complicated, thin shoulders.
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9. Dew the Movie
Thai Movie - 2019
It took 17 months, 16 lakorns and some 60 Thai movies (plus the deeply flawed SK original) between 1st and 2nd time seeing this for my brain to know what to do with the utter immensity of the emotions in this. But this 2nd time, those emotions fit into their intended places. It is a magnificent, if heart-wrenchingly difficult, film.
One of my measures of good CoA Is how long the kids stay in my mind. More than any other, this is the one which will not let me go. -
10. Dorm
Thai Movie - 2006
Gentle, sensitive film about a kind boy who befriends a ghost.
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11. Flat Girls
Thai Movie - 2025
Devastatingly good. Often ambiguous, often understated, so full of emotion.
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12. The Love of Siam
Thai Movie - 2007
Excellent coming of age interwoven with a family drama after their sister/daughter goes missing.
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13. May Who?
Thai Movie - 2015
Goofy, clever, funny, warm and kind. Super-charged teenage emotions rendered as literal electricity and manga that's integral to the story.
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14. Suckseed
Thai Movie - 2011
Some 2 hour Thai movies take their time meandering around their world; this one careens chaotically from one bit of nonsense to another, creating a mad story of friendship, music and first love.
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15. Where We Belong
Thai Movie - 2019
Slow, quiet coming of age focused on high school girls trying to find their way into adulthood. The visual story-telling is so strong I'm struggling to find adequate words. Patience required but highly recommend.
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16. Yes or No
Thai Movie - 2010
The sweetest coming of age movie with teenage girls figuring out themselves and their love.
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17. 'Cause You're My Boy
Thai Drama - 2018, 12 episodes
One of two series I'm including here as CoA, both are rough around the edges and both left me hoping that the kids are doing alright, like they were real and not just characters.
In this one, the wonky editing etc match the unpolished awkwardness of teenage boys as they veer chaotically from bravado to vulnerability to just being awkward teenage boys. I didn't expect to care about them so very much.
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18. Nha Harn
Thai Drama - 2022, 8 episodes
CoA/youth series with a raw vibrancy which really drew me in by the end. Another where the characters felt so real.

















