I have learned hard way before starting any drama find out if there is love triangle or not. if yes, who's gonna end up with whom & keep rooting for winner so you don't end up with heartbreak.
because he thought she didn't like him because he took her by force
so rather then being extra nice & kinder to woman he likes, he goes on to be extra hostile towards her & completely isolate her for 3 years. nah, you are right this man is hero not a loser.