Nabi

So sex is the glue that keeps a marriage? Okay, got it.

The world doesn’t revolve around her. If you want to be selfish don’t get married and stay on your own. Self love doesn’t mean you shouldn’t consider other people’s emotions and how your actions affect them.

I’m in no way supporting her . I just don’t think that the abortion was the reason for the divorce. Cause if it was he would’ve been the one instigating it. He said it himself, he was busy and she was pulling away. He didn’t feel concerned cause things like that happen in long term relationships.
I just think she was selfish all the way. Always seeking her own happiness and never caring who got hurt in the process.

We need to know the timeline of events. But I don’t think she blamed him. She must just have been naive enough to think that there would be fiery passion at every point in their marriage.

I honestly started crying when I heard that. Sometimes things like this happen and it’s not your fault that they couldn’t cherish you but it’s hard to avoid the feeling of being inadequate. The feeling of not being enough for them to love and stay with.
How could you be a 30 something year old woman and you were still that “immature”. You weren’t a teenager in love or a twenty something year old. You were a full grown woman who should’ve known better.
I’m just happy that he realised it wasn’t his fault. He deserves to move forward and find happiness for himself.

His ex-wife’s character is so confusing. What did she mean by if he stuck around he would’ve been the father of her child. She was the one who asked for a divorce after feeling like their marriage was boring
But I love how the ML has finally moved on from his ex-wife. He can now be emotionally available to love someone else. I hope there will be a romantic relationship between him and the fl

The infamous white truck in all dramas. That truck must be driven by the grim reaper😂

You’re right, his reaction shouldn’t have been immediate joy but rather, understanding that it was a conversation they should have about how to move forward.
But I don’t think he actively wanted to have a child but when it happened he still felt happy. I feel like it was one of those things that when it happened it brought so much joy to him but he wouldn’t have gone out of his way to make it happen. His anger comes from the fact that they were in a happy marriage and she still didn’t t carry him along with everything.

I agree getting an abortion doesn’t make you a shitty person. On the other hand deciding to get an abortion without informing your partner about your decision and then lying when asked does. . He did respect her wishes, he never hounded her about having children, never messed with her birth control or condom. But it is understandable why he would be happy. He has seen how good their married life has been and experienced been a dog’s dad with Hash so his mindset had shifted.
Honestly I also don’t think she expected him to end the marriage. She would’ve thought that he would have eventually “gotten over it”. She said it herself that the child would have been his if he stuck around. Is she enrolled to changing her mind but he isn’t?. He wasn’t unkind to her during their marriage, he just decide to choose self-respect rather than being with someone who didn’t deem it fit to tell him about their child but rather decided to terminate it on her own.. I would also be resentful. Why does have deserve happiness when he was denied the chance to have a say in what happened to his child?
She might not be a villainess but she is one hell of a selfish person.

Exactly! She should have kept in the loop about the entire pregnancy and reminded him of their earlier agreement before moving forward with the abortion. Instead of just blindsiding him. He went from being a father to not being one in in an instant.

Honestly this comment just rubs me the wrong way and it’s sounds like you hate how kdramas nowadays seem to support women. Correct me if I’m wrong but no female character has supported what his ex is doing. Everyone knows she is a shitty person. I can understand her not being ready to have a child but where is the part about discussing things with your partner. Let me not even bring up her recent comment about him not sticking with her and her baby hating his cologne. That being said, she is a shitty person and no reasonable person is defending her actions
What do you also expect him to do about the dog? Abandon it with her when he cares about it and get a child when he is clearly not in a good head space to be a father. He is also not simping for her. They were married and in love for crying out loud. No matter how much he hates her, a part of him still loves her and that is the sad part about being betrayed by a loved one.
So at the end of the day no one is justifying her actions. She doesn’t deserve him and he’ll eventually move on and find happiness for himself.

Those were my exact thoughts when I started watching it. It’s like legal version with a more cold male lead and the leads having no prior connection before working together 😂

Thank you for this. Most people aren't good or bad sometimes we make shitty choices. Sometimes we do things that are morally grey.

I loved that part so much but I wish she stayed angry longer and actually became the villain she said she would. I desperately want her to be mean to him after all the nonsense he's done.

It's like he's trying to ruin his chances with her😭. She would've been done with putting up with all his crap if not for his tragic past. But I actually like them together and the ending of the 5th episode looks promising. Looks like he's going to start accepting his feelings fingers crossed

I'm not really sure what actually went down but I think what happened was that at that time the Grandpa was paying the reporter to follow and give him news on his daughter which eventually led to the car chase that killed her which is why he felt guilty. That's why when Ah-jeong's family was watching videos about Do-Han's family it was said that the Grandpa didn't really follow up the case or prosecute the reporter but instead hurrridly closed the whole case. This would also explain why in the beginning the Grandpa said that Ji-Han is his fault which is probably in reference to his trauma and the guilt he feels.

I agree with everything you said. The brothers just really need to communicate and talk about their feelings. Because if we want to start nitpicking at JH we have to do the same for DH. He basically pressured his friend into a contract marriage which could ruin her career and any future relationship she could possibly have for his own selfish reason. He's also very self obsessed cause I don't think I've ever seen him being a caring brother to his younger brother. And how could he say that to his brother, that he's not his father. We know that is true but some things are left better unsaid.

Exactly. I feel like he came to the realization that the only way they can survive in that family is when they hold power and since he can't do it for himself his brother should do it. I guess we can all call him selfish but at the end of the day he's just a kid who wants to survive.

I think what happened was that at that time the Grandpa was paying the reporter to follow and give him news on his daughter which eventually led to the car chase that killed her which is why he felt guilty. That's why when Ah-jeong's family was watching videos about Do-Han's family it was said that the Grandpa didn't really follow up the case or prosecute the reporter but instead hurrridly closed the whole case. This would also explain why in the beginning the Grandpa said that Ji-Han is his fault which is probably in reference to his trauma and the guilt he feels.

I hope this misunderstanding that FL has doesn't last for long. I don't want her to push him away because she thinks he's dating someone else. She must have a lot of self control by being able to start Park Min-Hwa and and Su-Min. I would've beat the shit out of them by now