Actually we should blame the parents as well... KSH'S PARENTS for raising him (&his also sketshy brother).As well…
didn't he have a younger half-sister too? i don't want to make other assumptions about his family because k-netizens have already bashed his family enough, but honestly i just feel everyone should stop blaming her parents. they're the only ones who are seeking justice for their daughter right now and they're not even asking for money. do people really think they don't know they have failed their dead daughter? do people really think they need everyone to tell them how much they have failed as parents? of course they know deep down in their hearts. they don't need the world to tell them that 100 million times. they're already in pain. have some compassion, is what i'm saying. that kind of criticism is completely unhelpful in helping them obtain justice for sae ron! people keep forgetting the real issue here --- they shift the focus from kim soo hyun to the poor parents! people keep thinking, wow, all his money, all his career, gone. so what!? all of kim soo hyun's wealth could not bring back sae ron from the dead! all of kim soo hyun's wealth could not bring back the years and the innocence he stole from her! so seriously, people. stop blaming sae ron's parents already. if you say you want justice served, then know your fucking priority. know who the real monster is. and it's not sae ron's parents. it's kim soo hyun.
Goblin is a fictional story. How tf do you relate with a 900 yo immortal dating a 19-29 yo? Seriously? And if…
i think you meant snow white? with snow white, the dwarves encased her in a glass coffin. but i was talking about sleeping beauty. there were no dwarves.
stop blaming the parents. lay the blame on kim soo hyun. i'm sick of people who keep trying to say "yes her parents are at fault also" i'd really like to know how many people in this world are perfect parents. even the best parents wouldn't be able to shield their child from harm if their child was determined to hide, with the manipulation of a predator.
and as a child, have honestly told your parents every single thing about your boyfriends? did you tell your parents every single little thing that happened to you? how many of you have hidden things from your parents? and have successfully done so? would you blame your parents for the things you have successfully hid from them?
so you think the best parent is the only parent who found out and took care of things before anything happened?
all these excuses are simply deflecting from the real issue --- holding the predator accountable. predators often manipulate children into keeping secrets, using fear, guilt, emotions. a child who is groomed may actively hide from their parents, even if they have a trusting relationship.
i'm not a parent, btw, but i know parents have their own responsibilities, challenges, and limitations. expecting them to monitor every aspect of their child’s life is unreasonable and ignores the realities of parenting.
don't flatter yourself too much if you're a parent, thinking you wouldn't have allowed a predator to prey on your child. have some compassion for the victim and her family! the problem is not parenting. the problem is that society isn't strict enough with predators. the problem is society still tries to shift the partial blame onto everyone else instead of the predator. the problem is society doesn't hold predators 100% accountable.
some of you may think you're just being "fair" by shifting part of the blame to the parents, the child, and everyone else but solely on the predator. by doing that, you're ignoring the fact that predators are skilled manipulators who actively work to deceive both children and adults.
this is how they continue to prey on your children and other people's children. this is how they manage to get through loopholes in the legal system because society, for some fucked up reason, still tends to believe that the predator is not to be blamed 100%. this behaviour and mindset completely fails to address the issue of grooming and sexual exploitation of minors!
this is why people need to have the ability to separate fiction and reality.an on-screen oppa is not a real person.he…
so you're the kind who doesn't want to work and let your parents feed you and take care of everything. gotcha. thanks for telling us how privileged you are.
Perhaps you should check first what grooming is. There is no such thing in Goblin.
you obviously don't know what grooming means.
Grooming = a process by which an adult builds an emotional connection with a minor (or someone vulnerable) to gain their trust, manipulate them, and eventually exploit them, often for sexual purposes. It is a form of emotional manipulation and abuse, and it is NEVER the fault of the victim.
"recovery isn't impossible" look at how society pampers predators like him. had it been a woman who groomed a minor, what do you think would happen? she would have been cancelled overnight. there's no way a case would have dragged out for so long had it been a woman.
this is why people need to have the ability to separate fiction and reality.an on-screen oppa is not a real person.he…
lmfao why should the parents be punished? they've already said they don't want money, they just want an apology and here you are, attacking the parents of a dead girl when they're the only ones who are seeking justice for their dead daughter. ahh, the smell of a pedo defender is strong.
Goblin is a fictional story. How tf do you relate with a 900 yo immortal dating a 19-29 yo? Seriously? And if…
in the original story of sleeping beauty, she is older than the prince by 100 years. she had been sleeping for 100 years before he found her in the tower. then they got married. so what are you saying, ban this fairy tale?
While its been some time i am seeing this comments and accusing kim soo-hyun dating 18 or 19 ( i dont know) may…
this is why people need to have the ability to separate fiction and reality. an on-screen oppa is not a real person. he is a character portrayed by an actor. the actor plays the role, and when the camera stops rolling, he goes home, and becomes himself. he is a person completely different from the character he plays. it's a job. and when he goes to interviews, he puts on another face again, and he acts like someone whom the audience can accept. i wish people would stop confusing a fictional story with real life, i wish people would stop confusing a character with a real person.
lmao "linked to the chinese goverment" is something i will not take seriously. garosero is not doing sae ron's family any favours by doing this. he's just making this into a joke. if he cares about helping them, he should stop this crap and focus on kim soo hyun instead.
Nowadays, it's hard to have a boyfriend or girlfriend and break up after years because if something happens to…
yeah it's so hard man, like, because it's totally normal for a 27-year-old guy to be with a 15-year-old gf. i walk around in her house with my banana out, so normal. why are they attacking me for that? don't guys walk around in their gf houses with their bananas out? i was only kissing my gf in the photos, ok. i was only writing letters to her when i was in the military! she was just like, what, 17? and i was 30. there's nothing wrong with that. so i hit that young meat for 6 years then i decided 21 is too old for me. of course she needs to pay me back because she fucked up, after i fucked up her life. totally normal. not my fault! why are you cancelling me?! let me make more money in peace so i can buy my 4th luxury apartment, goddamn! at least i still have my dumb fans to support me. thanks so much. i won't remember your faces by the way, but thanks so much.
- her parents
- cyberbullies
- her "husband"
- her "best friend"
- the court will prevail
they're the only ones who are seeking justice for their daughter right now and they're not even asking for money.
do people really think they don't know they have failed their dead daughter?
do people really think they need everyone to tell them how much they have failed as parents?
of course they know deep down in their hearts.
they don't need the world to tell them that 100 million times. they're already in pain. have some compassion, is what i'm saying.
that kind of criticism is completely unhelpful in helping them obtain justice for sae ron!
people keep forgetting the real issue here --- they shift the focus from kim soo hyun to the poor parents!
people keep thinking, wow, all his money, all his career, gone.
so what!?
all of kim soo hyun's wealth could not bring back sae ron from the dead!
all of kim soo hyun's wealth could not bring back the years and the innocence he stole from her!
so seriously, people. stop blaming sae ron's parents already.
if you say you want justice served, then know your fucking priority.
know who the real monster is.
and it's not sae ron's parents. it's kim soo hyun.
but i was talking about sleeping beauty. there were no dwarves.
i'm sick of people who keep trying to say "yes her parents are at fault also"
i'd really like to know how many people in this world are perfect parents.
even the best parents wouldn't be able to shield their child from harm if their child was determined to hide, with the manipulation of a predator.
and as a child, have honestly told your parents every single thing about your boyfriends?
did you tell your parents every single little thing that happened to you?
how many of you have hidden things from your parents? and have successfully done so?
would you blame your parents for the things you have successfully hid from them?
so you think the best parent is the only parent who found out and took care of things before anything happened?
all these excuses are simply deflecting from the real issue --- holding the predator accountable.
predators often manipulate children into keeping secrets, using fear, guilt, emotions. a child who is groomed may actively hide from their parents, even if they have a trusting relationship.
i'm not a parent, btw, but i know parents have their own responsibilities, challenges, and limitations. expecting them to monitor every aspect of their child’s life is unreasonable and ignores the realities of parenting.
don't flatter yourself too much if you're a parent, thinking you wouldn't have allowed a predator to prey on your child. have some compassion for the victim and her family!
the problem is not parenting. the problem is that society isn't strict enough with predators. the problem is society still tries to shift the partial blame onto everyone else instead of the predator. the problem is society doesn't hold predators 100% accountable.
some of you may think you're just being "fair" by shifting part of the blame to the parents, the child, and everyone else but solely on the predator.
by doing that, you're ignoring the fact that predators are skilled manipulators who actively work to deceive both children and adults.
this is how they continue to prey on your children and other people's children.
this is how they manage to get through loopholes in the legal system because society, for some fucked up reason, still tends to believe that the predator is not to be blamed 100%.
this behaviour and mindset completely fails to address the issue of grooming and sexual exploitation of minors!
thanks for telling us how privileged you are.
Grooming = a process by which an adult builds an emotional connection with a minor (or someone vulnerable) to gain their trust, manipulate them, and eventually exploit them, often for sexual purposes. It is a form of emotional manipulation and abuse, and it is NEVER the fault of the victim.
look at how society pampers predators like him.
had it been a woman who groomed a minor, what do you think would happen?
she would have been cancelled overnight.
there's no way a case would have dragged out for so long had it been a woman.
she had been sleeping for 100 years before he found her in the tower.
then they got married.
so what are you saying, ban this fairy tale?
an on-screen oppa is not a real person.
he is a character portrayed by an actor.
the actor plays the role, and when the camera stops rolling, he goes home, and becomes himself. he is a person completely different from the character he plays.
it's a job. and when he goes to interviews, he puts on another face again, and he acts like someone whom the audience can accept.
i wish people would stop confusing a fictional story with real life,
i wish people would stop confusing a character with a real person.
where's her phone from 2016?
lmao i'm really amazed at the low brain cell count of KSH supporters
i was only kissing my gf in the photos, ok. i was only writing letters to her when i was in the military!
she was just like, what, 17? and i was 30. there's nothing wrong with that.
so i hit that young meat for 6 years then i decided 21 is too old for me. of course she needs to pay me back because she fucked up, after i fucked up her life. totally normal. not my fault! why are you cancelling me?! let me make more money in peace so i can buy my 4th luxury apartment, goddamn!
at least i still have my dumb fans to support me. thanks so much. i won't remember your faces by the way, but thanks so much.