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Nah people will still say its not enough bsc its not 50:50 or even 40% of his effort haha.

Have fun haha

haha update me on that haha GL

EP 28?. You cant ask me really I am really bias now in the show now. Hahaha. As long the scene focuses on the main lead I am happy LOL. As for what i love is the acting as I mentioned. The fear, sadness and anger on the leads are very well potray in my opinion. That said I am bias. Need to watch for yourself to judge.

came out at 11.50 my time and skip the opening and ending then the show that about 30+ min yea...feel likes 5min thou.

Emphasis on the acting on EP28. I know SY will be fine yes its sad he got stiches but as a viewer I know he is fine and its going to like a heartfelt talk.


That said ZRN acting in the car really make me believe he is in trouble her moment of sadness become anger bsc he choose to play the hero *chef kiss*...she was so scared the whole ride and BJT heartfelt talk the sadness in his eyes finally really catching up to her shadow.

I need them in another drama that is confirmed!!!
Said it many time here but wow really.

Soy people mindset, Heartbreak is as traumatic as, a young person with abandonment issue, constant berating and SA. I mean I whom never go through it and as SY mention in EP 28 a moment of losing pride and ego does not even match her match suffering. I myself also understands that even without needing to go through it. That said alot people cant its funny really.

Why are you still watching if there is so much disappointment?. Hahahah or rather if you're not watching why are you here always. Its funny you this kinda people have nothing better to do in life is it? Like If i dislike any drama I would just not check on anything bsc I don't have the time for it. You all are too free in life lady. Maybe get a life first ? So luxurious made me think of SY too actually too free in life all he has to worry is be with a lady and nothing else.

Funny, i never like those two drama but love TFF. I love how not getting love back is not having any self respect when he is literally senior of a development team, owner of a bar and have good family. He have bunch of good friends. He knows his worth and he know only WYF matches that worth not any other lady. My man have standard. He chase standard and never settle for less. My man takes up challenges. You could learn to be like him rather whatever your opinion is. What you see as no self respect in the end is his choice of love and what got to do with you or anyone else? He got her in the end this time fully understood her and her fully opening up to him. You think you don't know him but over 28 EP i know him very well. If you were to explore his life it will end in just 5 Ep or less.

IN HL we see how good the family is and in here too the Sang sibiling is brought up with love and they in turn knows how to shower love to other. SY found his lover and for her made a promise to go Nanwu Uni together in that moment he also studied hard when the family also gave up on saying him in his education. What else you want to say about SY? How much more you want to know him as a person? He is only ever emotional when thing get notice about WYF. He ignores other ladies and stayed true. He is succesful in his work. Invested in a bar. My man has his whole life of success and you still dont see or "know him". In the 24 EP i know him fully. LOL. He never disregard himself and drown in sorrow but work up his way too. That is also part of him building his worth.

Just because my man is a loser in love he is overall no self respect? Even if he is a loser like the title state "I may be a loser in name but I am only a loser to WYF". His live is full of success. Its not fully shown but in every talk and his work shows that.

What make this drama different is it shows in the comment itself people are all very calculative. everything need to match the effort. You place your own low standard and put on SY. These are the type of lady he will ignore because he knows his worth. WYF to him is worth it and in my eyes they are bsc why when they are together only she is able to bring him joy in life, is also due to her he strive to be the best version of himself. I respect this kinda man. It's always easy to "find better one" but it's never easy to be loyal especially when during the time they are together she shower him with love too.

Not because he is just whatever people call it "simp" its all due to a very good life upbringing that shape this sibling to give love people. The parents imo did very very good. To me that is not a loser lol. To me that is a man who knows what he wants and strive for it.

In a negative way I also can say, SY is too free in life and due to his success he have nothing to worry about all his friends are there and no family issue and family always supported him. HE was too free in life and with no life struggles. He choose something difficult. LOL.

If the lady is normal the drama would end in 3 EP too LOL or like other drama the ex will come so many misunderstanding and drama happen then we just wait for all the sweet and lovely word. In which this case it just shows a lady that has weakness mentally but is also strong bsc of all the harrestment and self - worth degrading and abandonment by her family she survive. Her method right or wrong is her flight and fight response. It helps her survive all those years. It will help her get rid of trouble around SY in which is the main reason she left be it wrong choice ended up hurting both of them.

How is bloody SZ not living with a sole purpose of courting DJX? Ohh because DJX never ditch her as DJX is more normal he is just insecure but nothing more. LOL. SZ was even younger swooning over DJX. While SY was at least at High school before he found the one LOL.

Overall, hate it, love it or on the fence. i think its a very great drama and it not even ending yet but enable everyone to start this type of discussion. Shows you people are all different. Which is nice. Sometimes all the too sweet drama with linear story just will gain swoon over swoon which is not bad thing is great for the drama everyone love it but to me who seen so many drama in my life from english, Japan, korean and chinese, hongkon drama storyline of thing cam really just be mash up and similar haha. This kinda drama is really fun to watch and talk about.

I am sorry I did.

Yes in the end all to their own. Everyone has their own way to interpreted thing like this not everyone really went through the same things and is the net we cant be sure who is right or not too. Its all just a small discussion to pick on our minds. In which i applaud this drama doing so. The small change in the novel can spark very different and various opinion.

I respect that to me you just come off as very calculative person seeing what you type. I apologise on this its me being judgmental over the wording.

I know where you are coming from but what you said most of the thing are what a married couple should be in my opinion. During the relationship stage everything will happen and can happen. That where we figure out weather is worth for us or not and in SY case he think is worth. He understood her the 2nd time she leave. He did not hate her as he did the 1st time bsc the 2nd time he totally understood her. Which drew in closer to her. I don't think that is a loser or what not. To me as long the guy like it so be it. I have a friend who is much loser than SY got ghosted before that not even so close but still think of her even after 10 years. He finally move on ever since and is very successful in his jobs and all.

Its not like SY gave up his career, etc to wait for her. He improve himself, is a superior in his team, take care of himself, opens a bar and have good buddies with him too. That is not a loser imo.

Back to my point why i say be better meaning to say everyone has their own walks of life and their ideals. same goes to SY. He just love her and think she is the one no matter what other say unless. That is also part of love. We audience can disagree but also must understanding where these thing are coming from. Is not hard to be understanding person right? Put aside out logic and ego to think on their POV.

She did not leave bsc she is in the right mind thinking she wants to leave. NO what she did is stupid and wrong but that on her she is broken. You cant expect a broken person to be sane and seek help. Then there will be no suicide.

I said all this not because who is right and wrong but for the drama and drama only i can see why they did what they did and I agree purely in this drama.

People always put themselve in the drama and use their own logic to justify thing but to me the drama is made for the drama even the novel is not that realistic. There is no way love can cure any type of trauma in mere month. Similar to this drama version but they change a bit of thing like making time skip. Still unrealistic but it works for the story they want to tell.

Do you have a partner?

Nope you don't. People saying they "understand YiFan reason BUT SY did not derserve that". Never understand YiFan if you do understand Wen Yi Fan you wont say that. You are all just placing your shoes in SY but not be SY and think he is unrealistic.

Also I am sorry. How did SY neglected his own well being? He still has his job he still went back to do his job and his friends did he cant leave work his work needs him and he went back
that is a normal mindset person would do while WYF is the one thinking she is underserving still live in cheap places and left her job and life. Her decision is STUPID but she choose to be in this situation as stupid as it sound but do you think she is in a sane mind to her only way she can have a life is with SY but she also dont believe she deserve SY that is her mindset. Is stupid but its bsc she was brainwash to think that way since living with her aunt. The moment she enjoyed her life with SY that few month uncle came back and make a scene at SY bar. You think how wonderful I need to be brave and tell SY everything in details bsc I am a sane adult broken but sane I can do it :). Love heals all of me in few month I am brave lady and as an adult I can think for myself even after years of abuse and living by herself. Yay love wins.

Well I will call you heartless bsc do you hear yourself typing, if someone is broken how will they seek help?.

If everyone is like that suicide cases wont raise every year. This people whom are broken cant seek help bsc their mindset is not in the right place. Those who came out on their own will become very strong but that is 1 or 2 out of 10 and most of them need a good support group before therapy.

You place yourself in SY shoes but not becoming him using your own ideal to justify SY pain and WYF pain as equal when its not. You equate being SA and abuse from teen to two heartbreak with different scenario one is he don't know she love him and another he is sad she cant trust him enough with her trouble. I am sorry to me those cant even be in the same level of pain. I as a guy, IF i live a good life and good parents and financially well I would not even mind two heartbreak. LOL.

That said its fine as long SY did and that all she needs in the drama. No one understand her, neglected her and only SY did not. That why call him a simp or what not but at least he really understood her.

Not everything IS BALANCED. That is fact and is also in this drama.

I dont know about other guys like as a guy when i am young i saw goku i aspire to be his level of strong so I train hard no complains.

Then watching this as a guy I also aspire to me this level of patience as an adult its hard but is something that I can work on.

Its not about weather he is realistic or not. Its who we want to be. I have buddies who is strong and more patience than me and some who don't which is fine. Everyone have their own viewpoints and life but honestly I don't go into this drama to see how real life could be and find what solace in people situation is so similar to mine? this drama is really close to that but its also a bench mark to work toward that.

SY have a career, and very high EQ person bsc his parents are very good parents even SZ is very high EQ. That said even if we don't have this type of upbringing we can choose as adult to be better instead of calling names like everyone one the net do and what setting low standards? If i have a daughter and the guy EQ is not high not to SY lvl but at least a general base understanding. I will bloody blast him out.

As a guy to you who is a guy. Be better. LOL. Pathetic. IMO

From what I know its not confirm drama. If you are talkin about Pinocchio. How I wish that drama is really confirmed. Unless I am wrong.

That too hahahaha

Owhh man how am I going to miss all the trolls and the good communication that I have here once this drama ends. Never have I been so invested in a drama and also character ZRN and BJT really need another drama together out of alot CP this two really got it hooked!. All the sadness and joyful moment is acted out so well by them. Funny to see how people critic the one face distant acting by ZRN saying she cant act to all this tearjerker moments and heartfelt moment where she nailed it imo. To debating weather BJT is too perfect or what PTSD really. Such a good time while other see it as hate and what not opinion are opinion. Soon to end hahaha.

The last i was active was during "The starry love" and this was more active than that haha.

This is where i dont get the other people opinion on ytd EP.

Imo, SY never blamed YF for leaving the 2nd time he understands her reason and it was not a breakup for him just that he is sad that he cant be that person to hold her when she fall. YF herself never see herself breaking up from either just she need to find herself in all this. (the letter could be better written) but its nitpicking.

I don't get why not many people see this maybe is the drama fault stupid writters but to me Her clarifying her leaving in beiyu also clears why she left this time to SY the 2nd as it really correlates to or rather to me its clear. After her telling him plus the thing he found in that 6 month he further understood the reason why she left. Weather the drama can expand more on it maybe but its clear to me.

The only thing in this two EP that I feel pulled me out is the call. I feel she also found her peace and ready to accept people back into her life after the dinner with the dance instructors. So in a sense I feel she should have call SY the moment she see his MSG after she opens the phone meaning she is ready to go out of the cocoon once more and not wait until the next day in the restaurant to call. That to me brought me out abit. That where i feel they fumble. Similar to past EP where MCY went up to her house. With how they do her char in drama this two thing feel off to me in the moment. Else I love it.