Lord please save me from the hands of MDL trolls, please report the account "precious Clown" I just logged out…
I blocked the user because I saw them accuse you on another drama page. Iâm not sure how my comment relates to them saying that we are the same, including Lili
Yup. 25-27th episode ruined it for me. Write off another weak woman blahhh. Always crying. Cannot decide if she…
Your account was just created a few days ago, so letâs not pretend this isnât a troll account. And no, weakness isnât defined by struggling with emotions or making difficult decisions in a complicated situation. Yi Fan isnât just "escaping" sheâs trying to navigate years of emotional baggage while figuring out what she truly wants. Standing up for herself doesnât mean handling things the way you expect. Strength looks different for different people, and dismissing that just because she doesnât act in a way that fits your definition is shallow.
This drama has birthed trolls on this page just because they dislike the drama or the female lead. There are genuine users whose critiques are valid, but Iâm pointing out the troll I just saw here. The first frost will always be that drama !!!.
Yup. 25-27th episode ruined it for me. Write off another weak woman blahhh. Always crying. Cannot decide if she…
Why are you using troll accounts here? Your take is so surface-level. Yi Fanâs struggle isnât about being "weak" itâs about dealing with a complicated family situation. Her emotions arenât redundant; theyâre realistic for someone who has been hurt but still longs for connection. Crying doesnât make her weak, and expecting her to be 100% decisive in such an emotional situation is unrealistic.
I don't think I like the FL. Don't see much expression on her! Like the ML though. He is hot!!
Yi Fanâs expressions are subtle, but thatâs because her character is naturally quiet and reserved, especially when dealing with her inner struggles. Sheâs someone who hides her emotions as a way of coping with her past trauma. As you continue watching youâll start to see different sides of her character.
I donât think the writers were trying to gloss over Yifanâs trauma or make light of it. The story is showing…
I see where you're coming from but, While episodes 24 and 25 focused on Yifan's trauma, the way episode 27 handled her healing may not have been perfect, but it still made sense within the story. Healing isnât always a linear process, and itâs not always something that can be neatly explained or shown in one episode. The writers gave us a glimpse of how sheâs processing it, and while it might have felt rushed to some, itâs part of the drama's approach to character development. It's not always about perfectly explaining every step itâs about the emotional payoff and moving the story forward.
I disagree with that. The male lead isn't a simp or pathetic he's simply a character who deeply cares and understands…
I understand your point, but I donât agree. While this drama may have a more idealized resolution, itâs still important to recognize that itâs telling a fictional story. In real life, situations are often more complex, and peopleâs reactions vary. This drama focuses on the growth and healing of the characters, and Sang Yanâs patience and understanding arenât about being a doormat, but about showing emotional maturity and unconditional love. The way the story plays out might not be realistic in every aspect, but it serves the narrative the writers are trying to tell.
I donât think the writers were trying to gloss over Yifanâs trauma or make light of it. The story is showing…
The changes in episodes 24 and 25 didnât undermine the story imo they added depth to Wen Yi Fanâs struggles. Just because some people didnât immediately see the reasoning behind her actions doesnât mean theyâre 'turning things around' now. Trauma and emotional conflict arenât always easy to accept, but that doesnât mean they werenât well-written.
I disagree with that. The male lead isn't a simp or pathetic he's simply a character who deeply cares and understands…
I donât think the relationship is as unbalanced as youâre making it seem. Wen Yi Fan isnât just apologizing and repeating mistake sheâs actively learning and growing, even if the process isnât perfect. Sang Yan chooses to be patient with her, and thatâs part of who he is. Just because a relationship isnât a perfect 50:50 split at all times doesnât mean itâs poorly written. Relationships arenât transactions; theyâre built on understanding, and this one is showing a dynamic where one partner has more emotional intelligence and chooses to support the other.
That being said, I get that the novel might have handled things differently, and I respect your opinion. But the drama isnât wrong itâs just portraying a different take on the same story."
As much as I understand Wen Yi Fan's reasons, Sang Yan didnât deserve to be treated this way. She hurt him so…
I get where you're coming from, and no one is saying that Sang Yan didnât suffer he absolutely did. But at the same time, people process love, loss, and emotional struggles differently. Just because you would let go doesnât mean everyone would. Thatâs why weâre all different human beings, shaped by different experiences and emotional capacities. For Sang Yan, letting go wasnât the right choice because he understood Wen Yi Fan in a way others might not. It wasnât just blind devotion he saw her pain, her struggles, and still chose to be there.
And yes, relationships in dramas do tend to have one person giving more, but that doesnât necessarily mean itâs unhealthy. Some people love differently, some have more patience, and some choose to wait even when others wouldnât. Itâs not about romanticizing; itâs about showing that not everyone follows the same emotional rulebook. It would be best to focus on the drama, this is not the first change made.
because the drama was so good, people invest their feeling & opinion, no wonder, comment section full of various…
I get that the drama has really sparked strong feelings, and thatâs the beauty of a well-written story people get invested in it. Calling Yifan egoistic after saying you understand her background seems a bit contradictory. If you truly understand why she acted the way she did, itâs harder to label her as just âegoist.â Sheâs dealing with deep trauma and complex emotions, and while her actions may seem misguided, theyâre part of her struggle. Itâs easy to call someone selfish when weâre on the outside looking in, but her actions are more about her fear and unresolved issues than just being egoistic.
Well, well, well, writers of The First Frost.You changed the main plot in ep 24+25, as many wrote here yesterday,…
I donât think the writers were trying to gloss over Yifanâs trauma or make light of it. The story is showing her healing process, which isnât always linear or fully explained in one or two episodes. I donât think itâs unrealistic for Yifan and Sang Yan to come together after what sheâs been through, especially if we consider their bond and the way theyâve supported each other. Sometimes, healing can be triggered by a conversation or an emotional breakthrough, and that might be what the show is trying to convey. As for the dialogue, I think itâs meant to show the depth of her feelings in a very raw, honest moment. It may feel rushed, but I believe it reflects the complexity of trauma and reconciliation. I do agree it could have been explored in more depth, but I donât think it undermines the core of the story.
This comment section is too obsessed with the word "simp." A few days ago, there was no issue about the male lead , because a partner decides to not escalate things and shows patience and understanding, it's suddenly a problem. It's frustrating how showing love and emotional support is being reduced to something negative. Relationships aren't always about keeping score or matching every effort; sometimes, it's about showing care and letting things unfold in their own time.
Chinese writers are having a competition: who can make a bigger simp of ML Character. This is seriously pathetic…
I disagree with that. The male lead isn't a simp or pathetic he's simply a character who deeply cares and understands the female lead. His patience and emotional intelligence are qualities that allow him to support her through her trauma, which is often misinterpreted as being "too much" or unrealistic.
That being said, I get that the novel might have handled things differently, and I respect your opinion. But the drama isnât wrong itâs just portraying a different take on the same story."
And yes, relationships in dramas do tend to have one person giving more, but that doesnât necessarily mean itâs unhealthy. Some people love differently, some have more patience, and some choose to wait even when others wouldnât. Itâs not about romanticizing; itâs about showing that not everyone follows the same emotional rulebook. It would be best to focus on the drama, this is not the first change made.