She told him...what she wants in the beginning itself and despite that he still wants a try. So at least be open…
But any sane man or woman will also not just think about love at the end of the day. OUR FL hasn't comprehended the intensity of her feelings imo yet. Imagine you plan your whole life and someone comes along. It's natural for it be hard to change what you planned and run along the flow. She didn't ask him to leave everything and come to Shanghai but doesn't know if choosing him over her everything is still worth the risk. It's a crossroad. Doesn't know what to do. Leave, stay or find an alternative route to satisfy both. But the good thing is till now she is communicating about how she feels about all. This is why she told him ...she told him then and she told him now. He came for her. He consented to everything after kissing her at the end of episode 12.
She told him...what she wants in the beginning itself and despite that he still wants a try. So at least be open…
Conflict of emotions is a HUMAN thing...only in fairytales you will get all the perfect world where nothing bad happens. How do u think she or he will realise how much they matter to each other without suffering. " Don't play with another Man's feelings....from what I see HE knows what is getting into!!! HE has a brain and is still responding to her signals.
She told him...what she wants in the beginning itself and despite that he still wants a try. So at least be open…
She does like him...she said it from day 1. But she doesn't know if she loves him enough to leave her everything for him yet (we viewers are able to see full picture unlike others). She has a name and a career there and Shanghai has been home to her since her school days. Why do you expect women to sacrifice it all...without giving it a thought. I honestly get your frustration but I also need to tell you how I feel about it. She doesn't expect him to leave his career and grandmother to be with her but at the same time she can't leave hers as well especially when she is cynical about love. If she ditches everything, marries him but realises after 6-7 years...about what if she did otherwise, that won't be nice either. Atleast she is telling him what she thinks for now.
i really can't understand ZJ about why she can't stay, i really tried but i can't {and ik how she loves herself…
She has a name and career there.....it's a hard decision always. Plus, only us as viewer can see that they are in love. In their perspective, they are still exploring what they can do about the situation.
She told him...what she wants in the beginning itself and despite that he still wants a try. So at least be open minded.Her frankness is the best thing about her.
" Don't play with another Man's feelings....from what I see HE knows what is getting into!!! HE has a brain and is still responding to her signals.