Sally

That’s not true. It’s slow-paced, yes, but repetitive? No unless you’re talking about the flashbacks. Those actually added context to each episode.

It never lost its charm !!!

He already had depth from HL, and here, it's not about being a perfect boyfriend but about being a good person a true gentleman. I agree it's rare to find someone like him, but such men do exist.

yes it is !!!

I agree with you. It's frustrating when people confuse emotional depth and genuine care with being a "simp" instead of seeing it as a sign of being a true gentleman. Love isn’t always about matching effort for effort; it's about understanding and supporting each other, even when things aren’t equal. Trauma, especially something as painful as sexual assault, is a different kind of pain compared to heartbreak, and they shouldn’t be seen on the same level. I think the real issue here is the lack of understanding of empathy and passion. True love requires patience and effort, even if it’s not always reciprocated immediately. It’s not about getting something back in equal measure, but about the willingness to give and support someone, regardless of the outcome.

It’s more about his emotional intelligence and his desire to help her heal. It’s not about disregarding her wishes, but about knowing when someone needs support, even if they don’t ask for it.

I don’t think some people understand what different relationship dynamics mean. If Sang Yan didn’t have emotional intelligence or didn’t understand the female lead, how would their relationship work? Relationships need mutual understanding and emotional maturity, which is what Sang Yan brings to the table. It feels like there’s a sudden outburst just because he’s a “green flag,” but he was already that way in the novel. He’s shown to have unconditional love for Yi Fan, and his maturity and upbringing make him a strong partner. There are men like this in real life too, so I don’t understand why some people are acting as if the male lead should suddenly become a bad person. The dynamics in this story show how love and understanding can help a relationship grow, not how one person has to be toxic or flawed for it to work.

It wasn’t a wrong script choice. Just because the male lead understands the female lead better than anyone else doesn’t mean he’s a “simp.” For their relationship to work, both characters need emotional intelligence, and Sang Yan definitely shows more of that. If both characters had low emotional intelligence, the relationship would struggle because there would be a lack of understanding and support. Sang Yan’s ability to understand and support Yi Fan, even when she’s distant, shows the depth of his emotional maturity. This is what allows their relationship to have a chance. In a real relationship, emotional intelligence is key to working through tough times together.

I understand where you're coming from, but I don't agree with labeling Sang Yan as a "simp." The dynamics between the characters are much more nuanced. Sang Yan’s actions aren't about blindly pursuing someone, but about understanding and caring for Yi Fan, especially considering her trauma. He never pressures her to be with him; instead, he respects her journey and supports her, even when she pulls away. It's not about him being unrealistic, but about the depth of his emotional intelligence and the way he connects with Yi Fan.

Their relationship shows a different dynamic. Sang Yan understands Yi Fan's pain and doesn’t see her flaws as something to walk away from. If he had left without trying to understand her or without the patience to support her through her healing, it would indeed be a different story. His care for her doesn’t mean he’s perfect, but it shows how love can work in a complex, non-transactional way. Bringing in "God" as a reference feels out of place in a fictional story. The drama is meant to explore human connections and vulnerabilities, not supernatural ideals.

It’s disappointing when the complexity of the female lead’s character sparks so much debate. It often seems like there’s an expectation for her decisions to always align with a specific narrative. That’s not fair, especially given the depth of her character. I really appreciate how the male lead, Sang Yan, shows understanding and care toward her, even when her choices don't fit conventional expectations. The dynamic between them highlights a different portrayal of relationships, where he doesn’t blame her for her struggles but instead supports her. If the male lead were flawed in the same way, I believe the same understanding would be given to his actions. Ultimately, I hope both characters continue to grow and understand each other more by the end of the story. And honestly, there’s nothing wrong with Sang Yan being a “green flag” here it’s just part of his character’s nature.

And when I talk about the depth of her character, I mean this in a broader sense, especially when it comes to female characters in general. Women are often expected to conform to certain ideals, but their complexity should be acknowledged and appreciated, just like any male character.

He fulfilled her dream, but that doesn’t mean he was waiting for her. If I’m not mistaken, i said fate brought them back together, and I don’t think we need to argue about it further.

i agree Male characters showing vulnerability are praised as 'deep' or 'soft,' but when female characters mess up or act on emotions, it becomes a whole issue. The double standards are everywhere, and it really shows in how people react to FLs versus MLs.

Because he wanted to help fulfill her dreams. Is that really such a bad thing?

I wrote this comment because it’s always the female leads getting bashed. He didn’t wait around for her they crossed paths again, and their feelings rekindled from there. If you don’t understand their dynamic, this drama probably won’t be for you. I’m really hoping Zhu Yi gives us a complex male lead next, just to see if people would criticize him the same way or to defend him.

It’s about time Zhu Yi give us some truly complex male leads I’d love to see if people would react the same way to them on here.

I did not mention your comment a hate comment and everyone has explained to you, it is your choice to keep watching this drama or not. Have a good day i never insulted you by the way but you seem pressed.

i believe so

I’ve been going through the comments, and if someone is repeatedly hating on a drama, then fans should feel just as free to express their love for it repeatedly.

Don’t let one person ruin your enjoyment. It’s funny how some claim it’s just a drama, yet they seem more invested in tearing it down than those who actually like it. The back and forth arguments were pretty entertaining to read, but it’s always surprising how people struggle to understand complex characters.

she feels that it is too sudden.

They've already shown plenty of him. What more do you need to see when some of his scenes were already featured in Hidden Love you posted the exact same comment about his character yesterday 😂.